I think some women actively seeks men that are weaker...controlling bitches are normal
Fewer seeks this as a lifestyle, but initially being the strong one in a relation moves also into the sexual part of it
I have had younger lovers who definetally would take control, also in the sexual part of the life
I remeber especially one: we were together for less than half a year, but she fucked guys on the side all the time, and told me about it (she also brought bi-girls to our common bed)
So, people are very different. And by people i also mean girls/women
A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women