bullinphoenix
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Do any of you have any tips on making women submissive/ humiliating them and so forth? My gf told me that she wants me to completely dominate her in the bedroom, the only thing is that I don't really know what to do. Of course tying her up is a start, but I think complete domination will come from me mentally "fucking" her much more than just physically tying her. Plus she told me that she was kinkier than I was and I hate losing a challenge! This seems like the right forum to ask  , so do you guys have any ideas or tips on how I might dominate her completely? Thanks |
Rodger
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Well it is not too difficult, you just need to get her into situation where she is doing what you want.
So you need to give her directions, both verbal and non verbal and make sure that what is happening is to suit you and what you want.
Tying her up might be fun sometimes, but you are right, the best form of domination occurs when she just submits to what you want.
However in saying that, I have always found that a good soft blindfold can be fun. Once it is on her, she really is there just as your plaything!
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numnut
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Slap the bitch ,make her suck you cock. hold her hair gently at the back of her head until she runs out of breath,ram dick down her throat until she gags and let her come up for air and slap her again calling her you fucking slut . Repeat Repeat and then pull her head back and kiss her with passion, tell her how good she is doing. repeat untill stuggle subsides, turn her over(do not release hair) and slam your cock hard into her snatch while pushing her face down (gently from your hold at back of head) Wack arse and ride that fucking slut home  |
redimac
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organism denial....
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numnut
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Quoting: Scarf Tried that..only makes her a Bitch! Quoting: numnut Slap the bitch If you were a woman ..... |
redimac
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Scarf
That's when you buck up and become dom.
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Scarf
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I can do that
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bullinphoenix
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These seem like really good ideas, what about ideas on how to punish her?
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redimac
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Pretty variable depending on what tricks her trigger...
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bullinphoenix
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Well, maybe I just have lack of imagination, or maybe I just haven't done this kind of thing enough, but all I can think of is spanking?
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redimac
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You might start w/ some gorean positions.
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SheDatesHeWaits
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Sh1 is right on the money... in stark contrast to the first reply that "it's easy". It ISN'T easy to do right. It takes a variety of talents to pull it all together and make it work well for everyone. We always laugh at the "Kneel Bitch!" types that think D/s is simply ordering a woman around.
Also... you don't "make a woman submissive". Believe it or not, women are people too. They come in all flavors and types. Some have a submissive permisterality. Others will take your riding crop and shove it up your ass if you expect their presentation.
If someone has a submissive side, it takes a lot of time and effort to cultivate it, working with them to unlock those feelings, bring it out, find their limits, develop a synergistic Dom/sub relationship, etc.
Reading the BDSM sites is a place to start. Alt.com has some insightful sources, too. Bondage.com is surely related, but remember bondage and D/s are actually different. There are plenty of D/s relationships that don't play with bondage. Good luck!
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker
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SheDatesHeWaits
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cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker
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SheDatesHeWaits
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Few pics for encouragement!
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker
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bullinphoenix
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I really appreciate y'alls help! I will certainly check out those sites... haha and it's nice to know people with intelligence are interested in the cuck fetish too  Thanks again! |
nimrod
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Thanks for the thread bullinphoenix
I am a cuck thinking of becomming a bull, and I would like to know some tricks to making women submisive.
Can you make any woman submisive or is it only a particular type of woman that can be submisive?
Thanks
what waz i thinking?
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Piltdown
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As Sh1n3r suggests, it's always good to understand the role you want to take on in a dominant/submissive relationship. A wealth of ideas and knowledge helps, but it doesn't replace creativity and knowing your desires and more importantly the desires of your partner. However, you can try all the the tricks and gadgets you want. Fact is, she'll never be truly submissive to you unless two things happen.
First, she has to really want to be submissive to you or neither of you will be satisfied.
Second, you have to be dominant AND confident. The only way to do that is for you to really want it. If you're not, you'll look like some sort of cartoon character to her.
With any other scenario, at least one of you will be just going through the motions and not find that special place. You'll end up with the same results as the vast majority of couples bored to distraction with their mundane sex lives and believing that tying her to the bed posts and calling her a slut will make the boredom forever disappear.
Why not spend more time talking about it with her? Take the lead, find out what turns her on and be that dominant partner. A true Dom takes the time to know his or her sub and takes care to push those buttons that are going to turn their play into a passionately erotic and memorable moment.
All universal moral principles are idle fancies.
- Marquis de Sade
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mcevin
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Hey, here's a KLUE!
If you have to ASK, you are already F**KED!
Sorry, but that's the way it is...
Love,
Jamie
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mcevin
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Hey, here's a KLUE!
If you have to ASK, you are already F**KED!
Sorry, but that's the way it is...
Love,
Jamie
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iwannagag
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Blindfold her, tie her up, put her into a submissive exposed position, make various signs that say stuff like "I am your slut", and "I want it in all holes", and other nasty things. Don't tell her what will be on the signs. Take pictures of her with and without these signs.
Show her the pictures without the signs. If she likes how she looks, show her the pictures with the signs. Tell her which ones you like the most and which ones you are going to show to your friends.
Its all about brain fucking. You have got to make her trust you but be a little bit afraid of you. But she must trust you.
Caution: I've never done this before, so what the hell do I know.
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SheDatesHeWaits
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Quoting: iwannagag You have got to make her trust you but be a little bit afraid of you. But she must trust you.
As far as fear, a sub should never fear her Dom. The presence of fear indicates an absence of trust, and a sub must completely trust her Dom.
However it's perfectly acceptable, and indeed desirable, to create an edge of uncertainty about what he has in store for her! The tremblings of anticipation should come from the unknown... not fear of the Dom! Regardless of what task or act will be required of her, the ability to face them is largely drawn from the absolute faith and trust in her Dom.
A good sub will balance on the edge of a cliff for her Dom, provided she trusts him... and a good Dom will always push her closer to the edge than she thinks she can go, but without ever placing her at risk.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker |
cucktim
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Anyone know of a website or info on how to tie up the wife as in the pics above. Especially pic #2 form SheDatesHeWaits. I wasn't a boy scout so I could use a little help. The wife has a submissive side and I think she would enjoy being tied down and have some strange men service her. |
SheDatesHeWaits
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cucktim... we just bought a set of cuffs... wrist cuffs, ankle cuffs, thigh cuffs, waist cuff, collar and a blindfold. All of the cuffs have "D" rings attached to them, so it's just a matter of tying rope from the "D"ring to whatever point you choose on your bedframe.
Trust me... it's a lot quicker and easier to use cuffs. Unless you're just into knotsmanship and the look it provides, cuffs are a lot more practical.
However, I did browse the web for "sample" positions like those shown above!
Like your wife, mine had a fantasy of being bound and ravaged. It's no longer just a fantasy... <wink>
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker
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