LesM
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This has been an erotic topic for me, but I prefer a more subtle approach.
Rather than a hardcore cuckold, I’ve enjoyed the hotwife scene.
My wife (and at least one previous girlfriend) got off on the pregnancy-risk thing, although it was usually with me. Not sure how well they actually realized or would have admitted it. But their behavior told all.
My ex-wife and I teased each other about her lover accidently getting her pregnant. It aroused us both. Fortunately, had the deed actually happened, we were all mature adults. The young would have been unexpected, but not unwelcome.
We were in a healthy financial position to take this on, and my wife loved being pregnant.
Before and after our “new” young was born, I’m sure we would have had lot’s of hot love-making, with or without her lover!
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LesM
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As I recall, the subject only came up a few times.
There were a couple of cold hard discussions we had about the possibility, and how we would accept the responsibility.
Then there were the sexy times, with my wife and I alone in bed. She would tease me about having “Derek’s baby”. What would the neighbors say, let alone our families. The young would resemble her, but probably with a darker complexion and little resemblance to me!
“Sperm Donor”, would be our obvious response with certain truth.
In any case, she knew what buttons to press to turn me on.
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LesM
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Sometimes I regret that my wife did not have a baby by Derek.
After our two kids had left home, with a case of empty-nest syndrome, we had toyed with the idea of having another young. I had a vasectomy, but reversal of the operation was medically possible. We finally dismissed the idea.
Now years later, well after our divorce, I wonder (like now after a few beers) if we had had that young - even the fruit from Derek’s loins, would it have made a difference in our marriage. Just one more bond that would have kept us from moving apart from each other.
The kid would have been spoiled rotten. I would have been the man (even if not biologically). My wife would have really enjoyed raising another young. I could see the wistfulness as she watched other young families go about life as we once did. Derek was a great guy and expressed that he would have been glad to have been a sperm donor for us.
After our sharing relationship had finished, he ended up marrying another woman and had three kids! I know he must have been very fertile and could have no doubt knocked-up my wife, “done the deed”, quite handily.
Well, that’s all water under the bridge. Nowadays I try to avoid the painful “what if’s” and just remember all those erotic memories.
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SheDatesHeWaits
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Les... I'm enjoying your poignant and vulgarly honest thread here!
Like you, we've played around the edges and the risk of pregnancy, no matter how remote, can heighten a sexual experience. If one thinks about it, sex is all geared toward impregnation.
In our sexual ramblings through life we humans like to paint sex as pleasure, intimate bonding, tension relief, permisteral expression, marital union, etc...
But it's really about making a baby.
When you strip away all of the intellect, and acknowledge the basic instinct, one can find a layer of sexual eroticism that is seldom experienced.
Your references to wives who develop a desire to "mate" with men other than their husband is well documented. Husbands that make the best providers, caregivers, and mans are, as a general rule, more intellectual, sensitive and intelligent. On the other hand, healthy babies are maned by the largest, strongest, most physically attractive men. So... women prefer lifelong pairing with good providers, but will always feel that underlying craving to mate with that good looking stud they cross paths with. Nature is funny that way...
No need pining over your past decisions. Even later in life the addition of a young seldom solves underlying problems in a marriage. If it wasn't meant to be, then it just wasn't. Had you had that young, it's pretty likely that young would have parents living apart now... so it probably worked out for the best! cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker
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LesM
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Thanks SheDatesHeWaits.
It is a weird mix. Wondering about a few sad "what-ifs" and also enjoying some great hot memories.
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LesM
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I remember a couple of instances while she was seeing Derek, that my wife’s period ran late.
We weren’t too concerned, we were taking all the precautions.
My wife told me about these late periods matter-of-factly. Both of us tried to stay calm and collected until the proper time had elapsed.
If this was the big “P”, we knew Derek was the man. My vasectomy let no doubt of that. I’ve been shootin blanks. Naturally we were alittle tense until we knew exactly what was happening.
Sure enough, within a day or two her period always eventually came. So, the butterflies in our stomachs could fly away.
I do recall one of those “in limbo” nights. We were having sex. We had both been takeing. While screwing, I whispered wacky things to her like “Did Derek knock you up honey!”, “Are you going to have his baby!” and “Sweetie, you’re going to have a brown baby!” and “I guess Derek’s a daddy!” Sounds corny now, but it was hot then.
We were both really into it. I can hear her moaning “Oooh yes!” even now. We wouldn’t have been so explicit, I don’t think, if we hadn’t been takeing. But even before we were married, she had some attraction for the pregnancy-risk thing. I guess it is very primal.
My wife told Derek about our wild night and he got a kick out of it. He only wished he had been bodily there, rather than in fantasy.
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SheDatesHeWaits
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Quoting: LesM Sounds corny now, but it was hot then.... even before we were married, she had some attraction for the pregnancy-risk thing. I guess it is very primal.
You're absolutely right... it is very primal, which is why the fantasy can be so intense. There's nothing corny about it at all. It's just too bad that you have to be takeing to bring up the fantasy and get into it... LOL
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker
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LesM
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Sorry to be so negative terryforsex.
