Experienced vs. Inexperienced Bulls

From our experiences, although not overly extensive yet, my Mistress and I have already learned a very important difference between inexperienced and experienced "bulls", and wondered if others had noticed the same...

Inexperienced bulls often come into a new relationship with preconceived notions about what a "bull" does, what he says, and how dominant he should act - apparently from reading Internet fantasies. Sometimes they start ordering the husband around or making comments without considering that the cuckold husband's submisseness is to their wife, and not necessarily to another male.

This isn't a problem if a wife seeks only out-of-house encounters with the bull. But in a 3-way involvement, the wife must be allowed by the bull to exert control and dominance over her cuckold husband. If the bull is obstinant, or insists on being "on top" without earning that position first, then either the wife or the cuckold husband could easily have a negative reaction and the fun is over.

Anyone else's thoughts?
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