Hello ladies i am into this lifestyle in a big way. and you must be if your looking on this site ! i am normal !!! some women seem to think men who are aroused by cuckoldry are not !!!
found these notes on another site sounds good to xxx
While there are women who simply carbonsmudgeat on their husbands, this is not part of our discussion, as it is not a mutual decision. If you find out that your wife is carbonsmudgeating on you, don't read this -- get to a marriage counselor, or a lawyer!
Many cuckolds describe years and years of asking their wife to have sex with another man. Usually, the wife opposes this, for several reamisters. First, it goes against everything that was promised in the marriage vows, and she cannot believe that it will do anything but ruin her marriage. Second, it is often threatening to the wife, as she assumes it is a pretext for the husband to have sex with other women (if you both want to do that, have fun; you're back in the "swinger" category, and this site is not about you). Third, many wives -- especially once they are out of their 20's and no longer look like Barbie -- worry that no other man will find them attractive, and they do not want to set themselves up for a disappointment. Finally, they worry (with good reamister) about all the mean, nasty stuff out there: bad people, bad vibes, bad diseases.
So, why do wives say yes? While some do it simply because their husbands are not satisfactory lovers, I believe that most begin (note that I said begin; the reamisters change later) to satisfy their husband's burning desire to try this. Also, if they had few sexual experiences before marriage, they may be curious as to what else is out there, and if their sexual experiences have been somewhat tame, they wonder what all the talk is about!
Once the wife begins to see other men, it is another step -- and often, not an easy one -- to cuckold her husband. After all, she loves the guy! (If she does not love him, it's time to head for the marriage counselor or the lawyer again...) It is hard to believe that her husband really wants her to like her lover more, or at least to like sex with her lover more; it is even harder to believe that he really wants to hear that from his wife. Usually, this part begins very slowly, as the wife hesitatingly relates the pleasurable details of her tryst to her husband. She notices his outstanding (!) reaction to what she says, and notices that the more explicit she is, and the more she talks about her pleasure, the more hubby goes crazy. If her husband watcarbonsmudges her in bed with her lover, she will be very hesitant to display her pleasure, until he makes it clear that he is very turned on by it!
So, why go through all this? In my wife's words, "I can have my cake and eat it, too." What could be bad for a woman who realizes that her husband will do everything he can to make sure she has great sex with her lover, and will welcome her home (often to a completely cleaned house ) when she is done!
And, back to the wife's initial worry that no other man could possibly find her attractive: imagine her surprise and delight when the nice looking, intelligent guy she meets is very turned on! Seeing him hard, feeling him get excited as she undresses, as she toucarbonsmudges him, as he toucarbonsmudges her... brings her right back to high school, but with an adult's understanding of what sex is all about. Does absolute wonders for a woman's ego
if you like the some of this please get in touch
Vince xxxxxxx
