new and have questions about my gf

hey we are a young couple very early 20's we have been dating for a long while. well couple years ago i found out about cuckolding and it turned me on a lot. At first i could only fantasize about it but now i am ready i know i would love it i am completely in for being a cuck now. the prob is my gf is not very sexually active lately. in bed she does do some teasing and orgasm denial but thats about it. my cock is pretty small 4in hard and it doesn't stay hard all the time. recently she told me she wants to open her options and try new people. but she keeps saying dating she doesn't want to have sex with them. We are very in love and i have a felling she wants to have sex with other because she has only been with me but she wont admit because she does not want to feel like a slut. i hope this is the case and she just doesn't want to emotionally date others but just fuck them.

what do you all think and if she does just want to have sex how can i get to to be ok with it?

i am completely understanding if she wants to fuck others i just want her to tell me and not go behind my back.

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scottydog

I'm a Dom bloke so never been in your shoes - but I reckon I might be able to offer some advice.

They do say that one way to tell if your wife or girlfriend is being fucked by someone else if there is a change in her sexual appetite at home - a increase OR decrease is often a sign that she's getting it from someone else - so by the sounds of things she already may have taken a step in the right direction - but don't think for one minute she's there yet.

In terms of becoming her cuck, even if she is fucking other men behind your back, I'd suggest you start her gently - afterall if you are up for this long-term then you don't want to blow things by brining a 6ft tall 9 inch long stud home with you out of the blue one night - I could be wrong, but chances are she'd run a mile without you laying any ground work. Cheating on you is one thing - cucking you is another thing altogether.

Talk to her about guys on TV / movies / rockstars etc that she finds attractive - whisper to her about being made to watch her get fucked by them while stroking her pussy - see how she responds.
If she gets off on that, then up the ante a bit - buy her a dildo or vibrator - a nice realistic and very large one - see if you can get her to fuck herself with it while you sit in a corner and watch - ask her to degrade and humiliate you while she's doing it (if that's your thing) - see whether it gets her off

A potential problem she also may have is that she's too shy to talk frankly to the guys she's dating about it - there's a lot of guys out there who just couldn't handle being a Bull - they aren't secure enough to put on a decent performance for you both (never forget you are in this together)- and your girlfriend may not want to have to bump into these guys in her local tescos on the following monday.

best advice overall I can give is to take it slowly.
Its going to take one very special woman........or.....a bunch of average ones

thanks for the advise. i would love to think that she is already fucking others but i am 99% sure she is not. i am going to try and get her to watch a porn soon i think she would. i have bought her a huge vib and she says she uses it often. but yet to get her to let me watch but she said she would sometime.

should i let her date other people even though she says she doesnt want to fuck them. or keep working on letting her know i am ok with her fucking just not letting emotions get in the way?

porn is a good step - have a look out for Dave Cummings "screw my wife please" series - the premise is that real amateur wifes get fucked by pornstars while their husbands watch.
In reality most of the women are pros - and there isn't much real cuck content - but they are still fucking hot movies, and it could be an easy way into something harder for her and get her thinking ;)

Try to keep in mind that thoughts and words are you most powerful tool - you brain is your most important sexual organ afterall - getting her imagination running about the wonderful sexual possibilites that might happen and continually dropping little subtle hints to keep her mind on it (without being pushy) might be your best option.
Its going to take one very special woman........or.....a bunch of average ones

if i saw your wife out somewhere and if you were with her or not. i talked to her throw some good words in there and show her my cock and i know shed take the bait then. take her back and i know she wouldnt do it at frist but give me time to work my magic and im sure i can get your gf to fuck me...its happend everytime...this one cant be more different...heres my cock let me know if you would like to seee this in her holes
22 hung bull 9 1.2 inches 3 inches wide

ok i have a little update. my gf is going on vacation soon. she is going with a girl friend of hers that is pretty wild. she has not said she will fuck others but i keep telling her i want her to have a good time and go crasy. i told her she should take and go out to clubs and she can dance with others guys if she wants. any advise on how to parpare her befor she goes and let her know i am ok with her having a one night stand.

Be careful and remember the old adage: "Be wary of what you wish for, you just might get it." There is a big difference between being cucked by a wife versus a girlfriend. If the wife "falls in love" with her bull, she still has to go through the expense and emotions of a divorce before she can discard her husband in favor of the bull. A girlfriend has no such restraints. If your girlfriend "falls in love" with another man, for whatever reamister (including the size of his cock), you will be history. And there is not a blessed thing you can do about it. My advice: marry her first, then let her cuck you. Good luck.
A man has not lived until he watches another man fuck his wife!

she is going to cozumel mexico.

thanks for the advise amazonking but i guess i am willing ti take that risk we have been together for a long while and are very much in love. we would get married if we were out of school and have talked a lot about it.

any more advise on how to talk to her about this.
thanks for everyone advise so far.

If she is worried at all about being a slut, you could try to convince her that she would not be a slut if she did not have sex with every man. She would not allow you penetration so....problem solved.