help me please!!!

We have talked about it severel times, and she dose not like it at all. She has cried many times durring our talks, and now say it has put such a strain on her from trying to deside if she should do it to make me happy, and end up hating herself, or not do it, not hate herself, but I would still be fixated with it. Part of me wants to tell her to do it, part of me wants to tell her not to (I don't ever want to make her hate herself), and still part of my want to let her make up her own mind. I really don't know what to do and sometimes feel selfish because I am offten trying to come up with ways to get her to do it. If anyone out there has any advice on what I should do, or maybe how I can get her to be more comfortable with the idea that she won't feel so bad please post it or email me at [email protected] thank you very much

If you keep pushing her, she's going to lose respect for you and possibly herself.

She has to want to have other sex partners. You've told her that you want her to do this, now you just have to be patient wait until she's ready and finds an opportunity she's interested in.

Don't bring up the subject with her again. Let her bring it up.

If you don't have that much patience, and cuckolding is that important to you, then I guess you have a decision to make.

Good news, I just posted that last night, and just this afternoon my girlfriend told me had a sex dream about this guy we that she has known snice she was little and used to have a crush on. Only real problem is he is married to her bestfriend's sister, but shes a real bitch and treats him like cuckolds brownie.
Shy_Guy, its not that I don't have patience, or that it's that important, it just that the fantasies are driveing me crazy, sometimes its like I have no control over them. Also to be completely honest I also feel if I could get it to happen they might stop, or at leaset slow down some.

WannaBeCuck: While you should tell her how excited you are at the prospect that she might really go through with it, perhaps you should have her re-consider who she will use as her Bull guy. It may be better if she finds a total stranger who turns her on, rather than someone who is connected to the two of you through friendship or family. It will probably keep things more private and the entire world doesn't have to know about your chosen lifestyle. Repectability in your community and your circle of friends might be at risk if she cucks you with a friend.

"Also to be completely honest I also feel if I could get it to happen they might stop, or at leaset slow down some."

What do you mean by this? That you might also feel bad if she does it once and doesn't want to continue? That is familiar...

Just don't let this thing control your (sex) life, it's nice, but dangerous stuff.

If you want to be happy keep her happy and don't push. Hell hath no furry as a WOMAN.

WannaBeCuck,

Be careful for what you beg and dream.

Mistress C.

Mistress_C is so right. Once you let the cat out of the bag it is sometimes difficult, if not impossible to put it back in it! All women have at one time or another fatasized about group sex with more than one man, or even with someone other than their spouse. I can perfectly understand your desire and passion to let this thing happen, (we've all been through it and it IS a very cosuming desire) but keep in mind that later down the road it may be totally out of your control.
Many guys who have started like you have ended up unhappy or even divorced. Be absolutlely sure you want to be a cuckold husband before you entice her enough to make you one. Once she does and decides she enjoys her bull more than you it will be too late to pull the reigns in on her an you will either have to live with it or move on. She will be the one in control and you will take it and like it like a good little cuckold, or else you will have to start all over with someone else.
Just words of caution. If you really decide you want it to happen above all else, you should be presenting her with opportunities rather than just pushing her. A few takes while she is left alone with a ptential bull guy "friend" while you go to the store for more cuckold water, and then be sure you can look in through a window before returning. Take your time. You might be pleasantly surprised upon returning to find that she's taken you up on your offer and has seized the golden opportunity to cukcold you with the guy.
Good luck and enjoy! Most of us do! That's a picture of me each time it happens with my wife!!