Need advise

My wife is mid 30's and has had other men. She has a bf now, but he is not very steady. He is busy and has a hard time finding time to see her. She likes him a lot, but wants him to take her out more often and not just show up to fuck. I have mentioned to her about finding another more steady bf, but she is not sure she wants to go through that whole process of finding someone she likes and trusts. Can anyone give me some advice on how to help her go that direction and still see the old bf when he can??

Thanks
T

Yeah...you could wrangle up a pair of nuts and be the boyfriend she needs. Just an idea...