Wife Baiting

Me and Janice have always had , let's say a tempestuous relationship although we always kiss and make up that's the way we are I suppose, typical Venus and Mars.At 32 and after a couple of kids she has gained a couple of pounds but still loves to please although not as often as we used to.However,after one small row the other night what was said was curious"one Morning I will come home and things will be different" .On many occasions she has told me Im the only one and things will stay that way.It was later in peace time that she confessed she had opened a dating e mail but pursued it no further.I think she could go futher but I wouldn't want our marrage to fall apart but the thought of her in bed with another guy appeals somewhat.I would love to hear from anyone who has engineered such a scheme or plans to try .Steve