Desire her to Have Affair

Gina and I have been married for two years and have a 2 month old mister, jimmy (named after her Dad). During her pregnancy I would tease her about her old boyfriend Tom. Before we married her and Tom were going out seriously and probably would have married if he didn't end up going to the mid east. Well his departure gave me the leeway and the rest is history. Before I am asked, I am sure, by sure mathematics that Jimmy is mine. We would both get excited when Gina would tease me about how easily Jimmy could be of Tom's sperm if the US Army didn't intervene and I would be the guy looking in. Now to the present. I am a Sergeant in the Army and I found out my unit is going overseas soon. I have told Gina that I would really love it if she would act out our fantasy and get re-acquainted with Tom while I am gone. She told me that she knows she will really be missing having a "man" around the house while I am deployed. We found out just recently the Tom's unit is also in Kansas and he has gotten out and has a civilian job in the area. I am supposed to leave in about a month. I would like to hear from other current active duty or vets who enjoy or enjoyed this same fantasy and had a chance to make it reality. Please no politics about the war, this is not the site for that. Thank you.

Karl

i am not in the military, but i travel for business and am sometimes overseas for extended periods of time. i have introduced her to a friend who is dominant, hung, virile, and she has slowly become comfortable with being with him (we began by having him join us for 3 somes, and eventually to her spending the night at his place, coming back to me in the morning).

now, when i am away, we have an understanding that she is his lover....

I told Gina that all I ask her to do, is let me know how her relationship with Tom is going, if it does after this period of time. Tom was ready to give her a ring, but then the orders came from Uncle Sam. We have read a few stories of military wives who have dated and even moved in with guys during long separations. I permisterally find it extremely erotic thinking about her former beau taking my place in bed until I get home. Also he is a nice guy, not mean or nasty and would be a good stand in "Daddy" until I get home. That even though it seems innocent, makes me hard, thinking about Tom possibly enjoying Jimmy as he grows this first two years. Incase you wondered, we use the natural family planning method for birth control. I am thinking seriously about writing a letter or email to Tom letting him know it is "more than" OK for him and Gina to restart their former relationship. I want to let him know that while I am gone, he can approach Gina, like she is a single mom and have fun. If anyone has any ideas for my letter to Tom please post.



Karl

what if she decides to leave you?

sounds very, very possible.

Sounds as though you like "living on the edge". Some people have to have this type of excitement in their life to really feel "alive". I am sure you have given thought that there is a chance that she will prefer him to you, in which case you may not be coming back to anything other than a divorce. Good luck in any event. It sounds kind of kinky and fun. I hope it all works out for you guys. Maybe when you come back all 3 of you can have a 3-way relationship and all live together. It may be the start of a new trend. Two "husbands" for one wife (or actually a husband and a live-in lover). WOW! Sounds totally wild and fantastically erotic! Good luck!