Newbie advice

I have been unable to satisfy my girlfriend. I don't have much of a sex drive and am not very well endowed or that good at sex etc.

She has been dreaming of sex with other guys. To satisfy her I bought a 7 inch strap on which gave her her first orgasm with another permister. She loved it, but my sex drive isn't there.

She has been very kind in waiting for things to improve, but it's been about 2 years now and we've only had sex about 10 times! She has said that she'd like to get sex elsewhere but we don't want to ruin our strong connection. We love each other and we don't want her to get emotionally attached to someone else.

Any advice on the cuckold situation in terms of it not ruining a relationship.

I'd be willing for her ex-boyfriend to get her as she likes bareback but for bareback either a regular lover or someone we know is probably best, but someone you know can make things a bit awkward. She had quite good sex with her ex, so maybe it'd be a good thing.

I want her to have a regular lover but I don't want to lose her, any advice would be appreciated.

We have also discussed that she would be allowed to go off with other guys if she fancied them in nightclubs etc. Or at house parties we talked about her being allowed to go upstairs with any men she fancied.

It get me really excited and I also need to know if I could emotionally handle these scenarios.

1. Have your testosterone and free testosertone levels checked by you physician... BEFORE you do anything. This may be the first step to curing the poor sex drive thing, at lease.

2. Realize that ANY encounter she has with another man carries a STRONG possibility that you will loose her to that man... no matter WHAT she thinks can/will happen... no matter HOW much she loves you.