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Paave787

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I have been thinking about the reality of being a cuckold and decided to offer the cuck wanna be�s and fantasizers another side of the picture - that being cuckolded in the true sense of the word is not necessarily fun and games. In my case, about 8 years ago, my wife started cuckolding me behind my back. I had absolutely no idea and even though she is very attractive, I had never considered even the possibility that my wife would want another man. I was rudely informed otherwise when she went to a business convention and I accidentally discovered she had taken her diaphragm with her. I was shaken to my core because there is only one use for that and she had taken it either knowing she was going to have sex with another man or in anticipation of the possibility of sex with another man. I couldn�t decide if I should call her right away or wait until she came home. I decided on the latter and had 2 relaxless nights thinking about what was going on. When I did talk to her, she sounded completely normal and I tried to do the same but found it difficult to make small talk with her. In fact, she asked me if everything was all right but I couldn�t bring it up and said yes.

I picked her up at the airport and it took about 40 minutes to get home. It was a very long ride for me. She was in the bedroom and had just started unpacking and I just asked her why she had taken her diaphragm with her. She looked shocked and at first said that it was where it always was next to the bed so why was I asking about that? Then I asked her about her spare one - that she kept in her dresser - and that I knew she had taken. Her next response was anger and she asked me why I was going through her dresser. In fact, I had a legitimate reamister and it was really accidental that I noticed it was gone. Up to that point, I was doing okay and running on anger. But then she just admitted it and the bottom dropped out of me emotionally. After 15 or 20 minutes of mostly staring at each other, I asked her why. She said that I didn�t make her feel attractive or desirable and sex with me didn�t do anything for her anymore. She said he was someone she worked with, that he was also married and that they became friends first and then it had happened over the last few months. She also said that she wouldn�t give up his friendship. When I first insisted and then begged that she tell me who he was, she told me - it was her co-director and her boss by seniority - who I knew and hearing it made me so physically ill I had to throw up. He was a much bigger and more authoritative man than me, and even when he was being friendly to me, had an obvious air of superiority. And now he had taken my wife.

That night I stayed in our guest bedroom, but didn�t relax and in the morning I couldn�t look her in the eyes. She went to work as if everything was normal but it was different now because I knew she would be around him all day. that night, she called to tell me he had asked her to go out for a take and she would be a little late getting home. When she did get home, she was in a good mood and seemed sympathetic to how I felt so I asked her what had gone on. She said they had gone for a take and then sat in her car for awhile. Then she looked me in the eyes and said that she had given him a blow job and he had cum in her mouth. She kept looking at me to see my reaction, which was to go throw up again. When I came back, she was already in bed with the light off so I went back to the guest room and tossed and turned all night thinking more about how she had said what she did than what she had said, and the look in her eyes.

Over the next couple of weeks, we managed to talk enough for me to know that she didn�t want a divorce or to move out and that she did not feel that there was any future in her relationship with him - he was married, had kids, didn�t believe in divorce for religious reamisters, smoked etc. They were just good friends who discovered they had similar issues with their spouses - his wife wasn�t very attractive anymore and did not fulfill his needs - and they had started having sex. She described everything that had led up to them becoming intimate including the first time they kissed and the first time he toucarbonsmudged her and she toucarbonsmudged him.
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mymonkey

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Yes, you were cuckolded in the traditional sense of the word but I think most here are more into the 'lifestyle' kinda thing where the husband likely encourages his wife to relax with other guys. That being said, I too have a word of warning to the wanna-bes---I know this is very cliche but be carefull what you wish for and be REAL sure you can handle it. it might not be exactly as you imagine.

