My Wife in Total Denial

My wife after all these years still cannot admit to herself that she married a wimp sissy fag. I mean I regularly kneel and kiss her ass. She has seen me wearing panties,bra, camisole,stockings,etc and I have not only sucked on her dildo but she has also in past fucked me up my ass. Not to mention she once found a hidden copy of Inches magazine.

I can not speak for most, but I can assume that when a woman marries a man, she marries him because he provides comfort/security for her. While I can admit I have submissive tendancies, my wife likes to have her "man" (me) also be just that...a man. When my wife did cuckold me, she enjoyed putting me in my place, but she was not extreme. She liked to keep it on the lighter side. I love kissing my wifes ass, I kiss her feet, I have not dressed in her cloths...

Your wife might be the same. She probably does not mind you being sub sometimes, but would like you to man up (so to speak) most of the time when together.

If someone broke into my house, my wife would still like to know that I am man enough to kick the uninvited guests ass.

Not so sure. I think my wife must have noticed my submissive tendencies. I did start kissing her ass before we married. But while she has stopped letting me wear lingerie in front of her and using a strapon dildo on me, she still enjoys having me kneel and beg to kiss her ass and likes to masturbate standing with me behind her with my face in her ass. I do not get to orgasm. Plus she still works late a lot and goes out on her own sometimes on saturday nights. And if I do jack off in front of her she watches me eat my own cum

Well I do have a somewhat small dick. Just under 5 inches and for the last several years have been mildly impotent. I know I am very aroused by dominant women. I am bisexual but over the years besides being fucked by a few guys I have sucked off to completion I estimate around 80 guys. Almost all of them strangers and most thru gloryholes. My wife has no clue about this side of me. Just this weekend she again masturbated with my face in her ass and is going out tomorrow night with 'the girls'

My wife has also seen me dress up and is very encouraging. She even buy me lingerie and ear rings and if she spots a cheap trashy dress (not the type she'd wear!), she will pick it up 'cos she knows I love that kind of thing.

But while she knows my submissive side and enjoys the fact that she can fuck any man she wants not only with my blessing but my craving for the details, she doesn't like to think about the possibility of me sucking cock.

But... once you pop, you just can't stop and I love, love, love being on my nyloned knees before a real man, his hard cock in my face and him not taking No for answer as I feel my lips part, ready to suck. I must keep this from her as she just wouldn't like to know I am a cock sucker and also love it deep in my girly ass 'til it hurts.

But then again, she probably does suspect but turns a blind eye and also doesn't need to know. So, she gets the cock she wants and I get the cock I want. Subhub, do you want your wife to know about your cock sucking? Or even see it?
David in Ireland

I'm jealous sissy David.

I have the same problem with my wife. She knows my desires to be dominated and to cross-dress. But does not find this role for me exciting. So there is no way for me to do even a bisexual threesome with her. I just don't know how she will handle it. She tells me that she doesn't know but seeing me doing a bj to another guy might turn her off.. So she encourages me to do such experiments myself.

Its a difficult one this and something I have come across in many fetish related message boards.
I consider myself to be subby (just because I prefer to be that way)...but in my marital life (when I had one)....I was definitely the man about the house...the provider, hunter, gatherer etc.
In business I have always been in control...its the way I am.
So I suppose it must look or sound strange for others to think of me as anything else but....in charge.

As guys get older they develop more of a sense of who they are....and so can submit more easily...safe in the knowledge that when times get rough. So do they.

Its a fact that more older gents are into fetish than younger types. Its why there are so many young bulls...............actually I laugh at the word bull. For most of the time on these sites its just a case of a younger guy wanting to fuck for free. They have no interest in the cuckold scene other than that........no matter.
stevensmiles