why is this asian forum dead?

is there a new place/forum? it's completely dead here.

Oh I have a few theories.

Firstly, it's par for the course. It's true of most forums I've seen, those that are not country-specific that is. Asians are definitely not the most active participants...not even close. Americans are all over the place, Brits maybe a distant second, and the rest of the English-speaking world is far behind in terms of participation. I think it has to do with Internet penetration, living in large-ish families, comfort with writing in English, and self-confidence too maybe. (Strangely, there's an abnormal number of Turks on this site)

Second, accepting cuckoldry and acknowledging it, is not common. Anywhere in the world. Least among Asians, I'd say. Even "regular" sex is still in the closet to a significant extent. Are attitudes changing ? Yes. Long way to go though

Third, there is no such culture as "Asian"

Bollocks this forum is about asians as hotwivies or being fucked by blacks... plenty of that

I'm an asian woman. I love reading you topic here in cuckoldplace.Much I want to participate more my knowledge is still narrow but I'm trying to learn. The culture and my limited experience hinders me in sharing my stories here.Anyway i will try because i'm interested to explore. Thanks to my cuckold husband.

start by posting some pictures of yourself

Hey folks, I am a member of this forum for years and believe me here is very fruitful to meet nice cuckold cpls and women unlike some "lemons". However, let me confess that although I have been striving to find some serious asian cuckold cpls and women for 4 years (in general I ache for asian wives), still no match
I agree with ravishwife on the position of predominant english speaking world. I guess this assumption is rather important to understand why asian ppl assume more passive attitude on this forum. Self-confidence and large family hmm I am not sure...
% 30 closed society,
% 30 language problem,
% 30 afraid of dealing with losers disturbing them here
and last % 10 maybe they feel themselves at the far end of the world to come their dreams true.

P.S. there are a lot of Turkish ppl? really?
Skype: Turkish.Master...Life is Life la la la la la....

Part of the problem is some of the complete ass-wipes you get on here. cuckdbyasian expresses an opinion then some loser sticks his head in and tells her to post pictures of herself - like she exists for his sole pleasure. OK, I know he only has 2 posts, and will disappear in a week - but there is still not enough respect given here. It is the old 'anonymous and online' syndrome.Those of us who partake in oriental pleasures know that Asian girls are best won over with a bit of politeness.

'partake in oriental pleasures'...sounds so hot !

When asian woman talk you so mean on my english. Maybe husband correct or maybe no. Not want husband to read every. Always some mean guy say something, like how many language he speak? Look like many gay guy on closet here to me, like okay to me, no judgment but why be mean to asian for english second languge? I read and get idea but not like to share. So you ask I tell. Have many happy day!

Maybe Asian wives are being ravished 24/7 by white studs, hence their inability due to lack of time, to contribute to this or other forums!

thetdybrs001:

I work with a lot of asian women. I agree white guys are quick to make fun of bad english. In my opinion though, your use of english, even if it's "wrong" can be a huge turn on. Don't ever feel self conscious about this. There is one woman I work with in particular that I REALLY want to fuck. She is not nearly as hot as you. When I think about it, a lot of it is just because I love the way she speaks english. It's cute and really sexy at the same time.

ciao

Im an Asian wife,although sometimes the use of the English language is poor but grammar is not important but the meaning of the words does a lot. It's how we express our feelings. Meaning ,as long as we can convey ideas that matters most.I feel so sexy speaking the English language because language is a culture bound....

I wouldn't say that this forum is dead, but it is lacklustre. You can speculate as to the reamisters, and there's always the possibility of another website having more activity (perhaps in another language too) but I think the only way for things to improve is for people to post their own original material. I've got none of my own. My own contributions come from scouring the internet looking for things people have missed. Slim pickings, most of the time. Black people and white people are much active, at least in terms of posting their own material. Conclusions? None. But I agree that this forum is pretty inactive most of the time. Shame.

damn more Asian women please we love them!!!
bigmuddy

You have no idea how true that statement is.

I'm married to a Filipina. I'm white but lived in an Asian-mixed (Japanese, Chinese, Korean, Thai, Filipino, Polynesian, Micronesian) culture for 38 years. Making an effort to learn the "clipped', "broken" or "pidgen" english of these groups goes a Loooong way in mutual respect.

As far as this forum being dead, I too have to admit it's very slow. That's a shame because I'm very interested in it. We have posted many times. My wife and I are not a true Cuckold couple, we're more in Swinging and/or wife sharing. (MFM. MFMM, FFM, etc.) There is also a religious stigma to "non-traditional" sexual activity among Asian females of the Baby Boom era. My wife and I never talked about Swing the first 20 years of our marriage. When we did bring it up, it took another 2 years before we did it.

