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nmsubtofem

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Mel,

Thanks for the great post ... please keep us updated.

I would really like to hear more about T's reaction to having his orgasms ruined ... pure evil. What do you do him?

Thanks again for the interesting glimpse into your lives.

nmsubtofem
male37slave

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Quoting: goodhusband
You desperately seek true stories rather than fantasies. Well boys, you have one. Give the author her due. give her a 5 rating and tell her you loved her story. Maybe she'll write more.

GH


GH, thanks for the reminder. I left comments and questions but completely forgot about adding a rating.
Timmy27

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Thank you for telling your story. I also gave it a 5.

Timmy
essentiauk

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nmsubtofem male37slave Timmy27 thank you for your comments

nmsubtofem mostly as a ruined orgasm I take him to the very edge many times and let go at the last possible second, obviously after 15 years together knowing when to let go is second nature to me after 5 maybe 7 times he ejeculates, it comes out slowly in a stream and there is an aweful lot more of it than when a man comes in the conventional way, whilst he is aware of it it gives no pleasure to him, no feeling of coming in the conventional way......he feels just like he's been teased and then locked back up....I sometimes use some of the methods described on the Rob'n'Jill website also.....there is a lot written regarding a man having a regular clear out, both saying it's needed and saying it's not, for me I'd rather err on the side of caution and I enjoy doing it...

To those that have PM'd me thank you

I have answered all individually but I'll cover some of the points and questions I've been asked as if it's raised those questions to you it stands a good chance to of raised the same questions to others too...

IR

I've never had interratial sex....If I met a guy that was black or any other colour that I clicked with I would, I see the whole IR thing for a lot of people is a fetish of it's own, it's not one I have as such so I've never seached for it and circumstance hasn't brought it my way....


Femdom 24/7

I think in my writing I have created the impression that ours is an unequal relationship and that I dress in leather weilding a whip morning noon and night sorry about that I'll try and explain further.....


We keep the dynamic going with title and ritual, it is after all a mind set, he does always address me as Ma'am and I address him as stublett or slave, obviously he is in chastity which does focus him and make him even more attentive than is his natural permistera...

I described our morning ritual where he makes my tea runs my bath etc etc....LOL he's always done this even before we went 24/7 before we ever played any kind of BDSM role play, he loves to do things for me and make my life easy he always has done from day one.... the difference now is I throw in a few bitch comments and call him slave etc etc...

I'm a woman before I'm a Domme I love cuddles kisses affection, I like all ladies feel a surge when I know I'm desired...I'll describe below how the morning goes in more detail and hope this makes it clearer and shows the different sides....

T is always up before me, he doesn't need to set an alarm he's just naturally an early riser....

He gets the breakfast things ready, makes himself coffee and diddles on the internet till my alarm goes off.....

I shout through when I'm awake "Tea" he goes and makes tea and I go to the bathroom, by the time I'm finished in the bathroom T has made my morning tea....when I enter the kitchen we always start the day with a cuddle, a big old tight hug, he'll kiss my forhead and say something along the lines of "Morning gorgeous, did you relax ok" I'll usually kiss him several times we'll be just Mel'n'T then I'll start the DS side of things, I'll step back from his embrace and say "You may light my cigarette and greet me properly now slave" he then lights my cigarette drops to his knees and kisses my feet which I slip out of my slippers so he can do so, after allowing him a couple of minutes down there I'll say You may now go and run my bath and prepare the bed for my worship and massage, He'll reply Yes Ma'am, thank you Ma'am" other mornings after our little bit of Mel'n'T I may slap him round the face and say "Get on your knees you f**king useless c*** greet me as you f**king should" other mornings it may be just "You can kiss my feet now" rare it's the same twice in a row...

The chastity device, the titles, the rituals are just a way of the Femdom/slave dynamic staying in place it's the same of an evening, I may text on the way home from work and have him kneel naked at the door awaiting my arrival then be super bitchy all night, whip him hurt him etc etc etc as often as not we start the evening with a little Mel'n'T cuddles kisses talk about our day then the DS is returned with a simple "You may greet your Ma'am properly now slave" so again he'll drop to his knees and kiss my feet....

I hope that explains it better and shows that what we do is a lifestyle choice, we both enjoy our roles and we do take it seriously but as I said when I originally wrote T is my husband, my lover, my best friend, my soulmate and my slave rolled into one, he is my equal we just choose for the majority of our time to set the dynamic unequally....


Mel x
essentiauk

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Clean up

T has never cleaned me up, non of my lovers have ever penetrated me without a condom, they never will so no it's not a part of it for us...