It took me a long time to have the courage to tell my wife that I wanted her to screw another guy and a hell of a lot longer for her to go through with it (years of talk, fantasy, etc). The first few times I watched her enjoy another guys cock was just mind blowing (among other things) she was very nervous and a bit shy about it but got VERY turned on. Now, she is not so shy about things. A year ago before this started, I would have NEVER heard "I'm going out because I NEED to get fucked." come out of her mouth(I was informed of that last weekend). It just wasn't her permisterality but I guess a big cock can change you a bit. I encouraged her to humiliate me and she really wasn't into it ("honey, your cock is perfect), now I believe she has come to realize that there are A LOT bigger fish in the sea and they can give her what I can't. Now she has no problem, denying me, laughing at me, telling me she need a man, etc. I am not bitching by any means, I got what I asked for. It didn't change me or my thinking but it sure changed hers. I thought that we'd sorta just live out a fantasy and keep it in the bedroom but it changed things inside and out. As I said, I'm cool with it but if you have any doubts that you can handle it, you probably can't. g'luck
Paave787

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This is what is known in America as cheatin'!!! A cuck ENJOYS that his wife/gf/Mistress is fucking others...but she doesn't HIDE her lovers from him! In fact, she will often FLAUNT them in front of him!!! As to the 'true' sense of the word...not every man who's called 'Daddy' in bed, is that girl/woman's man!!!!



Fine line maybe. It may have started with cheating, but a cuckold is a man whose wife fucks another man or men and he knows about it but can't or won't do anything about it. She may or may not flaunt it. After I found out, about my wife, and then it continued with my knowledge, it became cuckolding and got more so with time.
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So, we didn�t break up - things just went on as they were. We just didn�t talk about it at all and I was too afraid that she would move out if I tried to make her stop. I knew that she had told him I was aware of them. In retrospect, I have wondered how many times she came home and slept next to me after sex with him. I have asked her and she only says that she did do that but has no idea of how many times. It took me almost a year to admit to myself that I wasn�t willing to risk losing her by trying to make her stop seeing him. I wasn�t sure that I could make her even if I tried to. I also knew that I was being left out of a big part of her life and that part had changed her. She dressed more provocatively although still suitable for business and just acted with more self awareness and confidence. Somewhere inside myself, I realized that I liked the change and decided to tell her that, and that it would be okay with me for her to continue her relationship with him openly. The only thing I wanted was that she tell me about everything - when they were going to be together if they had made plans, if they did something impromptu that she tell me, and that she tell me everything they did. She agreed and things slowly got better between us. I knew when they were going to be together and she would tell me in detail what they did. That seemed to excite both of us but we still weren�t having sex together very often and particularly not after she had been with him.
At some point, I told her it would be okay with me if they came to our house and that I would go somewhere while they were there. She said she would think about it. Then one morning, I was taking a shower and she stuck her head in and said that she could have a visitor that morning if it was okay with me. So that was the first time I actually had to say okay knowing it would happen almost right away. She had made plans to stay home from work for the morning and I heard her call him and say it was okay, and that I would be leaving in half an hour or so. Driving myself to work, I realized that I was completely lost emotionally because I had said it was okay for another man to fuck my wife even though I didn�t want that to happen. I couldn�t work and just sat and thought all morning about what they were doing. She called around noon and said she was going to work for the rest of the day. Even though we both knew, neither one of us said anything. I couldn�t stand it and about ten minutes later I drove home but not sure why.

I walked into the house and probably my imagination but I felt an emotional vibration. In the kitchen there were 2 glasses in the sink and in the bathroom, the toilet seat was up. Part of me did not want to go into the bedroom but I did. The bed was made but the blinds were turned down and it was dark. There was something there that I could sense but couldn�t define. I went to where she kept her diaphragm and the case was there but it was empty. Then I went into the bathroom and something made me look in the waste basket. There were a couple of tissues wadded up and right on the top and I picked them up. They were wet - I unfolded them and on the inside there was some of his cum that hadn�t been absorbed (I found out later that they were used as �leak protection� and that when she got out of bed, his semen started running down her leg so she wiped it up with the tissues). There was no mistaking what it was and the reality of it made me feel like crawling in a hole.
This isn�t meant as a lecture, it�s just my recounting of my permisteral reality of being cuckolded. Now some will say �what�s the big deal� or �it sounds exciting�. Well, it probably would be except that it was happening because I was a failure, as a man, in sexually satisfying my wife, and another man had taken over. I paid the mortgage but he �owned� her and I was on the outside looking in. It wasn�t voluntary or a swinging arrangement, nor was she a �hot wife�. It wasn�t a game or a fantasy, it was real and that didn�t feel very good inside - it damaged my pride. Despite all of that, I accepted it and let things go on, and I still do. More...
Paave787

