is chastity without a chstity device possible

i have a gorgeous albeit vanilla missus

she hates when i masturbate and i do to- my dream would be for her to lock me up and hold the key but she would think that too extreme

she quizzed me on tuesday did i masterbate and could see i admitted eventually i had under interrogation- she had given signs that we would have sex monday but she had long bath and then said she was too tired and left my with blue balls

for punishment on tuesday she said i'll have to wait for my turn

so tuesday and wednesday night i pleasured her with my fingers and tongue but got no relief in return- something i love is when she teases me and leaves me horny

however while she was at the shops this morning i did it again in the bathroom to relieve myself- i just couldnt get all the erotic thoughts out of my mind

i should say we have a young young so sex is not something we get enough time of the day to engage in

i cant seem to go longer than a week and if i do go that far i get to that silly stage where im too horny to think and am girating at my partner all night with my hard on and also wanting to kiss her all over especially her luscious ass- sometimes i wish i could bury my head there all night but she although before allowed it doesnt allow me to do it for long

help please- is there any way to stop me doing it on the q-t-
i want to never wank off- i want her to own my cock and let her decide when and how i should cum

no replies- shame- wanted to get a discussion going

i havent done the bad thing yet- i have to confess i am overweight- i piled on the pounds when with my partner- i really want to lose the weight so have asked my partner to help me with some "extra motivation" i drew up a contract which she has agreed to.

this is 100% genuine

A contract between us both:



Please realize I have your best interests at heart and hope you will agree to this to better us both and our relationship. I love you so much and I want to rekindle the strength of our relationship.



* 1. I realize that "the thrill is gone" and that I want to get it back.
* 2. Save my sex energies for you.
* 3. Make you my only fantasy.
* 4. Court you every day, attempt to win you anew.
* 5. Pamper you and pitch in around the house.
* 6. Lose weight and make you fancy me again.



I have often talked to you about teasing and denial and sometimes you really are brilliant at the denial part(joke). I know you hate when I do the bad thing and can tell when I’ve done it. I do too and wish wholeheartly I could stop myself but sometimes I wonder when I’ll get any release from you and I grow too frustrated



So I propose a game/contract between us



I am forbidden from any release without your consent- the only ways I can get release are through sex, hand release from you or permission for me to do it or rubbing against you.

In bed when I’m cuddling you and getting frisky and you don’t want me poking at you, you can use either two codewords- “no pumpkin” or “cooldown”



If you use “no pumpkin” I can worship your body through kissing your legs, back or ass until you touch my head and I have to stop and only cuddle you to relax.



If you use “cooldown”- that indicates you are not in the mood for anything and I have to cease touching you and allow you to relax in peace.



So what’s in it for you? Well I propose that to earn release every week I must lose 1 pound per week- we will weigh myself every Wednesday evening and write down my weekly weight. If I fail I don’t get any release for that week.



You can also stop me from release if:

You suspect I’ve done the bad thing

You are angry at me for letting you down on something like housework but nothing too trivial



There will be no orgasm denial placed on you and you can receive as many as you want through the week. You can demand any form of pleasure whether sexual, massaging or pampering

signed by both parties

its being going great since- i have been cutting down and excerising as much as i can outside all the hours i work- i will abstain from eating crap and hopefully the weight will start to fall off- easier said than done

my partner has had her period so i havent been able to play with her much but on saturday she started playing with "my" nipples while watching tv- with a few days of abstaining and getting her to go with our contract i was so horny- we went to bed and cuddled but she started on my nipples again- i had a ragging 5 inch boner which she then started to play with through my boxer briefs. she kept massaging my testicles while i lay there helpless

she played me like a fine musician until the boiling up started in my pants. i erupted into a massive orgasm all over myself- my pants were soaking

i never want to masterbate again- i want to save myself for her touch alone. hopefully many more teasing and denial episodes will come again