JH Jay, we also are in the same position as you are. Wife would like to have another baby and we both want it to be by someone other than me....would REALLY like the young to be maned by a Black Lover. J had a Lover appx 10 years ago that she was VERY seriously involved with.....she admitted she had fallen in love with him and would very well have had his young had his wife not found out about their relationship and given him an ultimatum. After they broke up, she also admitted that they had discussed them both getting divorced and marrying each other too. The real reamister they did not do this was because we had a young together and he had two with his wife.....she readily admitted that if it were not for our mister, she would have left me for him if he was willing.
We don't want that situation to occur again, but she does want to be "involved" with the guy at a level greater than just casual sex.....much like the relationship you and you wife have with you friend. Would be GREAT if we found some here locally that would also be willing to allow me a certain level of physical interaction also. We always wanted to try a situation where I would perform orally on them while they were making love, and she now has some more DOM ideas where she would like to involve me orally with him to "prep" him for her and to feed me his cum orally as she jerked him off, things like that. Never got to that point with anyone when we were involved before tho.
Really interesting that you have discussed the possibility with your friend too....suggests she is QUITE a bit more interested in this happening than she may be letting on. What has always stopped us from "just doing it" is the consideration of what to tell friends, family, and co-workers......friends and family are one thing, but she is a highly placed Exec with her company and that raises a whole new situation to deal with. It is further complicated by the fact that for a couple of years now, when they are traveling for business together, she has been having an affair with hie Boss. She was having "urges" for our old lifestyle, but we had stopped it because our Son got old enough to start asking embarassing questions, and due to a mixup in reservations in Vegas one trip and a bit too much to take for them both and his wife having pretty much stopped their sex life completely, and no one around to ASK questions, they found themselves in bed together the whole weekend!! He has no idea about our past so just assumed it would be an "affair" between them just for "comfort" and not to get serious....she actually did keep it a secret from me for about 6 months. He still doesn't know that I know.
They were on a 4 day "planning session" to Cancun, and the last nite there they were takeing a bit too much again and the sultry atmosphere of the place, and her being VERY close to her fertile time of the month which increases her sex drive dramatically, she mentioned to him that she was VERY close to her fertile time of the month which got them talking about "what if" since all she uses for birth control is a diaphragm and they had never used condoms (she HATES them!!) and joking around about what they would do if she ever got pregnant and she told him that IF she did she would definately have the baby and just tell me it was mine and a few more takes at the bar and some intimate cuddling in the dark booth, she told him that she would not mind at all if she DID get pregnant and they headed back to the room for the rest of the night where the sex talk got VERY hot and heated about pregnancy and taking risks and she ended up NOT using her diaphragm with him at all!! They ended up wth her BEGGING him to give her his baby and him whispering in her ear that he WANTED to give her his baby!! She said it was their HOTTEST time together EVER!! Went at it all night, and again the next morning before taking a cab to the airport with less than 2 hours relax so there was no "cleanup time" and she boarded the plane with 4 loads of his sperm leaking from her.......and on the plane flying back, she felt that"twinge" she gets when she ovulates (she knows when she is fertile this way, sharp pain in her side). They got a little scared then, she gasped and said "OH MY GOD, I just ovulated!!", had to explain the whole "twinge" to him and that it was not a mistake and they both got a bit nervous then, and started feeling somewhat silly for what they had done.....but by the time they got back home, collected their luggage, and got to hs car they broke their CARDINAL rule of never having sex together when at home.....and did it AGAIN without her diaphragm in the back seat of his Lincoln!!!!! That was the only reamister she broke down and told me about their relationship......she was a tad concerned that she might actually get pregnant as a result and decided she had better tell me know.
Luckily (?) she didn't, and she was actually a bit depressed when her period started that month!! By that time, we had discussed it, and she was well aware that I had no problems with their relationship nor with her becoming pregnant as a result if that was what she wanted.....so when she was not pregnant, it was a bit of a letdown for her, I could tell. She also said when she told him, his response was "well, I guess that means we get to try again?" LOLLOL She told him she would plan their trips better from now on (suggesting in her mind that he would understand she meant to coincide with her fertile time). So that complicates the possibility of her becoming pregnant by someone else, as fantasy talk about doing it has become a large part of their relationship.......she would prefer to be impregnated by someone Black (as I would prefer too). But that would be difficult to explain to him for sure....so we aren't sure where this will lead. it would be MUCH easier to explain a pregnancy by him, he looks much like me, is white as are we, and no one would have any reamister to question the young.
Would love to hear updates on how your relationship progress too.....please keep us updated either here of e-mail us direct (
[email protected]). Thanks for sharing your life........Ric
