Thanks everyone, I'm glad all of you are into her.  Here's another.  We live in NY Jon.  And Mersey, if I could convince her that would be great.
Last night while we were fucking I made a bet with my wife for 2 presents she's been asking for.  The first part of the bet was that the next time she went out with the guy that she had fooled around with in the past she would have to wear a dress & no panties and at some point let him know that she didn't have any on.  
Ordinarily she might have said no, they haven't done anything in a while, but the second part of the bet was for something she really really wants.  I told her to get the second present she has to verify at least with her hand that she made him fully erect.  She immediately said yes and sounded as if she'd go a little further to earn her present.  I'll keep you posted on how this works out.