strap-on concern

My wife likes to fuck me with a strap-on. Other than licking her, it's the only sex I'm allowed, I'm not allowed to put my dick in her at all. I'm perfectly happy with our sex life, but lately I've noticed that the power of my ejaculations has diminished quite considerably.

By way of comparimister, before we started strap-on sex about 2 years ago, if I was lying on my back wanking, I could be reamisterably sure of hitting myself in the face when I came. Sometimes, if I was really horny, I could hit the wall above my head. But these days when I cum, it's just a little spurt that only just reaches my belly button, if I'm lucky. And the amount is a lot less too: it used to be about two teaspoonfuls, now it's only about half of one.

I'm a bit concerned: is it the strap-on sex that's caused this? Only the muscles for contracting the prostate are in that area, and I was wondering if they've become a bit slack?

I know many of you would welcome these changes, but my wife and I do plan to have kids one day (she wants girls so she can raise them as dominant), and I'm worried that I'll be too ruined to get her pregnant.

Is there any way of reversing this development, maybe by exercising the muscles? Or is there possibly some other reamister?

Any advice appreciated...

Doubt that strap on use/receiving would be the cause. No use, or perhaps she is slipping you something?

devoT
you married the MAN HATING LESBO.

Ignore the hate speech from Justin68. Some people are just jealous.

It does not seem to me medically possible that strap-on play will reduce your ability to come.

What might be possible is:

1. That the novelty having gone from being butt-fucked, it is just not such a mind-blast.

2. That your prostate is getting less sensitive from repeated poundings (as you suspect) - but this will only make for smaller - longer taking orgasms from butt-fucking. You should still have no problem ejaculating via other methods if you need to in the future.

3. If you are jerking when you are being butt-fucked, you might be using "the death grip" (Holding too tight while you stroke) which can reduce ejaculation ability over time.

4. If your orgasms are subsiding and none of this is the case, it could be diet, exercise/general fitness, age (if you are approaching 40) or other common issues.

What to do

I'm no doctor, but here is what I say for each possibility above:

In the case of scenario 1: Live with it (it could be cool that it you have no recourse but "same old-same old") OR spice things up by having her do you from various positions, or thinking up new humiliating scenarios for you (like humping her leg, et al.) to come outside her. (Or maybe you two want to take it up a level and get real guy to do you?)

If you think it is scenario 2: Try changing positions. Let her take you doggie style, or from behind against the wall, etc. Try changing strap-ons - explore different shapes and sizes. basically, mix it up so your prostate isn't getting the same hit the same way every time.

For scenario 3: Lighten up. Google "Dan Savage" and "Death Grip" for detailed medical rehab directions.

Lastly, Scenario 4: Hit the gym.

Good luck!
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Thanks for that.
based on your scenarios, I'd guess it's most likely a combination of 1, 2, and 4. I'll work on it, but you have taken a weight off my mind. Much appreciated.

Hi devoT
Normally I don't respond to threads because I feel that most everyone else here has more to say than I do. However, on this topic, I do feel that I can add.
A few years back I was practicing a form of masturbation where you give such minimal sensation that by the time you cum, it really only dribbles out (this can be achieved by very lightly masturbating with only one finger over a long period of time, it takes some practice but I was able to do it).
I masturbated only like this every day for a few months (devotion to this style alone). After that the next few times I came, even though I masturbated regularly, I seemed to have weakened the muscle that pushes out the sperm, because I kept cumming as if I was doing this ruined/minimized orgasm.
The point is, I'm pretty sure that if you take a month out and instead of using the strapon, you had standard intercourse, or even if you just masturbated, I think you'd find yourself back on your game after a while.
Good luck.
Hope this was reassuring.

Thanks dj21212, that's very reassuring. I think a change of routine, as well as position, would be very helpful. As you suggest, a month out would probably work, and we'll vary things to accommodate this.
Thanks again.

Don't worry just get her a big black bull when she's ready for kids.