Mel x
tinycuck2001

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Quoting: goodhusband
To the 880 people who have read this story without commenting. (as of 11:30 pm cdt North America)

Shame on you.

You desperately seek true stories rather than fantasies. Well boys, you have one. Give the author her due. give her a 5 rating and tell her you loved her story. Maybe she'll write more.



Not to discourage or crush anyones efforts, yours included Mel, but... It was ok... not really good, just ok.. as far as true, who knows? You can't really prove it, thats just a guess, or taken on faith because it sounds plausible... Most of us realize that 90% of the stuff on here is pure fantasy (exceptions being Multi O Mary who has video to back it up as real and a few others).

Quite honestly, having lived the lifestyle for a while - and some mild BDSM relationships too - the fantasy / fiction stories are far better than the real thing anyway. In the fantasy, everything can be just as you want it - in real life, if you ever get it that way with no errors, then you are the luckiest permister on earth - go buy some lottery tickets because your on a roll.

The best stories ever on here were from Micky-D, and they are gone now... and since then, none have really measured up in my book. Not a single one... I did praise Micky's work, and was one of several posting asking "where are those stories" when he was gone.

That being said, yes - please, keep posting stories. Somebody will hit the right combination some day and I can stop lamenting the loss of the great one.

If it is close to as good as Micky's work, true or fantasy, I'll praise it - until then, I'll keep looking and reading hoping for a really good one.

800 views and few comments - to me that goes back to the old adage - "If you can't say something nice, say nothing at all". Apparently 800 people didn't think it was really good, they probably thought it was ok. And on this site where everyone expresses opinions so freely about what they do or do not like, and what should or should not be here on site, it is obvious that those who really liked this story are in the minority.
goodhusband

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Tinycuck2001

You quoted me, so I will reply. Mel wasn't asking for comments I was.

I have two responses, before you start running down other people's writing why don't you show us what you can write. You're that guy who's never really created anything himself, but loves to run down other people's attempts.You should have taken your own advice and kept your mouth shut.

We need to encourage people to write on this site, or there will be never be anything to read, and if arrogant fools like you keep running people down or fail to encourage people you'll only see "My wife went out on a date last night. It was really hot."

Also, I disagree with you. I think her story was pretty good, especially for a first attempt. She was writing a narrative about how she and her husband got into their life. She wasn't trying to write an erotic fantasy. There is a difference. She wasn't trying to be Micky_D.

Last winter I got to know Micky_D just a little bit. I posted some stories on his new site. My impression of the man is he would be the last permister to try to discourage a new writer.

If you want to rip someone don't rip a new writer, go over to my story and rip me. I've been posting at Literotica.com lately. My skin is very thick right now. I've been ripped by the best.

Goodhusband

By the way, Mel has been corresponding with me on my stories for over a year now. Go back to Sandra and Stevie and look at her posts there. She's real.
essentiauk

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peakmb and goodhusband thank you both for jumping to my defence it's very good of you.....

tinycuck2001 you are quite right to have your own opinion, I wasn't offended by it at all, but the comparimister was a little unfair, I'm not pretending to be a writer, thats goodhusbands department and also your favorite MickyD among many others that do it so well and keep us all entertained, I was prompted to just tell how our lifestyle as it is, developed over the years to what it is today, more than anything to show the guys on here that frequently ask the question "how do I get my wife interested in******" that these things don't just happen over night as a general rule and that underlying every relationship that is a good one there is love and respect.....anyway good luck and best wishes to you...no hard feelings

Mel x x
nmsubtofem

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Mel

Thank you for answering my question.

Please continue posting your observations considering your relationship with T ... this is one of my favorite threads right now.

Your just awesome!

nmsubtofem
nmsubtofem

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Mel

Thank you for answering my question.

Please continue posting your observations considering your relationship with T ... this is one of my favorite threads right now.

Your just awesome!

nmsubtofem
tinycuck2001

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Quoting: goodhusband
I have two responses, before you start running down other people's writing why don't you show us what you can write. You're that guy who's never really created anything himself, but loves to run down other people's attempts.You should have taken your own advice and kept your mouth shut.


I did not run down anyones story or post - I said it was ok... You asked for responses, that was my response. Looks like what you should have asked for was comments from people who only agree with your assesment of the story...

I do not write stories, because I can't - I never said I could. But I do know what I like, really like, and this wasn't it.

Next time you ask for opinions, specify that you only want those you agree with.

