cuckless
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I've been trying to get my wife to take charge in the bedroom, with precious little success. I'd like to eventually get her to the point where she is a least fantasizing about a larger guy, then encourage her to go for it.
I started with some light reading material for her about dominant wives and orgasm denial. I have also been going down on her nightly, which she loves. We are at the point where I will eat her anytime, but only if she tells me to.
The problem seems to be with the denial. I think she thinks its weird. I tell her that keeping me constantly on edge will only benefit her as I will be ready at any moment. She says she understands and halfhartedly tells me no, but then caves in because she feels bad. I am not putting any pressure on me for me to cum. She says she would much rather orgasm via oral, so I said all you have to do is take charge and you can have as much as you want. When I ask her isf she wants to go back to our old relationship (missionary about once a week), she says NO WAY, which has been my only positive sign
I can't decide if she thinks this is weird, or truly doesn't have a dominant bone in her body? Anybody been in a similiar position? What can I do next to keep this small amount of progress moving?
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wifntrng
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Dear Cuckless,
Actions speak louder than words. You�ve got things off to a good start, but you need to remember that if she�s used to �missionary once a week� this is a real reversal of roles. Most women are programmed by society to be �nurturing pleasers� and for her pleasure to now be the number one priority is a challenge to that �programming.� Be patient and she�ll come around to this new way of thinking. I suggest remembering to always do some foreplay before eating her. This reinpowers that you love her, and that you find her sexy. If a woman feels that her partner isn�t attracted to her, it�s a real ego *******er.
SO often it is said that if you own a man�s orgasms, you can train him to do almost anything. This is also true of humans in general, and I believe a woman can be �programmed� much faster than a male because they are multiorgasmic. It is a documented fact that lab rats who could strike a lever to electronically stimulate the pleasure center of their brain would keep hitting the lever over and over to the exclusion of all else. They�d starve to death because they wouldn�t stop to eat!
If you eat her to several orgasms every night she�ll soon start disregard her old way of thinking because it contradicts her desire for pleasure.
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