Wife at convention

Well she has signed up for an art class at the local university. I've had more fantasies about her meeting some sexy guy (hopefully black) and possibly having running in common with him. I fantasize that she'll start saying that she is going early to class so she'll have time to get in a run with some future stud that she'll meet. She knows how I feel, so even that she says she doesn't want to do it, if the opportunity presents itself, and she feels attracted to the man, I will hold out hope! Thanks for everyone's responses and encouragement! If anything develops, I WILL update. (trust me on that)

I really appreciate everyone's support here! Still just a wannabe. Still linger here at this website. (thanks MBC!) Also, I hang at your new site youcuck.com That's got a bunch of very HOT videos. I'm trying not to push or rush her. She does know that if she does get turned on by someone, she's got the green light. Who knows, maybe she's already done the deed without bringing me home any evidence. But that's what I want more than anything else in this regard. Oh well, at least I have this site and a few others. Thanks again MBC!

Well today she told me about another convention she's going to the first part of March. This time she's not staying at the same hotel as the convention, so hopefully this will afford her more privacy. She knows how I feel, and maybe with the help of a couple of cocktails, and if the right handsome man approaches her, who knows what will happen. We've talked, she's said "I could never do that", but there's always the possibility. And if she gets a big one, and orgasms really good, she might not want to give that up. (there's always hope)

McD...if she start cheating on you, you are already a cuckold....per definition
A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women

You see, I LOVE her with all my heart. If "cheating" on me with someone who can give her more pleasure than me feels good to her, then that's what I want. What I meant by that statement was that if she cheated on me, hopefully that would lead to more regular encounters once she got home. And hopefully she would include me in after wards in some form or another.

It can happen...my wife went from "never going to happen"...to "why didn't I do this earlier"...and now because they are not fucking anymore..."why does he have to have a gf?"

Give it time, gentle persuation (very gentle), and pile on the love and support. Sounds like you two are missing intamacy...and need to find that first. She may push you off at first, but be gentle and persistant. Do not get mad at her...as frustrated as you may get. Somewhere inside her is that natural you need to awaken.

I think advise from others may be needed. You can take what parts best fit your/her permisteralities and mold them into your/her own.

Good luck.

Love the post. I'm in a very similar position with my wife. She too travels for work from time to time. At first I wouldn't want her to do it without my knowledge mostly for selfish reamisters. I'd want to be there or nearby. I'd love to get to a point where she could hook up without telling me and the fill me in after the fact. But being a voyeur at heart, I'd always prefer to watch and photograph.
fender

Allen and Fender. We do love our wives don't we? Re-assure me that the reamister I want her to do this is for her pleasure. I feel it's very nonselfish, and giving to give her the freedom to enjoy other men. But oh how I do want her to come home to me "dirty". I hope to be able to buy her some new sexy panties before she leaves for her convention in March. I'm hoping that she wants to get waxed again so she can lounge around the pool.

Maybe you ask her to slow dance with another man while she's out of town. She can describe what she feels as they dance. It gets her used to being physically close to other men. Is he getting hard as they dance? When was the last time she felt another mans erection? These are all things you can talk about. Maybe she can snap a cell phone pic of him after they dance and send it to you.
fender

Good idea Fender. I'll suggest that she does dance with another man if the hotel has any music or dance floor. I'm going nuts with anticipation of this event. I might even offer to take an extra day off work if she wants to just go out a day earlier and hang out.

Fender: Great idea

K McDonald: Does your wife like to read?

Allen, yes she likes to read. She would rather read than make love any day of the week. Any great suggestions on what she could read that would get her thinking that this is really OK, and even erotic?

Arthur, I have more or less already told her this. When I get specific about it she disconnects from me. One time she was talking about some friends of ours who she suspects of being swingers and wondered aloud what it would be like to swing. She had before this told me that she couldn't stand the thought of me being with another woman. So I took this as an opportunity and told her then that the thought of her getting real pleasure from another man turned me on immensely. I also re-assured her that I had no interest in fucking other women because if I knew she was getting pleasure from another man I would be so consumed with lust by having that knowledge that I would be beside myself waiting for her to return home. She just isn't spontaneous enough to make love while talking sex talk. These days I have to have a "date" and time set with her.

It's HELL getting older! (but she's still so sexy!)

I have bought books from amazon.com for my wife, and even a couple just recently from Barns N Noble.
Search amazon for "cuckold" or "hotwife". That should get you started.

I was also thinking, you can look at literotica.com at the short stories. You can read them yourself first, then email the stories to her. I often do that for my wife. Some she likes and some she does not. You can even search by keyword, "cuckold", "creampie", or again "hotwife"...even "cheating wife"...what ever you can think of.