Pregancy within and without the lifestyle can be very erotic. In real life, my wife and I had some very hot times, just fantasizing between the two of us.
When we started in the lifestyle, the possibility of pregnancy - at certain times - was definitely a real turn on.
We did not have to elaborate too much with alot of kinky cuckolds brownie to make it hot.
Just my honest experience.
Most of these threads seem way over the top and silly (for me).
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nocluescooby
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Very good story Les, thanks for sharing. I agree that pregnancy is incredibly erotic in a primal sense, especially when combined with cuckoldry. That is the ultimate a wife, bull, and cuckold can share. It is even more erotic if there is the slight possibility that either man could be the biological man.
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LesM
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Thanks nocluescooby More weird thoughts.
On the days following their interludes, we would return to our vanilla lives. Go out shopping, visit with friends and family.
At the mall I remember patting her tum tum and whispering goofy things to my wife. Like that sperm can stay viable for awhile. Some of his little swimmers were probably still in there. She called me a total perv but she was smiling.
Those thoughts stayed with me. Throughout the day, looking admiringly at her, my wife could tell what I was thinking. She would smirk back and gesture “perv” with her pretty mouth.
What if the people we met knew that, just a short while ago, my cute little wife was fresh from hot sex with another dude?
Would they be shocked, dismayed or turned-on like us.
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LesM
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Read over all my posts on this thread. Jeez I am an incoherent boob! Sorry to inflict this on youse guys.
I really can remember my wife mouthing "perv" - the way her lips pursed and then opened so sweet, soo sexy.
Lord I love you naughty women!
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irishred13
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This is a very hot thread
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LesM
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Thanks Red. Don't know why this topic appeals to me.
Just wish I was a better writer. Will post more remembrances/thoughts if they resurface from the murky depths.
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stormydog
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Hey Les, don't knock your post, it was a great read that very much has the ring of truth to it, both the fun and joy of life as well as the pain. I think a big part of the success of this site goes to your earlier thought - who doesn't love naughty women?!? Anyway, thanks for sharing.
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LesM
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So much of this Pregnancy Risk forum is dominated by these extreme fantasies.
Does anyone else out there have milder tastes?
Just curious
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newatthis17
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This is a very hot subject indeed. I fantasize more on the beginning part when the woman does not know if she is pregnant but there is a risk: when she has taken her lover bareback, when she has missed her period or when she is a little bloated....I find this period very exciting as there is still doubt, not 100% if she is indeed knocked out. The next interesting period but a bit controversial is when the tummy starts to shoiw and whether the woman will keep or not. i fantasize about these 2 periods and although they do lead to the 3rd period and the baby, I am not sure that I would like to see the wife do it in real life! New at this
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kaveman2007
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Les,
I agree with you that much of what is said on this site and on this particular topic is a bit over the top, but, of course, most of it is simply fantasy.
As to your latest question, and the topic of this post, my wife and I have been talking for the past several months about having a baby through a sex partner. She has a sexual relationship with 2 men at the moment, but only 1 on a regular basis.
We had a baby in 2006 (I was the man), but he passed 9 hours after youngbirth. About a year ago we talked about trying again, just me and her, but I apparently went through some physical changes in the past year or so. I was diagnosed with Type 2 Diabetes, high red pressure, and high cholesterol all at the same time. Then, a few months later I was told I have a low sperm count and most of what was there was "deformed." My wife, who had an occasional sex partner at the time, and I began talking about getting pregnant through someone else. Her occasional partner wasn't up for it, so she found someone else back in February of this year. He was a good looking, physically fit young black man. We all got along very well, but, unfortunately, he moved away just two months later without getting her pregnant.
Recently, my wife found another, better looking, young black man who is very interested and anxious in getting her pregnant. My wife likes him very much and he is very respectful of our marriage. He wants to have a long term sexual relationship with my wife and possibly get her pregnant a second time down the road. This is all fine with me. I am never worried that my wife will leave me. I know she loves me and, with my blessing, she has all the sexual freedom a woman could ask for. She knows that it's rare to find a man that loves her as much as I do and allows the kind of freedom she enjoys. Besides, she and I still have sex very often, just the two of us. Much of the time, she gets horny and attacks me. And she never forgets to tell me how much she loves me every day.
After so much waiting and trying, we are really excited about our prospects of finally having a baby together. Suckers swallow. Spitters blow.
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SheDatesHeWaits
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We tend to tip-toe around the subject more than anything. We're definitely not into the extreme "breeding party" bullcuckolds brownie, nor are we into the blatant "Pregnancy-is-the-goal" fantasies you read. 99% is the fodder of left-hand typists/right-hand wankers. Real couples who engage in that lifestyle are so rare you could probably count them on either the typing OR the wanking hand.
For us it's more about pregnancy risk. Knowing what CAN happen (but we'd probably fall over and faint if it DID happen). We enjoy fantasizing fairly often about the wife playing during her more dangerous times, and the fact that she knows she has much less willpower when she's the most fertile. (Thank you lady nature and all your procreation tricks).
