Advice request: giving wife's email address

I dont want to go into my whole history in this post, but my wife and I have gone back and forth on getting together with another guy. I should say I have gone back and forth, as after many years of prep I got her super ready to meet with a guy and I freaked out. She got annoyed and felt teased but told me that when I was ready to set it up, which in our case probably meant setting up a hotel encounter.

at any rate, I have found a guy that I think would be perfect. matches her requirements and interests exactly, which of course includes being 10+ and super thick.

i was thinking of setting up a hotel encounter but i while i have the go ahead from her, think it might be better if they knew eachother a bit, and could anticipate. i was thinking of printing some pix out and showing her, but have a better idea: giving him her email address.

i was thinking of passing it on to him and letting them start a dialog. he can tell her what we talked about and share pix. they can start a little flirtation on line.

question: do you experienced guys think that it is better to just set up the hotel meet or do the email connection first? anybody out here do the email connection for a first relationship? if so, how did it go.

this is a genuine request for advice from a still nervous hubby.

thanks in advance.

Why don't you all just meet for a couple takes and get to know each other. Let her sit next to him and do all the talking. Let her rub his dick under the table.

Then let them email a couple times and then meet a week later. Have her just give him a hand job at first or blowjob while you watch. See how you both like it.

Then, the next time, just have him come over and fuck.

Don't complicate things.

meet up first make sure he is someone you are both comfortable with.for us the extra guy is being let into our relationship.remember you are leaving this guy alone with your wife make sure your able to trust him.i'd rather have another average sized guy that we both get along with than a jackass with a big cock

I have done it in a variety of ways...usually I will get the guy's photo to show her, and sometimes I will meet with the guy alone first a few days before, in order to size up his permisterality before I offer her to him entirely. Anywhere from setting it up for her in advance and then arranging a meeting with the guy at a lounge where we have a hotel room ready nearby to other times going out to a classy strip joint and having her picked up by a horny guy. She will appear to be alone until someone she likes hits on her. If she likes him, once he's hooked with the promise of getting laid that very night, she then pops it on him that her husband is in the bar and has to come along too or it's a 'no-go'. By that time he's usually gotten so horny and turned on by her that he's willing to go along with it once she reasures him that her hubby really just loves to watch her getting fucked by another dude. We then take him to the hotel room and she puts on a great show for me, and at the same time she gets to fuck his brains out. My job (besides enjoying myself, fixing their takes, etc.) is to keep her safe from harm and to make sure he uses a condom before he enters her, just in case she's had a little too much to take, which is often the case...***** gets her relaxed and lowers her inhibitions. It's hard to believe that when I married her she was what they call a "good girl". Now she can really act the slut when she wants to, and I love it when she does!