Why is it so tough to find reliable bulls?

I figured this as good a forum as any.
I've now tried to set up a cuckolding session for a 4th time and it failed yet again. It's not that she won't do it (she's cucked me when she travels) but she has a very clear scenerio in mind if I get to watch which basically is that I arrange for a guy she would like (like BBC) to pick her up when we're out at a club takeing. I know that's not everyone's cup of tea, but 4 times I've had committments from bulls and each time they fell through.

Any ideas of what's going wrong or what I should do to make it happen?

There are a lot of talkers on the net unfortunately.

well it's a combination of things... talkers is one but I think it's more than that: if it looks set up, people are turned off - also may be concerned about safety. why don;t you you try swinger clubs? I have seen the most lustful women there and the atmosphere can be explosive (but no guarantees there either)...
Panos

I agree with panos.

Clubs are the best place.

Well, speaking as a bull it goes the other way too, where hotwives or their wannabe hubbies shy off and dont show up at the last minute. Not saying that explains it all but there it is.

good luck

The problem is in NoCo there's only one place I'm familiar with, Mon Chalet, and it is not really a club but more resorty.

And others, I suspect, don't really want to meet in the real world although they tell themselves they're willing to go through with it. I get a lot of requests to meet a wife who has no idea her husband wants to share her. Not very promising.

I agree with sybill. Its a no go for me when it comes to the whole " set up" thing. Too many fakes both ways.