I hope any Asian couples or couples with an Asian wife reading this thread realize how much we would love your participation and input.

Interesting comments about the language, and I can relate as my Asian wife, who actually speaks quite good English, had problems in that area when we tried swinging. She couldn't follow the sexual banter very well and didn't know a lot of what guys were asking or telling. Still had some great times but it caused some minor problems from time to time...like the night she turned to me right after her first bbc and said "you are right, n>>>>>>s is good fuck." He got upset just at first but quickly smiled and said she could say such things as long as she gave it up to him again (she did, several times, LOL)

skellyf

No pressure or anything, but any chance of posting some photo shoots or videos of your own material? I realize you've probably got your reamisters not to take this step. Just thought I'd suggest it all the same though because, after all, if nobody ever takes the plunge then people like crewel are basically right: the forum is dead. Feel free to refuse if you think I'm out of line. It's not like I'm going to go into meltdown if nothing new is posted next time I'm here. Business as usual, basically, just like crewel said.

keep posting, I love reading this forum!

I will take care of this for you all. Mistress Kitty is on the case
Although it seems to me it is difficult for people to sign up for the forum now.
I have been directing a lot of people here and many tell me they can't get
in or sign up. I don't know why but I will do what I can to make this section
impressive.

I say if each of you go searching around and find at least two people to join
up mainly to post in the asian section added with what I will try to do then this
area will be alive again!

Now go off and do this!

Mistress Kitty

Is she a worth asian rose

oh yeah, she is worth a dozen!

is she available for use? cuckdbyasian?

Okay Guy, I tell story happen this weekend. Keep forum going.

My cycle here so no something happen but my husband horney. We cuddle on recliner he arm around me. He beg to be touch but I ignore some then he beg more and I smack his ball. I hit real hard and he complain it hurt. I say you want touch you no like? He say want touch but soft. I hit again and tell him only he get but he still say he want touch. I touch gentle with my nail and tip finger and he get hard quick. I smack his ball hard but he no complain just moan. I touch soft again now he really like. So I stop soft touch and squeeze ball with finger and thumb. It hurt him but he only moan. I have fun now and I feel wet come out. I tell him wet come out. I tell him I no touch more and he beg. I tell him play now but he ask for touch. I smack hard some time and tell him play or I hurt him. He grab cock and start play. I wet wet now watch him play and he say very sore. I soft touch ball so he moan more. I pinch sack on nails and pull far so he moan. I say shoot on belly or I hurt more bad. He beg no pain but I hurt more and he jerk very hard. I say very much wet come out now. He jerk hard on cock so wet come out too. I hurt more hard and smack ball hard hard. I pinch on ball and tell him shoot or pain come bad. He beg no pain but I hurt ball. He jerk very much hard now and I see he in pain much. He shoot cum to belly shaking no control. I ask him that what he put in me? He say yes. I say not much he need make more. I put on finger and make eat cum. I see cum on lips and push into tongue I like sight. I wet wet wet now. He try fall arelax. I grab two ball and make hurt. I tell him no relax. I need change now so wet come out. I get up go to bathroom. I much horney. I sit and play on toilet. So wet only rub a minute till cum. I wash change pad and go back. He still hard and tell me very tender. I say good nobody else use. We cuddle to relax on recliner.

I love husband very much. He good on me as lover, friend, and keep me safe. I can have power on him and other lover but husband is best to me. Hope all guy like story. Share weekend fun to you all

thetdybrs001,

Sounds good. What else do you do? How do you cuckold him? What do you do with your lover? How does it make you feel?

helloboyboy
Its a fair point. But all of my cuckold activities are carried out discreetly. I would NEVER post a pic of a wife or girlfriend in here.

The most of I have done in that regard is send one pic of my Japanese wife with her black lover to a fellow poster - but that's only because I trust that one guy deeply.

If people in the forum valued emotional intimacy, it would be different - we could al get down and talk honestly about what we are really on about. But 75% of people in here want to get off on porn. They are fantasists who have NO intention of getting into cuckoldry themselves - so the sharing of real cuckolds will be very dull to them.

Have to agree with asian_fever...he's GOT it !

asian_fever

I can understand your position. It is up to you to do what you think is best, thanks for responding. Just one follow-up: you say that cuckoldry is mainly about emotional intimacy, and that most posters on this forum don't show much emotional sensitivity. In that respect, I would agree with you; a large number of posters don't take the time, or don't have the capacity, to be worth engaging (I don't have anyone specific in mind here, it's a general comment). But you also said that you have pics of your Japanese wife with her black lover. Judging from that, cuckolds must have some use for such material. Is it a record of some sort, like a way of reliving the past? Or bait for future lovers? Or something that is circulated among a select few?