Convincing the wife

My wife and I have been married for almost 10 years. I sex life is fantastic but not as frequent as it used to be.

Once in a while, we talk about her being with other men while having sex. She never likes it at first but enventually caves in and plays along. Occasionally, I really think she likes it and has mentioned the names of other guys we know.

Can you please give me some suggestions of getting her more involved in the role-play and eventually participate in the lifestyle? Thanks in advance.

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I will make you crazy.

I have no intentions of being with another women. It simply turns me on beyond belief to think of her fucking another man. So really, I am asking for advice on two things (one at a time):

1. Getting her to enjoy the role play. She does on occasion but not always. I'd like to get her to the point of initiating it.

2. Actually going through with it if the right occasion presented itself.

I feel like I'm getting close on the first but a long way from the second.

BTW, thanks for the response jacana

Advice for number one: Pursue different role playing scenarios. Eventually, you will discover the scenario that turns her on just as much as it turns you on, or more so. The idea is not to get to your goal as soon as possible, but rather to enjoy the trip.

Advice for number two: Be patience and watch for the signs that a particular guy turns your wife on. Some of the more obvious signs include her nipples stiffing up, her pulse quickens, her pussy juices start to flow, she comments upon a particular guy's looks. After that, some simple encouragement should do the trick.

Good luck!
A man has not lived until he watches another man fuck his wife!

VAHub, I'm in a similar situation. I was actually considering starting a thread just like this one to seek advice. My fantasy is to see my wife take it up the ass. She LOVES it when I stick it in her ass so I thought maybe she would find the idea of another guy doing it to her arousing but when I brought it up she seemed appalled. So I'm not sure that it's ever going to happen. My other fantasy is to see her strip at a club (like on an amateur night). Even that seems highly unlikely. She's just not that adventerous even though she has a great body. So any advice anyone can give would be greatly appreciated.
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Want to to stick your cock in it?

I'm just trying to keep it somewhat simple. let her screw another guy, I don't need to watch. Its something I want for her. Believe me when I say she is 38 with the body of a 20 year old.

AK, thx for your advice.