Needed advice for new cuckold

I have a question. I am not a cuckold yet. I have had the fantasy for a long time. My Gf of 10 months dated alot of guys before we met. In the 400 range, but for the past 9 months has been happy with me. We argued alot and since she has found a permister who can do some of the things I dont. Like party, and go to dinner at ezotic places and enjoys conversations with him , our agruing has stopped. and we seem alot better. This weekend I had to work, so he came down and is spending the time with him. She just called and wants me to have dinner with them. I want this sexual only. I don�t think I want this as me. The regular bf. If it was sexual only and he can please her sexually. They great. But I don�t know if I could see them walking hand in hand in public or kissing. Or if we met for dinner, sitting on his side of the table instead of mine. I don�t know what she had planned. But I wanted to ask this audience since I might find somehelpful guidance here. Thanks

Rob

I felt the same way with my gf's lover. When she talks about how she enjoys his company, I feel jealous. When she talks about fucking him, I get hot.

It seems, however, that she is grateful that I allow her to 'play'. Its as if no other man would allow it, so I have some value to her. She continues to reassure me that I am her honey, and he is her toy. She seems to be genuinely glad that he does not live in town.

So, I understand how you feel. But it will happen the way it happens. I think we don't have much control over how the process proceeds.

I think it would be fascinating to have dinner with my gf and her lover.

That is my experience. Good luck.
I will make you crazy.

Thanks for the advice....

My gf suggested that she would like me to check into the same hotel where they were staying. I could sit in the restaurant alone and he would not know that its me. She thinks that would be sexy.

Think about it. Why would your gf suggest that you have dinner with them if she had intentions of dropping you. Cheaters don't tell you they just cheat.

I think a woman appreciates being able to play without losing the security of a relationship.

What do you think?
I will make you crazy.

I agree. I dont have any problem with the sexual side of it. NONE at all.. She deserves it and I know it. The only issue I am facing now is the emotional side of it. The romantic side of it. Her and her friend, go to the movies and dinner and eat and talk and chat all day. I dont want to be close to them in a romantic way. If they are holding hands in public or going to meet her lady. I would have issue with that. We are still in love. She tells me I love you every time we are on the phone. I believe her.This guy is married and lives in another state. I dont have issue with her and him running away. I know my place in her life. I am the stable one. The responibile one

the one she can count on for the long term. This guy hits her buttons sexually as he is powerful. I don�t have issue with him. I just think for me it needs to stay on the sexual level for now. Going to dinner or coming over to use my hot tub.

Rob

Perhaps you need to talk with your partner and set some ground rules then you should feel less anxiety about your situation. Its always good to talk!