atlanta new cuckold

heres my story of where i am at.. me 45 wife 43.. married 12 yrs 2 small kids.. we got married more as friends not passionate love..while dating she was what i considered sexually playfull especially while takeing which she still likes to do.. she is conservatively raised, smart 2 degrees but blonde and actually is a stereotypical blonde . her gfs have described her as smartest dumb girl they know.. she laughs about it.. Sexually she has alwasy been willing to try things mostly.. we did anal she liked but not the inital penetration.. outdoor sex..watch some porn. .made a sex tape..she has kissed a girl and she had fucked another guy... this is where i need help.. she is reluctant to talk about her fucking him.. for awhile i wasnt clear to her how i felt.. was trying to have it both ways because i wasnt really sure myself.. now i decided i like it and i want her to do it and do much more.. still she is somewaht reluctant to talk about it.. last night i finally tried to clear the air.. i toll her cleary that i want her to fuck him and keep on fucking him if she enjoys it.. she said she thinks it weird that i would want her too but she said she will ..she is a working womant and i told her something like 50 percent of working women have affairs and for us its not cheating if i m ok with it.. that seemed to make sense to her..so she told me she will schedules something with her lover in late sept or early oct.. she travels to a work site and will be with him for at least 3-5 days.. she says she will fuck him as the guy is alwasy hunting her down now when he can.. we dont live in same state.. my question is what do i do now.. how do i move this forward past this guy.. it seems like after this next meeting i will have more of an opportunity to make this happen reguraly and locally if things go well.. she says she need s to like a guy if shes going to fuck him..i need her to be more comfortable with this and not think its weird for me to like.. i know i cant push or rush because that backfires but if you can help with things i might try to do i would appreciatle..

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The wife looks fantasitc and is very desirable. It appears intitially from what i understand she is somewhat open to the idea.. you are correct that more women now are having affairs. if she enjoys being with another then dont overly push her. remind her it is for her pleasure. that what you share will not change in fact it could bring you closer in other ways. i sent u an im on yh.

My take is that you really need to make her comfortable being in the driver's seat. When you establish a female-led relationship, and their is open and overt acceptance of this dynamic, then you are in a better position to move it to the next level. There is a blog (completely free, does not cost a thing) that is designed as a safe landing zone for men that want to open this idea up to their wives. It stops way short of cuckolding, but many men (both cuckolds and submissive men) have used the site to introduce the idea of a wife-led marriage, male chastity and even cuckolding to their vanilla partners. The blog is called Around Her Finger... there are books, CD's, etc. Do a search for "Around Her Finger" blog or "Around her Finger" updates, and you will find it.

I am in Atlanta and willing to help you. I was with my last couple for 3 years until they moved.