WOW! right back at ya argekay, your wife looks very sexy, I bet she turns heads.
Will attempt to describe how it happened with my wife and I.
Must start at the beginning because it is relevant.
We began by writing each other emails and snail mail for close to three years,
before I had the opportunity and money to go see her.
I loved straight away how honest and straight forward she was and soon fell madly
in love with her, in fact several months before I even saw what she looked like.
So we built a foundation of honesty straight from the start and no games about it,
she was looking for the right husband, I the right wife.
Told her right away that I had a dominant side to me but also a submissive one,
(mostly sub now) all my innermost desires because I figured if she could not deal with that,
I wanted to know right away to save us both time and emotional effort.
Am sure I put her pretty head in swirl but for some
crazy reamister she decided to stick with me anyway,
even though she obviously did not understand the concept of sub and Dom.
She was 35 at the time, but naive as a schoolgirl about everything from
music, to politics, humor, philosophy, sex, you name it she did´nt know it,
but she was wise in many unexpected ways and street wise too.
She thought she was stupid and plain (yes really) so it was up to me
to help her build confidence in herself and that my friend took time and lots
and lots of flattery and reassurance and reminders when she doubted.
She was simultaneously taking a crash course in seeing the world as it really is,
or rather how I considered it to be and she drank it all up, eager to learn.
This later played a huge part in empowering her, when through her internet
searching she would find that I was wrong on a number of occasions.
Her wise and worldly hubby had been taken down a peg or two.
She now knows more recording artists and mistergs than I do.
Anyway back to your question.
Hope you excuse my sometimes vulgar honesty, I mean well.
My first impression of you, based on the content and style of your writing
is that you are either quite smart, which is good obviously or you spell-check,
which means that you are a tad bit anal, uhh or both.
Are your socks lined up in a neat color schemed row in your bedroom drawer?
Yeah, am having a bit of fun at your expense, but if you are considering being
cuckolded by your sexy wife (which I think you are) you better get used to
a little teasing, it´s an essential part of the game in my opinion.
You would like to watch a well hung guy fuck your wife,
I am presuming then that his cock would be bigger than yours.
That´s a submissive fantasy many cuckolds share with you.
It also suggests again that deep down you really don´t want
a threesome, but to be there when she cuckolds you watching them,
feeling excited and humiliated at the same time.
Anyway, am not surprised your little Lady was not going for the threesome idea.
What a good catholic girl fears more than being unfaithful is being a slut,
for that´s a really dirty word in her world of origin.
She already role plays with you imagining another lover
and that´s a bit slutty of her isn´t it?
But in a good way.
My wife and I role played also during sex (that´s history now)
She would go wild if I told her a story of her wearing a clean white dress
and looking the picture of piety and innocence being used by a bunch
of horny local guys right after Sunday mass behind the church wall,
or in the confessional booth during the service even.
It´s possible that your darling wife is not as innocent as you like to think.
If you are catholic also, then you understand perfectly.
Whispering good slut into her ear while using her worked well also.
Damn..oops darn it´s hard to explain this thing properly.
OK, in a nutshell, the more my wife felt empowered
the more I took on a submissive role in our relationship.
The more she gained a positive image of being a slut,
the more she started thinking about cuckolding me.
That I was turning into her willing sissy was also a factor
as you can imagine.
Treat her like a sexy Lady wherever you go
and fuck her like a little slut in the bedroom.
Oh and do try and enjoy the second part,
for it may not be offered much longer.
Don´t worry, you still get to be her man.
See I knew I would come up with it in the end.
Like I said at the beginning of the thread the best advice
I can give is take your time and talk a lot.
Or as my wife would say who never complicates things.
Just enjoy.
Proteinn1