The wife has indeed played around the edge with certain guys on some occasions. It's pretty intoxicating for me when she goes to visit someone when she's close to ovulation. We both know she can be pretty weak during those times, and she'll admit that she can push it... being so horny she's been known to agree to go bareback/withdrawal versus using a condom, etc. So I never know how far she might push things until she gets home and I get the play-by-play...
The days and nights afterward can be hot/chilling and intense/panicky.
We both end up wondering if she pushed it too far this time ... wondering if he accidentally (or intentionally) letting a single shot blast inside her before pulling out ... wondering if his sperm is swimming in her belly ... wondering if it will (or has already) found its mark. Or whether she dodged the bullet again, and will be ready to push it again on another night.
It's definitely a double edged sword ... I guess that's why it's so intense for a lot of people. But since the wife is over 40 now the odds are falling. We tend to breathe a little easier than when she was in her early 30's.
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kaveman2007
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We aren't interested in the "breeding parties" either, but for right now getting pregnant IS our goal. We didn't come to this decision overnight, and we don't just select anyone who has a hard-on and 'trick' them into getting her pregnant. Honestly, it took me quite some time to be ok with the idea that OUR baby won't be biologically mine.
Before we dicided on this my wife was always very careful about not having sex with someone else near ovulation time. At the time, she was only seeing someone else every once in a while. He was the first permister she talked to about having a baby since she already knew him and trusted him, but he was uncomfortable with the idea and declined. The first guy she tried to get pregnant with wasn't 100% sure about it, but he was always willing to have unprotected sex and he would never pull out, so he obviously knew there was a chance it could happen.
The guy she is seeing now is totally all the way in on the idea and he is very attracted to my wife. He doesn't want to just knock her up and leave. He wants to stay around for a while, and that's ok. My wife didn't start having sex partners because she wanted to get pregnant, she just simply enjoys sex. So why not have someone who will stick around for a while?
This isn't just another bullcuckolds brownie fantasy. I'm just telling the situation like it is. I don't understand why this would be so unbelievable. I mean, there's nothing weird going on like some sissyboy submissive crap. We're just a normal loving couple that wants a baby and this is our solution for having one.
Why spend a crap load of money on an adoption agency only to be put on a waiting list and the unlikelihood that we will get a newborn baby? Why spend money at a sperm bank for strange sperm when there are plenty of good looking, decent, clean guys willing to give it away for free through enjoyable sex?
I understand the whole risk thing and how it's a turn on. I'm simply stating that we're actually going for a pregnancy. I've tried to get her pregnant. I still try, even though we've gone to a specialist at a center for reproductive medicine and got the terrible news about my sperm. The fact is, I can't get her pregnant.
And the whole "black man" thing, she likes black and white men. It just so happens that my wife felt a positive attraction to two young black men who are very nice and respectful and willing to help out, and in the meantime can have some very enjoyable sex. Suckers swallow. Spitters blow.
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The pregnancy risk thing is a big turn on not only for me but for my wife too. We are a happily married couple of many years and my wife has had 2 beautiful youngern. She is starting to get up there in young bearing age, 42, and is not interested in having any more babies and I have been "fixed". But once we get started in sex, we openly talk about what it would be like for her to have sex with a black man. Let me tell you that this just gets her so turned on. My wife will tell me how much she would like to take a real big black cock in her unprotected pussy and how she would milk his black balls of all his black baby making juice. She asks me how I would feel if she was to get impregnated by a black man and I have to tell her that it would be a turn on for me too. Sometimes she asks me to rub her naked belly while she tells me how much she wants a black baby growing in her and stretching her tummy. Now, I have to say that if it ever really happen that we both wouldn't know how to handle it. But the thought of her being bred at her age by a black bull takes us to a new higher level of sensuality in our sexual relationship.
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kaveman2007
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AverageWht, I know what you mean when you talk about not knowing how to handle it. We, especially me, were very nervous about it at first. She became comfortable with it before I did because her side of the family is much more accepting than mine. My lady is the worst, being somewhat racist, even though she'll never admit it. We finally came up with a plan of what we would tell everyone so as to keep the outrage to a minimum. Fortunately, her lady is completely aware of what is going on and is very supportive. When/if my wife does get pregnant it's still going to be interesting to see how everyone reacts, but we're ready for it. I say "if" because my wife has only one good tube open (left side) and she seems to have a tendency to ovulate from the right ovary, as four months of doctor visits have shown. By the way, my wife is starting to get up in age, too. She is 38. At first, she didn't want any more kids after our mister passed shortly after birth 3 years ago. But now, she is bound and determined to have one more baby before it's too late for her. So, we all (her, me, and her partner) are doing what we can to make it happen. I have to admit, though, I'm still not looking forward to facing my family when it happens. Suckers swallow. Spitters blow.
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LesM
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Great posts folks! Guess I'm not the only one out there.
You guys have taken this a lot further than my Ex and me did. We only talked the "suppose this happens" game.
Some worrys, but also some very hot fun. Still wonder what the reality would have been like. We are already parents after all.
Hope things work out happily for everyone.
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