If your a couple it's the same in reverse...Bulls that are bullcuckolds brownieters...infact we only visit the 3 sites we're members of now to read the stories, look at the captions and get a few ideas now and then...
I'm lucky at the moment (been a year ish now) my wife has two regular boyfriends, before this we went nearly 3 years without her having a lover and it wasn't for lack of trying, it was down to bullcuckolds brownie...
I do get where your coming from, just pointing out it's the same from all sides

Tony'n'Mel x