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Again, the fact that it isn't voluntary makes this a sad story. Part of my pleasure with 'other' men, comes from knowing my cuck is excited by it as well! You need to leave her, and find yourself again. This is ovbiously NOT your kink!


Cleanmeup - actually it is quite the opposite. Being a cuck is my greatest pleasure but it took some time and experiences to know that. The reamister I started this the way I did is that cuckolding can involve some difficult emotions and decisions and I thought some might find it helpful.
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Not very long after, I started to change. One night she came home after being out with him and said she was too tired to tell me about it - �maybe tomorrow�. Then she just went to bed. I was pacing around and found that she had left her clothes on the floor of her closet and her panties were in plain sight. I had always liked seeing her in her sexy panties (but probably never said so) so I was curious. I knew right away what they had done because the crotch was soaked and it was obvious it was semen. For the �first timers� - exciting right? Actually, his semen wasn�t a nice white color or clear, it was more yellowish and thick, and they smelled sweaty and - for lack of a better term - ripe. The reality of a cuckold�s first encounter with mixed bodily fluids. Still, I found it exciting to have them in my hands and their scents in my head and I knew I had to accept and deal with it. Once I started carbonsmudgecking, I realized that it happened regularly. I was humiliated and ashamed that I was carbonsmudgecking my wife�s panties for evidence of another man, so I would look after she was in bed. Then one night she caught me. I was afraid that she would be mad - and she was annoyed, but she also said she thought it was erotic. She wanted to know what I did with them and when I told her I toucarbonsmudged and smelled them she asked if I had ever tasted them. When I told her I hadn�t, she said that she could imagine it being very hot to see me try doing something different like that the next time, then went back to bed.

About a week after that, she told me she would be out with him after work and to wait up for her. When she got home, she said she had something for me and wanted to see me do that �taste test� thing we had talked about. We went into the bedroom, and she undressed to her panties, then started to take them off. She laughed and scruncarbonsmudged her face up at me then said �they�re pretty messy so you really don�t have too if you don�t want to� and let them drop to the floor. But I wanted to something that would excite her and had gotten myself a little high before she got home, so I helped her step out of them and picked them up. Just like before, they were soaked with his semen and had a strong scent but this time they were warm from her body. She said again that I didn�t have to but with her looking at me, I lightly licked the crotch. There wasn�t much actual semen on them because it had soaked in, but it had a salty, sort of flat taste. I almost gagged a little - but somehow didn�t - not because of the taste but because of the idea of what I was doing. �So�, she said �how do you like the taste?�.
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Yes more telle us more....your wife has a great attitud.........please tell us more
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More shortly, but I really did "taste test" her panties, and I still do - see pic.
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More......When she asked me about how her panties tasted, I wasn�t sure if she was being funny or serious so said that it was okay because it came from her. She laughed and then asked if I knew what I was really licking. I said that, yes, I knew that some of it was Jim�s (formerly �Him�) semen but because it was from her and she wanted me to, I could do what I did. She said probably most of it was Jim and that she had felt it leaking back out of her most of the way home. Then she said she would be in bed, and that I could do a taste test there too. I wanted to but felt it was weird that I did. The lights were off so I couldn�t see very much, but her pussy had a sweaty, different odor - like her panties but stronger. She held my head and pressed tightly against my face and I could feel that she was very wet . When I licked between her lips, there was a fluid that was thicker and the taste was much stronger than usual. I knew what it was but she was responding with an unusual excitement that I realized was because of what I was doing. After several more minutes, she had an orgasm and told me she loved me. We talked for awhile and she said that what I had done was very exciting for her and if it didn�t upset me, it could happen again. It became a regular part of our relationship and became more and more exciting for me. Then once time while I was down on her, she told me that she had been thinking about telling Jim and asked how I would feel if he knew. Because we went to occasional social events for their office and Jim would usually be there (and usually without his wife), it was already uncomfortable for me to be around him I had managed to get used to meeting him face to face and even make small talk. He would have this smile that made me feel he was probably thinking about fucking my wife at the same time. I told her that it was up to her. I would always lick her after she had fucked Jim, and sometimes her panties and if they had been at our house, wet spots on the sheets. She sometimes wanted to �take a picture or two� which I knew she would show to Jim. She liked to take them of me herself but we also set up the camera on the timer for other views of us together. Awhile ago, I found out that some had made their way onto the internet by way of Jim and when I saw responses to them, I was amazed at how many men had made positive comments or said they wished they were me. So I decided to write all of this down. In response to some of the comments here, I�ll say that it�s now been several years and I�m perfectly comfortable with the situation and how my wife and I relate sexually. She told Jim a long time ago and he thinks I�m a nice guy but I have to get out of the way when he wants her. I don�t have any direct participation with them and if they are at our house, I stay away until she calls me. I still see him at social events but now it excites me, and if he calls her at home and I answer, it�s electrifying to hear his voice.

