How Do I Treat My Cuckol Husband??

My husband has allowed me to fuck other guys for years. It is something we have done off & on since we have been married. He has always liked hearing about my experiences, but there always was a certain amount of jealousy involved. There were a few years where nothing happened and we never talked about it. In the past year, though, things started up again. He confided to me that it was something he really enjoyed and that the fantasy was not going to go away. We both have been reading alot of info on cuckolding, and know that that is us. My husband is wanting to be very submissive with me, it is his nature although he didn't always let it show. We both want to explore this side of him. In bed, besides telling him of my experiences with other men I have been with, how big their dicks were, how much better they felt, I also jerk him off to the point of orgasm, then stopping 2-3 times. It is totally my control as to when he will cum. So far it has been 2 weeks since he last did, which is extremely rare for him. He wants to be totally in my control, which I love. We also have tried the milking with a little success. I know he will do anyhting I ask him to. My reamister for writing is I would like to hear how some Hot Wives treat there cuckolds out of the bedroom. Or how the husbands want to be treated. I don't want my husband to tell me cause that would take the fun out of it. He wants to explore his feminie side. I want to learn how to control him more without being bossy or bitchy, but rather playful and firm.

Sounds like you've got a good deal. What I think he is trying to tell you is that he wants the offense of sucking cock for you. Do you have him clean now?

Yes, he does clean me and he loves it. While it has been a fantasy of ours for him to suck my lover's cock, I'm not sure how we would both feel about it when the time came. You never know. Given the right circumstances anything goes, you know?
He is such a guys guy most of the time. Only I know about some of these fantasies and what we do is between him, I and my lovers. So it makes it a little difficult trying to come up with some things to make him feel feminine.

take him out of town and take him to a lingerie store with your lover. buy him some red lipstick and make him suck that cock like a real slut would

i am a farily macho man in every day life, but would love if my wife told me how hot it would make her if i sucked off her lover. my biggest fantasy.

But outside the bedroom i would want life to be as it is now.

Sheridan, u sound like and extremely loving, caring cuckoldress and yur husband is extremely lucky to have u. I agree with Mickey, if u don't live in a big city, go outside and go to a lingerie store and buy him some sexy panties. If their is a young sales girl there it is even better. Put some up in front of him and tell him how sexy he will look in these. do it a cpl. of times with a few different pair. Also buy some for yurself and tell him in front of the salesgirl how much yur lover will appreciate his wife wearing these for him. Be loving and teasing about his penis size when comparing it to yur lovers. My wife took me to an adult shop and had the sales girl show us various dildoes and remarked often about how much bigger they were than mine. She even found a 5 in one, held it up and said "look honey, they have one that's yur size. It must be for beginners." I was embarrassed and turned on at the same time. By the way, I am very straight acting and noone would know that I love to fluff her lovers up for her and clean her out. The messier the better.

I had not explore my feminine side out of bed with my GF, but I think a good idea may be to paint his feet nails red, and wear his shoes as normally... but after, in the party, you, Sheridan, promote some game in wich players have to get off their shoes ans socks and expect the reaction of you hubby ;) jijiji

Sheridan,

My wife has started enjoying the role of humiliatrix. he likes the response she gets. She does similar things you have done. She prefers to get me into lingerie and then play with my little dicklet. She has a soft manner and whispers into my ear about why I am a cuck and sissy, and why they are so much better. I have found that being femmed and her cooing to me really humiliates, yet shows her love and affection as well.

one of my enjoyments is being jerked off, while wife is relating details of her mmost recent fun time

out of the bedroom keep it real....in the bedroom you can do anything....and sounds like he will go for it...but if there has been jealousy involved dont push it to far....sounds like you both really love each other so just take it easy outside of the bedroom! The cocksucking thing on his part.....eh if you are both unsure if it happens I wouldnt make much of a deal of it...could lead to resentment...be careful and good screwing! Oh and it wouldnt hurt to treat him dont know if your bi but guys do like a female treat now and then! Will do wonders for him and you in the sense he will know you trust and love him as much as he does you!

Get a realistic strap on dildo for you to wear and make him suck it.

Tie him up face down and use a Hitachi Magic Wand (the most powerful vibrator!) on his ass. You don't put it in. It's a body massager but it's so strong, holding it against his anus will make him cum.

I agree to take it real slow, but already having him tasting cum and want to admit he wants to suck is a great start.

I'd suggest you tell him you need some "girl talk" as there are things you want to say, but could only tell a girl. I'd use this as an chance to give him a girls name, and do girly girl things like apply make up. Tell her she is being a great friend by helping you get ready for dates.

When you get home brag about your dates as she cleans you. Have her talk about the taste of sperm. And then because she has been a good girl and you can't leave her horny like that...give her (girl) sex while she rubs her swollen clock/clit) As time goes on move the action more and more to what you are looking for. If she isn't all sexy for you when you get home then no action for her. Until the day you do her a "favor" by bringing a stud home.

Wow Interesting and exciting comment Miss_Blueballs

I think the idea of doing it out of town is a GREAT idea! Every time my wife and I go out of town, I make it VERY CLEAR to her that what ever she does, it's FINE with me! She's never taken the plunge yet. I keep hoping. Any women who have some constructive advice on how to get my wife to have sex with other men, I would welcome your emails at [email protected]

sheridan328

I have a femme sissy hubby. I keep "Jess" in panties 24/7/365 Jess only owns "panties" no male underwear at all. Jess is always shaved head to toes, wearing VictoriaSecrets lotion and perfume again 24/7/365. I often keep her toes painted hot pink, ankle braclet, female deoderant, and can only snoke female Eve 120 Menthol ultralights or 120 Menthol Capri's. I often have her wear bra, cami, or female tank top under a thin shirt that shows whats underneath when we shop or are at the laundrymat(where she must fold alll her and my lingerie as I tell which ones look best on her). I have her eye brows done wekly and her nails are manicured. Jess must also relax in lingerie and bra with breast inserts. When we go out I always make it a point to show al least the tops of her pink silky panties out of the top of her shorts or pants. I do verbaly humiliate her in public with comments on how she is a sissy and how my lover is a real man who pleases me like sissy never could. My sissy loves it and always begs for more another good humiliating scene is while buying clothes for myself I have Jes hold blouses and skirts up to her waist right in the store before trying them on. Today I had Jess cut the lawn in a bikini... have fun use your imagination and if hubby doesnt want to do something he will tell you just leave the line of communication open The denial of orgasm is great too with a long enough period these sissies will do anythng to cum... Good luck
I have finally decided to take control (total) and have sissy in panties daily lock sissy in her CB 6000s for good. No more feeling sorry after a few weeks and no more giving into her pleas for mercy! Welcome the NEW MISTRESS!

I think they way you treat him out of the bedroom is: keep it natural. If he is not in a state of arousal, there is a good chance he won't take well to being humiliated, etc. However, if out of town many of the inhibitions might be eliminated so it could be a situation where anything goes. But discuss it ahead of time. Don't throw him a curve.
One thing that I think is acceptable out of the bedroom is to comment--discreetly on men you see out and about. You know, that guy looks hot, etc. Another thing I might recommend when out--if the both of you are in an amorous mood--is halfway through dinner--pull out a pair of your panties--used or otherwise--and tell him you want him to go into the men's room and put them on. That will serve as a reminder that he is under your spell and that when you get back home, he will be expected to enter his submissive role.
Obviously, these are just a few suggestions for out of the bedroom. Since you obviously love and respect your husband, I think the best thing you can do is treat him lovingly and respectfully out of the bedroom, therefore keeping the cuckold style a "playstyle" instead of a lifestyle.
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