My submissive Wife

so much for that

Thank you in advance.

Hi Master of Disaster, sounds like you have a few issues - as a Dom myself (and assuming she is a genuine sub and 'gets something out of pleasing you') - Whats wrong with you 'using & a***ing her' - and why would she lose respect for you if you did?

haha @ few issues. If I had no issues, I'd be worried. Yes she is submissive and likes my total control. She does have a lot of energy which can translate into a "topping from the bottom" feeling thing. I think it's cute when she gets like that. Something tells me I will get more than I bargained for on this one. We'll see, as I am not flexible on this and am effectively willing to play russian roulette of sorts.

Thanks

Perhaps she is not entirely sub?