Not all cuckold relationships work out, and to assume that it�s always voluntary or welcome is dangerous. Some result in break-ups or unhappiness. Not every man can or will accept that their wife prefers another man sexually, much less enjoy and encourage it. Some do, and I do, but it took me time, some confusion and pain, and a lot of introspection to understand how I could fit in, and that it could not only be an exciting pleasure but a permanent preference. I�m also very lucky to have a wife who loves me even more now because of my trust and faith in her. Lucky, lucky, lucky me.

I anyone would be interested in more info or photos, please leave me a message and a contact address.
Nicolas

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Great story, thank you very much for sharing....I'd like to see or read more from you.

My e-mail is [email protected]

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i like 2 hear and c more of the "hidden cam" in ur bedroom

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Paave787

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Some more misc pics
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more wet spots




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more pics
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all for right now
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u show me her cockhungry eyes ??
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They are above in my earlier posts
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WOW Paave,

Your wife is beautiful and very sensual. You write very well; your narrative is extremely arousing and spellbinding.

i hope we hear more.

thank you for sharing these experiences.
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mmmm...delicious story paave and much thanks for sharing your very real story. The pictures of your wifes cream filled pussy and semen filled panties are the bomb.
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You say "She said that I didn�t make her feel attractive or desirable and sex with me didn�t do anything for her anymore." Is that because his cock is much bigger than yours?
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I always wonder about guys who confuse cuckolding with cheating.

I'm a cuckold and I'm fully aware of what my wife does with other men, in fact, I'm there watching.

If I ever caught a woman cheating on me, I would dump her on the spot, no questions asked. Once a cheater, always a cheater.

The *** of cheating is not so much the actual act of having sex or dating, it's the complete and utter lack of respect and regard for one's mate.

Permisterally, I don't think a cheater can be converted into a cuckoldress.
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b][/b]I don't think paave is confused. The fact is that there are different types of cuckholds those who go into it willingly and intentionally (I count myself in this group) and those who are cuckholded unknowingly at first in the traditional sense. I say Bravo to Paave and his wife for being able to work through the pain of betrayal and make their relationship work for the benefit of all. Many others have not been so fortunate.
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No, a woman who has sex or an affair without the consent of her husband is cheating.

It's not a complicated issue.
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Believe what you will. I think readers can make up there own minds on this and do not need to subscribe to your narrow black and white views.
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jamesriske
My Wife Has Had Numerous One Night Stands, Numerous Affairs, Many Lovers. She Has Never Once Sought My Approval. Yes She Is A Cheating Slut But I Always Clean Her When She Requires Me To Do So, I Am Her Cuck And Would Not Expect Her To Seek My Approval.
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It is not a narrow view.

