Strap-on & Butt Plug questions

My current girlfriend and I are experimenting with strap-on sex and I have a couple questions for anyone with experience taking it!

First off, we've only done it a few times, but I find it uncomfortable and slightly painful. I've told her to be sure and use plenty of lube, which she seems to. I've told her I think I probably just need more practice, like several sessions a week, she says she isn't in the mood to do me that often and suggested that I practice wearing a butt plug instead.

So I've tried several plugs and the problem is that they all work there way out fairly quickly. The ones that stay in the longest have the smallest diameter right before the part that stays outside. It seems to me that for it to be effective, that part of the plug needs to be fairly large, like the same size as my girlfriend's strap-on. I've tried wearing a belt low around my buttocks adn that helps, but I really want something I can wear for extended periods, even out in public. We tried putting her strap-on on me backwards, but tha really didn't work either.

Any suggestions? Thanks

a tight thong holds mine in well

Hi waist hi leg ladies control panties one size too small or a "control body" with adjustable shoulder straps overcomes the plug problem.


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I think you will like tis one, it will stay in till you take it out

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Thanks everybody!

smokelynx - Thong doesn't seem to work for me, maybe I needs to be tighter or something.

smallcockuk - Six inches is more than I've managed, yet, but I hope to get there!

SissyLibby - The shoulder straps sound good, I've tried to rig something similar with some success.

MrsBlackBlowupDoll - I'll definately give all your suggestions a try. The submissive thing is definately an aspect I like, but my gf hasn't picked up on yet. But my main objective is to be able to take it when ever she wants to give it and enjoy it or at least only find it mildly undercomfortable, if it's uncomfortable, that adds to the presentation, but I'm really not into pain. She likes the idea of stretching me and says it's only fair I take something the size of my own dick, she she did it for me. Later she said she wants me to be able take the largest she's ever taken, I asked her how big that was and she said she'd let me know when we'd worked up to it. My competative side wants to take some bigger . . .

mecca410 - That's an example of one that stays put, but doesn't seem to stretch me out much.

Thanks again!

One of the best ways she can ass train you is to put you in chastity and not let you out until you can cum only from being fucked in the ass.

It might take a day. It might take a week. But when the only way you can cum is to get fucked in the ass, you will learn to be a horny little ass whore.

Like your idea, might use it myself
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Being an ass whore takes a little training. My butt plugs kept falling out too, we tried tight pants, straps and finally a harness to keep them in. That worked, but now she has me in chastity, I'm only allowed to cum from being anally fucked. It seems to works, becasue i'm so horny all of the time, I can't wait to be fucked so I can dribble from my little cock.

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It works well for extended wear and feels quite nice.

Andy

nice idea

I've never worn a plug for a long period of time but know a lot about getting fucked.

Try spit or cum. I got fucked this way the first time and it was fantastic. I've never been comfortable with any other type of lube.

My wife enjoys cock obligation me to get up the heavy spit. She goes ass to mouth until she works her strapon deep into my ass. She's also kept a plug in my mouth and switched back and forth so I'm constantly sucking on something. Her bulls like to do this calling it my cock pacifier. They pull it out and fuck my ass with it to keep me wet during long fuck sessions.

A few years ago when I was new to this, my wife made me shave down, paint my toes and fingers and wear a pretty robin's egg blue bra and thong. When her bull arrived, he taught me how to fuck myself in front of him. I played with my ass using pre-cum. It was so outrageously exciting to be sitting on a little stool, leaned against the wall with my legs spread before them playing with myself, I came everywhere.

Back then I felt hugely remorseful and humiliated but the bull's presence powerd me to get over it and use my cum to lube my ass. They took turns fucking me until the bull's big black monster unloaded in my ass.

I've talked to others that have had the same sensitiivty to lube that caused the problem so don't rule that out.

As for being an ass whore, I've never had to be put into chastity or deprived or only allowed to cum while getting fucked. If someone knows what they are doing, there's no greater feeling of emptiness than when they pull out. I will do anything to get another cock. Maybe I'm just lucky that way.

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Although I am alloed to masturbate, my favorite way to cum is during those rare occasions when my wife uses her strap-on on me. I usually cum within a few strokes. I too would like to be on the receiving end more often, but she just isn't as into it as I am I suppose. My hope is that one day she will have a lover move in with us that will push the idea himself, perhaps restricting me to anal sex with her strap-on, and cleaning up after him of course.

We've had strap-on sex for a while, maybe two or three times a month and really enjoy it. First anal experiences we had was with aneros prostate massager just to get a feeling what it feels like to put something up your ass. Ever since I've had a craving for bigger 'cock'. Now we are using a dildo with 6" length and 1,5" width. Best thing is to get you all relaxed and have your ass fingered and opened up a bit before the actual insertion and try and experience the dildo by yourself as often as you can. I'm kept in chastity most of the time but still allowed to play and train with dildos which has helped our strap on sessions alot. There are also different kind of sprays to relax and numb your "ass muscles" (sorry for my bad english and vocabulary). As my gf being the dominant one and my Mistress she usually tells me to get dressed up (like a sissy) and warm my self up, so she can just show up with her cock and fuck me silly. It's such a turn on to finger your own ass so I'm all loosed up when the fucking begins.