Mel accepted the comments without issue. I assume that Mel realizes not everyone liked it, and that is the way real life is. Can't please everyone.

As far as an unfair comparimister goes, I did not compare. I simply stated that Micky was best, and others did not compare to him. I will venture that not many who post here will argue that. If I were to compare I would have mentioned differing styles, content, flow, etc... It was not a comparimister at all. Just a simple statement of who I think is the best.

Mel, you are very gracious - and as I stated in my first post, please do keep writing if it appeals to you. I'm always looking for a really good story.

Peak and Good, you are jerks. And being so, you'll probably rip this too. But I am going to ask you not to respond unless you are in absolute agreement with me - which is what you should have done in your request for comments.
goodhusband

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tinycuck2001

You are absolutely correct. When I was asking for comments I was asking for positive comments.

No one gets paid to write at this site. Everyone is an amateur. We write because it gives us pleasure and at times seems to give pleasure to others. When someone likes a story it is important for us to hear it because we are all very insecure about what we are doing. That is why I was asking for comments for Mel and it was the only reamister I was asking for comments for Mel.

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800 views and few comments - to me that goes back to the old adage - "If you can't say something nice, say nothing at all". Apparently 800 people didn't think it was really good, they probably thought it was ok. And on this site where everyone expresses opinions so freely about what they do or do not like, and what should or should not be here on site, it is obvious that those who really liked this story are in the minority


By the way that observation was erroneous. Very few people actually take the time to comment on the stories they read at this site. This story actually got a very large number of positve responses.

Also your negative response was one of the very first I have ever seen in the story section of this site. You have put yourself in very elite company.

I maybe should not have made the request for more responses. I did it because Mel has made many comments of support to me while I was writing my stories, often at times when I was feeling very insecure about what I was writing. I guess I was just anxious to see that she got a positive response to her first attempt at writing.

Believe me the first time you lay it on the line and put a story out there for everyone to read it is very nerve wracking.

It also appears that I should have stated my request a little more specifically. I thought that since this was an adult web site, most of the people here would be mature and intuitive enough to understand that in a situation where everyone is an amateur we might be gentle with each other. Apparently I was wrong.

By the way, when you cite another writers work as a standard of excellence while you are criticizing someone else you are making a comparimister. To suggest otherwise is foolish.

You also admit that you can't write. I would suggest that the only difference between you and me is that I try anyway. This is true of most of the people writing stories here. We're not great writers. We all know that, but we try to create stories in our little niche because no one else does and many people seem to enjoy them. You might try to cut us a little slack.

Good Husband

PS Your statement that "Peak and Good, you are jerks" was only half right. Peak's not a jerk.
peakmb

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Gents,
Lets try to be adult about this. I'm English so of course I don't even know what a jerk is.
Tiny,
My one criticism of you is that you stated your opinion as a fact. I agreed with you about MD and I gave you an opinion, which I said was such. In your gracious reply you did it again. Now I could say you were a wanker but you are probably american and wouldn't understand and I'm too much of a gentleman anyway. So let's leave it there should we.
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Very nice to hear! while we are just sorta beginning down this road it is very re-assuring to hear a story so sincere... It's been very helpful for us to recognize the importance of communication and the ultimate mutual benefits that inevitably result. Thanks again - Great read!
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Mel,
I recently sent you a private note where I mentioned the private angst of Maria. I have just noticed that after an absence of a year, she is back posting again. She is also British, her tale may be of interest to you and to many here. The hyperlink is visible to registered members only! is the address. Enjoy her tale, it's one of the most interesting I've ever read.
tinycuck2001

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Quoting: peakmb
Now I could say you were a wanker but you are probably american and wouldn't understand and I'm too much of a gentleman anyway.


Wanker, Jerk, Jerk-off, Prick - all the same... same meaning, same context.

I started my comment with this... 800 views and few comments - to me that goes......

When I say to me, you think that means fact?

Good grief...
essentiauk

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Spanksami glad you found it a good read, thanks for commenting, if you communicate between each other always you'll not go far wrong, thats my experience anyway...

peakmb, I did reply to your pm, did you not get it? thanks for the link

Mel x x
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Mel,
I got it. Thanks. I only mentioned it because I told you she had stopped posting. Then she restarted, that's all. Sorry for the confusion.

Tiny,
I give up. OK. Maybe we just speak different languages. Let's move on and leave this great string to its author.
asehpe

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Mel,

thanks for sharing your story -- I was indeed touched by it. I hope the two of you are having as much fun, and are really as happy, as you say. Because D/s dynamics is really a difficult and complicated thing -- I have no real experience in it, but I do have sufficient imagination to see this -- I have the impression that couples who have really navigated these waters and come unbrowniehed, even happy and stronger, to the other side are worthy of admiration. The failure rate seems to be quite high.