I think just finding the right key to her motor is what you need. That can be a very difficult task.

Another idea: Look up TedtheBellhop, here on Cuckoldplace. Get in touch with him. He has done some good things with his wife and stories from literotica.

We had our monthly "date" the other day. We do some role playing. I was the massuse at the "Resort Hotel" she'll be staying at on her upcoming convention. As I worked on her legs I was trying to get her to say that she was married, but she gave me this line of being single and never having found the right man. Damn! I thought I had led her to saying that she was married and her husband knew that she played around. But she wouldn't go there. Allen, If I got anything that had cuckold on the title she would never read it. I would be pushing way too hard. She just doesn't seem to be into it at least for now. If the right circumstances ever come along, she'll know that she has my blessing to go forward and have fun. I am going to tell her to have fun and do some dancing while she's out there. I'm trying my hardest to convince her to let me buy he new lingerie before going, but I'm getting resistance on this as well. (heavy sigh) Keep the faith my fellow cuckold brotherhood!

I'm convinced you've got to take it slow. Let it happen naturally. Just be there every step of the way giving little hints and suggestions at the right time. Remember with women timing and presentation are everything. I'm still not there either but after a few years am seeing some desirable improvements. The last thing I want to do is to get her disinterested because I push too much. Unfortunately for me, I'm dealing with a woman with a strict religious upbringing and she is just now getting to the point where she does not think there is something wrong or dirty about sex. She's allowing herself to enjoy the mental side of sex more now. So, keep keepin on and good luck.
fender

I am pulling for you guys...as much as I want my wife to cuckold me again, it is still very exciting to see others travel down that road. It can be very hard to break out of that rut and get ones wife out of her safe zone. I used the analogy of an open or closed door on my wife. Open that door just a little bit, part way, half way, 3/4's, all the way, damn...just slammed shut again...etc.

Good luck.

Well, I got the better part of a month before she goes to her convention again. In the mean time, I will take it slow, and trust me, I WILL be there for her if she decides to go ahead and try it. You have good suggestions Fender. And Allen, I LOVE in your experiences where your wife wants you to be clean before having sex. That's something I always do. I'll take a shower, but I LOVE IT when my wife is a little bit dirty. I like to pretend that it's the scent of her having sex. (beggars can't be choosers can they?)

More role playing today

Today her "role" during out date was to be herself (a married woman) at her convention. She was to get the hots for a stranger at the bar (me) and end up going to bed with him. She did great. When I asked her if her husband knew about her affairs, she said that "they" have an open marriage, and they both get to play. Hey, not too bad if you ask me. I was hoping to hear that she didn't want her husband to mess around, but for a start it was all pretty darn hot! I'm hoping that she remembers this at her convention the first part of March.

This morning I asked her how she liked her "role" yesterday. She said it was a lot of fun. Very positive feedback!

sounds like a good dry run to me.

Now all he needs a real wet run!

Good start.

Thanks for the support Robbie and Allen! We have one more "date" before she goes, so I'm dying to know what role she wants to play. It's her choice this time. I've been a masseuse before, and when I asked her if she was married she said no, but I'm hoping for something different this time.

Any new updates?

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I bought mine an anklet on our last cruise. I'm not quite sure if she knows what it "could" signify, but I'll suggest that she take it with her on this trip. (coming up this Thursday) I doubt anything will happen, but the reamister I'm at this website is because I WANT something to happen. Aren't we all? Some of us are more fortunate than others.

I couldn't stand it at work today so I came home early. My wife called my work cell phone as I got home. She's arrived at her hotel in SF. She told me how nice it is, and it's right next to a major hotel with a nice bar. She also mentioned several other bars in the nearby vicinity including one that's semi famous for their Margaritas. I get the impression that she intends to have a take or two while there. (fingers crossed) I told her that I wanted her to have fun above all else. She knew what I meant, but time will tell if she decides to "ever" take me up on the offer.

(have boner, will wait)

good luck!

hope all goes well keep us posted

I think this will sound very boring! We talked around 7pm, and she was having dinner "by herself" at a Mexican restaraunt. I called her as I was going to bed, and she was in her hotel room watching a movie on her laptop. I'm beginning to think this will never happen. I feel destined to be a wannabe for the rest of my life. (sigh)

I guess I kinda know how you feel. Even though my wife did cuckold me for about a year, she seems to have no interest in doing it again. To experience it, know it, feel it, then to possibly never have it again is very frustrating.

All you can do is keep on keeping on, and I would say..."never say never". She might just surprise you.