Dick Diva
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Nice to read about how you and her got into it. and the way she started from a sweet wonderful housewife (which she still can be) but has this other side to her. I especially like the part about you for being naive about the whole thing.
Caution: Here comes a generalization:
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Men enjoy sex with new people even if it isn't better sex - it's just different. Women enjoy sex with new people only when it's better and like it when those results are repeated consistently</generalization>
So unless we as men have more to offer than the other guy, (I'm just talking sex here), we will be sitting in the sidelines.
Some of us in these forums say if we want to be cucked, we should marry a slut. I'm not sure about that. All the things I've read lead me to believe it's the demure loving wife that finds her sexual drive later. I think mine has sewed her wild oats early in life. She was a raver teen with a knock out body and when she wanted to have sex, she would. settling down seems knew to her and I think she's liking it.
This is all the things my Fianc� has done before meeting me:
� Gang bang with 4 men
� Sex with the door man of a club in the broom closet
� fucked in a sling repeatedly with a dildo by a group, (tape floating around)
� She had a Boyfriend for a year with 10 inch cock who only fucked her anal
� a number of BBC affairs and to this day believes they are bigger.
I'm going to cross post this for some help
Vancouver BC, Canada
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Ed Mueller
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It's good to hear about other people's real experiences. In my first marriage, I was very interested in getting into swinging, but my wife at the time resisted and we never participated in the lifestyle. After my marriage to my 2nd and present wife, I thought I could talk her into swinging also but she too, was not keen on the idea. I felt that by finding another man to have a threesome with, she would warm up to the idea of swinging.
I was lucky in finding a nice guy through the internet, however, he lived in a different city. In reality, it was lucky that he did live away from us. After talking to my wife extensively and convincing her that I really wanted to watch her with another man, she relented and was at least willing to meet the guy. As it turned out, he traveled to our city at least once a month for business. It was during one of these trips that I made arrangements to meet him for lunch and talk about my goal. We set a date for the same evening. My wife reluctantly went along with the plan and we met him for takes and dinner. Upon meeting him, it was obvious she liked him immediately. We had a nice dinner and went back to his hotel for takes. He was shy and uncertain how to begin and tried to follow the advice I had given him about how and where she liked to be touched. It was somewhat stressful so nothing happened that night. We did however make a dinner date for the next day.
I did some preparation the next day before our dinner meeting. I bought a sexy board game which called for takeing and removal of clothes as the game progressed. The combination of the game and takes did the trick. Our new friend and my wife wound up in bed that evening. The 3rd and final day of his stay in our city had the same results. This time, they had sex twice that evening with me watching. During their sex play, I watched in fascination and excitement. I didn't experience any jealousy or insecurity during their coupling but rather increased my excitement. Over the next few weeks, she met him several times and it was during the times she was away with him that the feelings of jealousy and insecurity overtook me. The range of emotions overwhelmed me and it took every bit of willpower to keep me from bringing up the issue with her. I held my tongue because I found that I enjoyed watching them, hearing about their episodes, so tremendously, that I realized I was becoming addicted to watching them have sex. I participated the times he would come to visit, but my main pleasure was watching. Unlike the "bulls" in many of these stories, this friend of ours was very different. If anything, I was the aggressive one, telling him what positions I wanted him to use on my wife, when to do it and even directing them in a video. They met monthly, on average, for about two years until he lost his job as as result of layoffs from the poor economy from the 9/11 events. We tried to see him after that but his need to hold down two jobs to support his family diminished our meetings until it dwindled down to nothing. We're still good friends, my wife met him once when she was traveling on business and had a nice encounter with him but she's since decided that she doesn't want to participate any more. She wonders now why I encouraged her to have sex with another man, she wonders if I was trying to push her away from me and in some way find another man as a way for me to get our of our marriage. I've assured her that that was never the case but it was only to add to my excitement. We never did participate in swinging but it brought me to the realization that I truly enjoy watching her with other men. I miss seeing her and our friend entangled in the many sexual positions they tried. I regret I was never able to get her to have sex with a black man, and I wish she would have expanded her range of lovers with many other men. While we now meet with our friend and his wife as just friendly couples, I have the hopes that their carnal intrigues might some day continue. But until then, I have the memories of a wonderful episode in our lives.
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