How do I convince my filipina wife?

Hello everyone-A little background:
My beautiful 49 y.o. filipina wife (4'11",105 lbs. A-cup breasts), was born in the phillipines. She comes from a big family with modest means. She came to the U.S. when she was 10. Family, and her catholic upbringing is central to her values. She is very conservative.
When we met, we instantly fell in love, something which remains to this day. We are married 12 years and have a happy life.
Our sex life has it's ups and downs. I am much more open to experimentation than she is. A few years back I introduced her to sex toys. She was very reluctant at first, however she now enjoys them. She doesn't like vibrators, but enjoys our various size dildos (paricularly the ones that are not so long, but thick). I am of below average size, but she says my cock is perfect for her. I did notice however that she cums much more intense whan she has a thick dildo in her.
About a year ago, while away from home I sent her an e-mail of my sex fantasies. One of them included a MFM threesome. I assured her I wasn't interested in another woman, but just have her paricipate in a MFM threesome. She responded not by saying it wasn't a turn-on for her, but that her religion prohibited it. When I sent this e-mail our sex life was so-so, but after reading my fantasies email, I noticed she became much more turned on with sex.
I gradually introduced some dirty talk during foreplay and during sex. I would say things like "your fantasy lover thinks your body is so hot. Do you want him to slide his big cock into your tiny pussy?" She got sooo wet when I said this. I would use a fat dildo on her while I licked her clit and she would have a mindblowing orgasm everytime.
Lately, while talking dirty to her, I am saying things like "it makes me so hot watching your lover fuck you." This seems to make her even more wet.
My question is: What advice would you give to me to make this fantasy a reality. I don't want to push her, but this fantasy is such a turn-on for me. The thought of watching an endowed man part her pussy lips and push into her and make her cum is almost too much to much for me to take. Any advice is appreciated!

argekay

Hi ther I have a filipina wife too same age.

we have played a bit with girls

Talking about another guy now as well. Maybe we can chat on IM yahoo?

My addy is julianmbfc

MMMmmm I love filipina women and have "known" a few filipina wives myself. So, I can understand the trouble you are having with her catholic upbringing. First off, I can grantee you that your wife wants to make you happy more than anything.
That makes convincing her how much you would enjoy being her cuckold imperative. You are starting off great, you should ask her to read some of your favorite stories. Let her see this site so she knows their are others like you and you aren't just trying to relax with other women or trying to find an excuse to leave her. The most important thing is just supporting her and letting her know you love her.

Then find a nice, well hung, young man like myself and let her go wild. Trust me filipina women are hot as they come. Once you let her loose she will not disappoint...

another way might be to get her to a swing club. Most larger cities have them....if you aren't in a large city, make it a weekend trip- that may even be better. My wife (Japanese, but similar in conservatism) needed to be far from home and where she felt secure that no-one would know her. And the swing club atmosphere showed her that many other couples also played. Not to mention how freely the holy water flowed, LOL. Worth a shot....

Thanks 4 the replies!
Jonas- I have to set myself up on yahoo. Will let you know. I'd love to talk.
Dropknee- I am taking it slow as I don't want to put her off. I am not sure about showing her this site. She is not into porn per se, however I purchased some sex dvd's in the context of married couples spicing up their love lives, and after viewing them she was super turned on.
skelly- I honestly don't think she would ever go to a swinger club. She is too conseervative for that.
Thanks for all the suggestions folks. I will keep working on it and let you know how it goes. Any other suggestions are appreciated!

I have a filipina wife who recently became a hot wife. She said she would never do it. It took 3 years of gentle encouragement and now that she has had her first she is ready for more. She said she would NEVER do it or go to swing club. We are going to our first swing club on Saturday. She loves the new power she has over me and is loving it not to mention she loved getting a really good fuck session. My advice is continue with gentle encouragement.

For 25 years my Filipino wife and I had "swapping" fantasies but never mentioned it in our marriage. Then one night during an argument the subject of fucking other people came up. We finally admitted our deep desires. It took another year of taking about it before we actually started Swinging. It has been the best part of our long marriage. I also enjoy MFM.

So yes, gently encourage her. It sounds like she wants to at least try it, but her religion forbids it.
I don't see any deception, so it is a mutual arrangement between all parties.

give her waht she wants, and she will ultimately give you what you want.

Hi folks-
Thanks for all the reponses and encouragement. I have made some progress in recent weeks. I bought a fairly benign sex "how to" video with real life couples to spice up our sex lives, and it went over well. She got excited at seeing other real life couples, and was really fixated on the cocks of the men in the videos. We got halfway through the vid, and she said let's go upstairs and get it on. She said the movie "got her juices flowing". We had a great session. Last week she was waiting upstairs for me after she got dressed up all nice and sexy, and finally came downstairs to let me know she was ready. I told her I wanted to watch another sex vid and wanted to know if she wanted to watch. She "reluctantly" agreed. Well this vid was for couples, but alot more explicit. During the first scene, the guy was packing some serious equipment. I watched my wife's eyes as the girl slowly pulled down his boxers (you could tell he was hung through his briefs), and my wife commented "he's not just packing a roll of quarters". Well when the actress pulled down his briefs, my wife gasped at his size. I mockingly said "don't worry, that would never fit into YOUR tiny pussy". She said nothing, but I could tell she was into it. During the middle of the scene, I reached down and pulled aside my wifes panties. Mind you, I had not even touched her during the movie. She was soaked! This was the wettest I had ever seen her pussy. We just ran upstairs, and I started taling to her about her having that guy's cock in her, and she had the most intense orgasm I have ever witnessed.
I will continue to press on, and will keep all of you updated! Hopefully this will become a reality for us. Thanks for all the tips!

argekay


a real man size black dildo would be a good gift for her...

Hi folks-
Made some more progress yesterday. After giving my wife a nice long massage, I started some much more explicit dirty talk while beginning to kiss her. I told her to imagine that she had two men really horny for her tight little body (me and her "lover"). I told her to imagine that I was kissing her while her "secret lover" was looking at her body for the first time. I told her that "he"wanted to slowly pull down her bra, and slowly tease her gorgeous breasts with his tongue. After teasing her for awhile with this I said that "he" now wanted to slowly pull down her panties while I watched. This got her to moan really loudly. I could tell she was getting very hot. I then told her to pretend that I was nibbling on her ear while "he" slid a finger over her clit and began massaging it nice and slow. By now she was getting soaked! I told her what a turn-on it was for me to watch her getting her pussy rubbed by another man. I asked her if she enjoyed having two men please her at the same time. She breathlessly said "yes". I then told her to imagine "him" pulling out his nice fat, long cock, and rubbing his head on the outside of her pussy. At this point I slid a couple of fingers in her tight pussy, and she came within 5 seconds! She got soooo hot from this! We finished by fucking our brains out. I think this is the most we have been turned on in a long time. I will continue to keep you updated. I hope to take a few nude shots of her to share with all of you.

great thread and nice to read that you are turning into a HOT Wife mmm

argekay-
It sounds like you are definitely on the right track. Hope you're able to get some nude of your tiny wife. She must be quite a looker. All the best