Seed Planted, Now how do I close the deal?

Ok, this is a unique situation. I will give as much info as possible for those who would care to offer a suggestion.

We are both mid-twenties and very sexual. She has probably had over 20 cocks as she has admitted to me through dirty talk that she was a very big slut in high school and has shared some hot stories to back that claim up. She was married at the time we first hooked up. Got a divorce and started seeing me regularly for some hot sex sessions. Her hubby was never a cuck, just a guy who got cheated on becuase he probably got tired of her, I dont know nor care. From what I know and what she has told me is that I am the only guy she spreads for. I beleive this, but with women you can never be sure

Anyway, we are moving in together this weekend.

Now about those seeds....

During our regular play we are very versatile in our sex chemistry. Sometimes she uses me as a slave. Has me worship her feet while she sucks her rather large toy. (By the way Im just under 6 3/4 inches hard with a pretty nice width, I use it to please her but I know like all women she would rather have something bigger) I lick her pussy all the way up to her ass. Ive cummed on her pussy and ass and have licked the cream pie. She loved it!! But also I can be in control and whip her backside as I slam my cock deep in her throat.

During our dirty talk I have introduced a make beleive "clean up slave" into the scenerio and she has took off with it. On more than one occation she has said things like "my slave can sit there in the corner and watch me get fucked. Then clean me up and get ready for the nect cock" Also mentioned are foot or panty worship fantasies while she is getting double and triple teamed. She is very freaky and open and all it would take is one shot and I would instantly become a grateful cuck. We even have filmed ourselves in a scenerio where she teases me about how she was getting used and has me lick her ass clean. Ive once blurted out that I would love to be the slave and she took to it very well, describing details of denial, being powerd to watch, clean up and worship duties, followed up with sloppy seconds sex....

So, how do I close this deal? Do I ask her to have sex with another man? Do I just wait and hope something happens like her cheating on me?
Ronald Curry

Don't wait for her to cheat on you - it'll make her feel guilty and end up causing problems...

You could get one of those "Screw my wife" videos and watch it together. My wife got super horny watching the amatuer wives get fucked by studs while the husbands watched. From there you could point out how much fun those wives were having and ask her if she thought she would like to try it, and that it would be OK with you.

Same advice I give to everyone on here, just change the him to her.

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My advice is to go slowly and introduce everything and feel him out in stages.

Be nice to him for a week or so, give him good sex and spoil him a little. Take him out, have fun together. When he's in a great mood watch the movie Animal Instincts with him. (be sure to get the first one, the one with David Carradine - the other ones suck) Here's a preview:

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Watching this will totally bring up the subject of him watching and swinging in general. It's not a porn movie but a mainstream movie that deals directly with a man watching his wife have sex with other men. Chances are, he will probably deny that it would turn him on even though it does. You will have to take a chance and confess to him that it's something that does turn you on and something that you fantasize about. Even if you have to say that you'll probably never do it but that it's fun to fantasize. That might get him to loosen up and talk more about the fantasy and his feelings if he feels it's not going to lead anywhere.

Depending upon what he says, you might then have to bring it up over the next few weeks or months, especially when you're having sex. Watch the movie again and have sex during the sexy parts when the husband is watching. Show him that it turns you on. Let it develop slowly. Introduce more games and fun into your sex with him. Get more lingerie to turn him on and show him that you're having fun.

When the time is right, I recommend that you find a stranger to meet with, have him come over and then agree for you to just give him a handjob. Nothing more. That way, if it's too much for your husband, it was only a handjob and you can stop. No harm done. Don't go all the way and don't kiss him or his dick. If it's just a hand job and your husband totally gets jealous, you can stop the games and you didn't go too far. On the other hand, if it does turn him on, it will leave him wanting more.

Put an ad on Craig's List or something, find a guy that you like and who would be willing to play along and meet him for coffee or a take. You should do most of the talking, have your husband stay a little out of the way. Then have your husband sit off in the corner, out of the way, turn down the lights, put on something sexy and give the other guy a little massage and hand job. Make things light and fun, sexy and non threatening. When the guy cums and leaves, be sure to have sex with your husband, GOOD sex. And then stay close to him over the next few days and be nice. Reassure him that the other guy is just a sex toy, nothing more. A 'walking dildo'. Once he sees that you are not falling in love with these other guys and that you don't leave him after and in fact, you are happier and the sex is better, he will warm up to the idea of swinging. (don't call it cuckolding at this point).

Be sure to talk to him about his feelings and how he felt while watching. Keep him excited and horny. Then have the guy come over again and give him a handjob but this time, you lick his dick a little bit.

And the next time, you suck it a little and so on.

You get the idea.

That is exactly what happened between my wife and I and everything worked out wonderfully. She now regularly has sex with another guy while I watch and we both enjoy it.

Thanx for the advice. I like the one with the porn intro especially something thats not what we may view as "ultimate" cuck in watching th "Please Screw My Wife" series. I think something wfrom Roman Video or Dark Secret would def go to far. I think "Cream Pie for the Straight Guy" may also be a good choice. Ill have to get a reaction next time we are at the porn store.

Im also wondering if I should leave some content available on my comp. RIght now I take every precaution not to get caught with what I look at. Which is usually cuckold themed porno.

Now that we live together she will at times have access to my comp without me, which would lead to a discovery of riches into my sexual realm that I am afraid to share with her. Ive had a relationship go sour because I beleive the woman lost respect for me. She was out clubbing with friends and would usually hook up with guys, then come over for a cleaning and foot worship. I can tell the difference and in no time I lost her. I dont want that to happen again.
Ronald Curry

If it was me, I would rather show her some "mild" content first and judge her reaction, rather than have her find stuff on her own. You want her to know you are being open and honest, instead of her thinking you are hiding things or keeping secrets from her. If she likes the "mild" content then show her more harder stuff until you figure out where she at. If she sees the mild stuff and freaks out, then you know to keep the rest hidden.