I am curious about one thing: emotional needs. Not that D/s play isn't satisfying in itself -- it is a maelstrom of emotions that overwhelm you in all kinds of ways. But people are complicated. A sub hubby, however much the fantasy and the stories would like it, is not only an (emotional) pain slut -- he's also a man, a permister, a soul. (In the same way, a sadistic wife is not simply a leather-clad robot dishing out lashes and verbal use; she's also a woman, a permister, a soul.)

How do you deal with that? What does hubby do when you're simply sad or depressed or down? And what do you do when hubby is sad, depressed or down? If you or hubby are under stress because of external factors (job competition, an unexpectedly high work load this week, how to pay the mortgage this month, the death of a friend, an accident in the family)? After all, relationships are not only sex and lust.

Such things are usually asked in vanilla contexts. Why I'm asking you? Because, as an (experienceless) submissive, I'm sometimes quite afraid of the nature of these desires. They look sometimes destructive. I know, it's all play; but it's strange that something that looks so bad is actually so good. It's strange that something has to look bad in order to feel good. Maybe it's just because of my lack of experience; that may very well be. But considering all the symbolic play -- all the "Get on your knees you f**king useless c*** greet me as you f**king should" that we love so much to hear -- I wonder how this all plays out when hubby feels bad or is in need of emotional support. Sorry if I seem to be asking obvious questions, but I again say I have no experience and I do feel concerned.

Do you two talk a lot off-play? (I suppose 24/7 is more an ideal than a reality, and rightfully so; probably it simply means that the game can be started -- or stopped -- at any moment.) Do you have to deal with non-D/s related problems often? Do you think these are significantly different -- more, less, worse, better -- than in vanilla relationships?

Thanks for any input,

Asehpe
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Ashpe

What a good question. That is something I am also very curious about.

Timmy
essentiauk

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ashpe....I've pretty much answered your questions if you read back, I emphasised that whilst there were whip wielding nights it was far from always like that, and that at any time T could be himself till whatever the problem was had been discussed and resolved....I also stated several times that he is my love my life my soul mate etc etc...

The dynamic remains in place at all times but to various levels which are mood and circumstance related, at the end of the day for T he is always controlled as the device remains in place, of course there are days where he'd like the whip wielding me and gets the emotional me, however that in itself is domination do you not think?

Glad you enjoyed the read...

Mel x
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Yep, I did enjoy it. Thanks!

I think I get the picture. Support when needed, play when wanted. That's cool.

One further question. Do you see yourselves living forever together, getting old together, having youngren, etc.? And do you think your interest in this play will last that long? In case one of you -- your or your husband -- gets tired of the game and wants to stop it, would the other one feel hurt? Be able to deal with it?

Just curious. As far as the two of you are happy, you certainly have my support and admiration.

Asehpe
essentiauk

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asehpe, youngren Nooooooooo! staying together forever, Yes he still excites me as much today as 15 years ago when I first met him, Femdom and chastity forever, I'd like to think so but we do and always have communicated well so if the relationship were to change I'm confident we'd mould and adapt......

Thanks for youe interest

Mel x x x
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Mel,

thanks for the answer. It's good to see you two are open to each other, and ready to adapt. In a world where relationships of all kinds can be so complicated, yours seems to be a good example of how things should be. It's good to know good stable things are possible. Keeps the hope of others afloat.

I wish you two eternal lust & love. Your story makes me think the two of you deserve it.

All the best,

Asehpe
HWHusband1

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Thank you for sharing your beautiful erotic journey.
monsieur42

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essentiauk
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heltdin

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essentiauk,

excellent post

thank you for sharing
oldbearswitch

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Hi Peak, the comment about "Marias Angst " intruges me. Especially since I used to corespond with her regulary when she was starting out.

Would you please elaborate, if you feel free to?

Thank you. Vic aka Oldbear456321 at gmail d c
oldbearswitch

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Hi essentiauk, thank you VERY MUCH for sharing, and ESPECIALLY for taking the time to respond to all the interesting questions.

LOVE and PAX to you'ns!
lonewo1975

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New to this lifestyle and found your story very informative and also gave me alot of insight into myself and my lover. Helped me understand more of what he is expecting and what I have been struggling to wrap my head around being able to do.

thank you for sharing your story with us.
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