how can I convince her to try

My wife is an asian woman who loves sex. I really want her to try another man, but she is reluctant. Would really like to see her get a creampie from another guy. We live in the northwest.

Everybody's experience and situation is different, but try these:
1. make sure she knows you aren't doing this as any way to get rid of her, but to love her more.
2. try swing clubs or swinging..the atmosphere of swing clubs helps women see that it's not so uncommon..and sometimes they are more comfy if you and she are doing the same things.
3. go slow...talk about it a lot..get her to verbalize what her fantasies are (or would be... IF she did it, who would she like?)
Good luck!

doesnt work for asian women... best approach is to seek a strong dominant male who can work his way into your marriage.. asian women are programmed to admire and desire dominant males.

Make sure you tell her how happy it will make you if she relaxs with other men. Most asian women will do anything to please their husbands. Then when you have her starting to think about relaxing with other men make sure you support her and give her allot of positive attention...

Good luck

I'm in the same boat. Been trying to my Korean wife to get boned for 10 years.
White Cuck, Asian Wife

wifepimp, you can't lump all women of one race into the same boat...."asian" women includes thai, vietnamese, Chinese (just a few hundred million there alone), Japanese, Korean and others...LOTS of differences.
My tips were based on what I learned in working towards the same thing with my asian wife. So there's at least one Asian that it worked for.
This is why I started off by saying that every situation and experience (and permisterality, I'll add) are different. I do think there are commonalities...Dropknee's advice is good too, I think.

ya I've been trying to get my wife to find her inner slut for 3 years now with no luck.

There are a few cultural embedded barriers that you might have to break in order to get her started. Women grow up wanting families and white weddings, protecting their purity. These are the challenges you face most likely. Stacked on top of this low self-esteem fear that others who matter catching her, and you (husband) changing your feelings towards her after the fact.
Step 1: Know her friends. Find the ones that are single and go out to bars.
Step 2: Encourage her to go out with these girlfriends.
Step 3: Compliment her always. If she finds out that she is attractive she might start to accent her body.
Step 4: Once a guy grabs her eye. Tell her to take it a little way. Like kissing and groping, but ask her to restrain.

The rest will fall into place. If there is one thing that women love it is attention. If there is one thing that women hate, it is other women. This hate for other women will encourage competition. If you have them go out and try to get the best guy, you’re golden. Play your hand; don’t let her know your agenda. If she knows you’re sending her out to fuck other men she'll be apprehensive. Once she starts you can introduce her to the cuckolding life style. If you cater to her while she is on her way, she'll notice. Clean the house and cook her dinner, but only on the nights she goes out. This is a double whammy, she can have her cake and eat it too.

You could also try the massage route. Sometimes one massage that goes from mild to wild is all it talks. Other times it takes a few massages but it get them to be comfortable being semi clothed and touched by an other guy. And it gives you a chance to work on them between massages.

Dropknee is also right. You need to convince them that they will always be the one you love. They are your life mate. And letting her having an other guy is just a way to show your love for and trust of her. You want her to explore her sensuality and sexuality.

It would also help if I knew if some poster was close to me. Most profiles don't have even a general location. And given the ratio of dreamers to doers, one wants to save their cyber time for serious folks.

Guys, I will say this, you all have wonderful ladies in the photos you are posting. If any of you were in my neck of the woods I would love to have fun with them.
So few walk the walk!!
If I could have even 1 wife for every 100 dreamers, I would have a guy's wife every night!

My Filipina wife and I had secretly thought about MFM for more than 20 years before we actually brought the subject out in the open. Once we discovered we both had fantasies about it, we kicked ourselves because we had virtually wasted our 20's and 30's NOT Swinging or trying MFM.

We talked about bringing in another male for a year. I asked her to choose a male permister we knew as a potential partner. She picked "Bob", a guy I worked with for 20+ years. eventually she agreed and I approached Bob with the idea. He was game. We eventually set up a date at a motel.We we're all a little nervous, but once she started sucking Bob's cock, things really relaxed. I imagined we all were thinking we were in a Porn movie. And that worked for us. We eventually began swinging with other couples. But our favorite was always MFM.
My advice would be to go slow. talk about it, don't push or get mad with your wife if she is resistant. Do compliment her on how well she performs sex on you. Skellyf has the right idea

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Another route you might consider is inviting a friend over that she is especially fond of. Have a few takes to loosen up her inhibitions, and bring up the subject of how much you would enjoy watching her and the friend together. Have him pet her, and caress her, and tell her alll the things she wants to hear from him.

I really wonder if some of these suggestions come from men who are married, even. Of course, I'm the one who always mentions that there is a lot of variety so you can't assume what works for one works for another....but it's still hard to believe that it would often work to "spring" on the wife an uninvited, unannounced visit from someone to hit on her and make out with her. If the man and wife have talked about it and she's agreed already or shown strong interest, and it's just a matter of when to begin, that's one thing...but how many wives won't get super-pissed if a husband has someone suddenly, out of the blue, try to screw her? Again....everyone is different, so if it has worked for you more power to you! But I really think that there are men on here who either are not married or aren't very successfully married, who tend to have the notion that we (married men) can just march right into this with no pre-approval. How I wish! LOL. This falls into the category of guys online who say "go wake up your wife." I can tell immediately they aren't married!!! Most married men will agree here: you don't stay happily married if you go around waking her up in the middle of the night every time you get a hard on for her! LOL

Interesting, and a generalization, but probably not off by much.