My 28 y/o asian wife had an affair

I am not sure how to respond. He had her many times, which turns me on and also hurts me. I haven't shared this with her, as I don't know how she'd react. She is 28, 5'3, 110, long hair, Chinese, but very Americanized. Feel free to post here or email me, [email protected].

I think you want to tell her you are OK with it, but also want to watch...
small girl who likes bIg men

I fully understand both emotions... that's the reamister that I haven't actually pushed my wide byond the threshold. Did you watch? I think the best way ahead is to take her with him, share the pleasure rather than being out of it (which hurts most). WOuld like to talk to you on IM or MSN; if you like email me at [email protected]
Panos

I agree with Panos_yogi.. or ask to share details with u when she comes back from her date.

Asiansizequeen was actually correct. A huge part of me thinks it is ok and is very turned on by this. The hard part is just that she didn't let me know. In all honesty, I would give anything to see a video of what he did to her, so much so that typing this is really making me turned on. The fact is though that she says they didn't do anything like that, so there are no videos.

I have thought about trying to get her to write everything down that they did, however that cuold be both good and bad.

You will find that your imagination is much more powerful than what she may have actually done....

Dump the cheating skank.

You should never forgive cheating and you'll never trust her again. Cut your losses and dump her and find a good, honest woman to swing with and play cuckold games with.

But you won't because you're a weak-willed wimp.