another reason i like it - CuckoldPlace.com

I wrote this piece below for another category, but as most of my attention is focused on this site for those of us with asian wives, I wanted to put it here (with some extra comments thrown in). I hope to hear from others...

I had an interesting revelation about cuckolding I wanted to share.
Of course, everyone is different and everyone has different reamisters for this, but here's one I realized one special day. I'd love to hear what others say about their reamisters for liking this or their thoughts on why it's so hot.
We had done a bit of play, going to swing clubs. We had never really planned anything in advance- tried 'dates' a few times but had bad luck, I think....3 times 3 failures.
But then, we decided that she'd go black (long story on that..another time-- but I will add, that being an older Asian, she didn't even know why I suggested it at first! That was funny!). Well, by then we had started going to swing clubs but I didn't want to just take a chance on what might or might not be at the club any one night. So, I luckily found a guy online who had also been to the swing club we visited, and he and I talked a lot (that club had its own chat setup so it was easy to meet others going there).
I felt comfy with him and thought he'd be a good candidate, so we set up a meeting at the swing club (both wives were involved in the conversations too...his wife, like me, just liked to watch him, not join). Anyway:
we finally went to the club (we never played at home, always traveled out of town) on a Saturday morning...on the ride down we both were kind of quiet; my wife never did talk or like to talk about play much(remember, she's Asian, LOL). She's a Nike girl-- "just do it." Ha ha. So, we got to the hotel then went out for lunch and after it she said she wanted to go to a clothing store and look for some panties for that night.
I was a bit surprised; in all other visits to the club she'd never really been one to get fancy or buy new clothes. But this night, I was beginning to see, was different! She knew what might be coming for her!
Well, she and I were like two girls out shopping and having fun, looking through panties, and talking about which ones would look best on her (she's a thin Japanese, so not all types work well, but some work wonderfully). She picked out a nice black lace hi-cut bikini...she was just high on the excitement, I could tell. We had a wonderful afternoon. We din't really talk directly about what was going to happen-- that's still not her style-- but obviously it was on both of our minds. It was downright hot.
And that's when it hit me: this was a really great example of why I enjoy this. Some people just don't understand it....but I get to see a side of her that by definition men usually never see from their girlfriends or wives: I get to experience what she's like when she is excited and nervous and wondering about what a new man will be like.
I get to see what she was like when she was first thinking about having sex with ME! For most men, they can never see their wife in that mood and they can't share with her that excitement. Only a girl friend or in some cases a gay friend can see such things. But I got to see it that day..and a few times since. It's really a great part of the whole process.
And by the way-- the rest of the night was even better! But, another time for that.