ok, need your input

So ive been really trying to get my wife into the fact im submissive. I had her read some site (i think it was called wrapped around her finger....or something) Anyways, ive got her denying me orgasm. I have been getting her to orgasm and she gets me worked up but stops me. Anyways, she told me the first night she wasnt sure if she did ok or not by denying me. I told her yes. Anyways, she has orgasmed about 5 times and I havent yet. I think she might let me tonight though. She seems to be liking it but im not sure.

Im just wondering if shes just doing this for me or if she is starting to enjoy it and doing it for herself. Do you think ive made a step towards cuckoldism? I know im far from it but i wonder if this is a first step.

Comments would be wonderful. Thanks!