sexual_tyrannosaurus
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A big first step would be to get her to roleplay it in bed with you while your having sex with her. If she can talk about it, making up something or you telling her what you would like her to do with someone you both know that she finds attractive would be a huge first step. It has worked with a couple of my ex's. As well as letting me get a chance with some of my friends gf's as well. But it won't always work of course, but it has a reamisterable chance for working out the way you want from my experience.
But if it does start to work dont push thing for a while unless you really think she really wants it. Just leave a few hint over time if she would like to really do it your still up for it.
Hopefully you will get more ideas and something will work.
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JUANITO
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IF YOU COULD ROLE PLAY WHILE HAVING SEX WITH HER IT WOULD BE A GREAT START...INTRODUCE A REALISTIC SKIN-LIKE DILDO INTO YOUR LOVEMAKING, AND JOKINGLY NAME HIM "BOYFRIEND" OR SOME OTHER NAME FROM ONE OF HER PAST LOVERS WHOM SHE THOUGHT WAS A GOOD LAY. Tell her it doesn't have to go beyond just role play, but at the same time you are planting a seed in her subconscious mind and keeping her thinking about it. She may get to enjoy your role play and eventually may want to experiment with the real thing finding an outside sex partner. Approach the issue slowly and with a lot of tactful ideas...eventually she might just surprise you and really bring your fantasies to reality by taking on another guy. Some wives intitially do it just because they know it would please the husband, then when they find out how much they REALLY enjoy it themselves, most of those women would not give it up for nothing!
I had to initially do a lot of coaching with my wife, but once she got the hang of it she became a very hot wife. Previously shy, she became very bold & brave coming on to other men, and on occassions when we were out with a male friend she would reach under the table at the restaurant or lounge and rub his cock making sly comments to him like: "Oh, I think I'm turning somebody on!...It's starting to bulge out!!"..."I may just have to put that fire out later!"
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