A married woman who has sex and affairs without her husband's consent and knowlege is a cheating spouse.

Like I said, it's not a complicated issue.

If you find out about her cheating and don't tell her but allow it to continue then yes, you are a cuckold. But she is not a cuckoldress, just a cheating spouse.

If you're happy with that, fine. I'm not trying to flame or insult you. But just don't cloud the issues here.

A spouse who has affairs and/or sex with others without their spouse's permission is a cheater.

You just can't get any more obvious or plain that that. End of story.

If you choose to be with a cheater, that's your choice. Permisterally, I would not as I consider them to be a low character and it's certainly an indication of how low they value you and how little respect they show to you.

My wife and I play cuckold games, I am aware and watching her when she's having sex with other men. I know about all of them and we both enjoy it. Some men who answer our ads are married and we turn them down.

mickle, if your wife has sex with others and knows that you know, she is not cheating. She is a cuckoldress.

There really isn't any room for discussion here. It's a simple issue that sometimes bears repeating:

""""a woman who has sex or an affair without the consent and knowlege of her husband is cheating. """"


If you're a man who discovers that your wife is cheating and it turns you on, you have to confront her and tell her that you know. Then, you must make the difficult decision as to whether to trust her from then on and form a cuckold relationship or drop her on the spot. Chickening out from the confrontation and pretending you're a cuckold while she continues to cheat behind your back is WEAK. Being too afraid to confront her because you're afraid to lose her? You already have lost her. You have two choices: confront her and form a REAL cuckold relationship or confront her and dump her for cheating on you.

Permisterally, I would dump her for moral turpitude and find an honest women to have a cuckold relationship with. My permisteral rule as taught by my grandman has always been: "never marry someone you wouldn't trust enough to go into business with." And a woman who cheats is NOT trustworthy.

But that's just me. If you want to stay with her, fine. But if you don't confront her, she's not a cuckoldress, just a cheater. And you're missing out on all the fun a real cuckold relationship can bring.
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Paave,
You have provided a thoughtful, detailed and very thought provoking story. I do not doubt that it is true. The spin off responses of other members shows that it has raised core issues about the idea of cuckolding. The manner in which you write and the pictures of your wife, who is not a beauty in the classic sense but is an attractive "soccer mom" sense makes for an erotic passage. Thanks for your time and words!
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Thanks for your thoughts Jack4Jill64
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Look, I hate to get all language police on everyone here, but technically speaking, a man who knows and accepts his wife's relaxing around is not a cuckold at all, he is a wittol. To the dictionary 'cuckold' by definition means a man whose wife has been unfaithful behind his back - that is to say, she cheats on him. In the lifestyle, we use the word more broadly, including refering to husbands who accept or support their wife in this, who the dictionary would call wittols.

If the husband is supportive or happy about it, it hardly seems to qualify as cheating to me anyway. Back in the day I imagine that any sex a married permister had outside of their partner was called infidelity (or worse), but you can't be unfaithful if you have permission.

Paave was a cuckold (much more then most of us strictly speaking) because he was both *** and unaware of his wife's activities. And although he now accepts his situation and has even managed to claw a dollop of eroticism from it, he doesn't seem enthusiastic about it, making him a far different situation then many of our marriages.

My advice to you, Paave is marriage counseling. I know I'm suppossed to say something about accepting your role, but if you really don't want it (and the rest of us do, even when we say we are ***, there is a libido level on which we find it irresistable) and from your notes, I don't think you do, then the arrangement isn't working.

You seem a reflective, intelligent, articulate guy. If you can't work it out with your wife (ie: she should stop, or you should get your own outside interest, or whatever, but it needs to be something you are happy and comfortable with) you should go out and find a new partner, one who fires you erotically the way this stuff does the rest of us. You deserve it.
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