Sissy Lifestyle - Thoughts?

Hi everyone!

I've been following the forums for some time and was hoping to get some ideas from the Women, cucks/sissies and Real Men on the board. My wife and I are interested in creating a D/s arrangement with me as her sissy. We've done D/s scenes in the bedroom and last year spent several months with me as her sub. She hasn't cucked me yet but its always a possibility if she meets the right Dominant Male.
Anyway, my wife is very good at enpowering rules but not great at coming up with them so I have been working on a list of rules/behaviors/ideas that I thought the group would fine interesting.
Its still a work in progress - I have a couple of weeks to present it to my wife and get her feedback and approval, so I will try to make updates as I come up with them. Would appreciate any ideas or comments other's might have and it would be great if other sissies could share some of the rules that govern their lives.

Whatever we eventually come up with will be the "contract" between Her and me for at least the next four months or so (we are going to try it through the end of the year) and once we begin, I will try to make regular posts of how it goes. Also, if there are any Dominants, sissies, cucks in Texas (ideally in or near the DFW area) that would like to chat, we'd love to meet others!

respectfully,

sissy kiki

First Crack at Rules for a Contract

Humility

1. Must understand at all times that he is not a real man (non-sissified male who has the right to dictate his own life), but a humiliated sissy slut whose purpose in life is to serve dominant women as well as amuse them with his pathetic nature.
2. May never have any notions of being the equal of a real man, Mistress, or other superior permister.
3. May only refer to his genitalia as a cocklette, dicklette, sissystick, clit or related terms and must always use the description “little”, “pathetic,” “small” or “tiny”
4. Required to recite sissy mantra nightly
5. At Mistress’s discretion, slave is not allowed to use pronouns (“I”, “Me”) but must use an appropriately humiliating name (need to come up with list of names)

Attire
1. Must be in panties 24/7; not allowed to own boys underwear
2. Required to only wear sissy/femme attire at home
3. When no-risk of detection, daily work/outer wear attire can include pantyhose, cami, bras/sports bras
4. Must wear nighties, babydolls etc to bed
5. Must wear collar whenever in the house

Appearance:
1. The sissy is required to maintain a toned, slim appearance.
2. The sissy is required to keep weight at or below 165 pounds under pain of discipline. Sissy will be required to lose XX pounds each week until reaching goal
3. Sissy is required to keep all body hair below the neck removed. Can use weekly shavings, creams or waxing.
4. Sissy is required to keep toenails polished in appropriate femme shades
5. Sissy is required to wear clear polish on fingernails

Interaction:
1. Sissy will help Mistress identify groups and/or Dominants to play with including: Maintaining account and, if required, checking emails and/or identifying possible playmates; Identifying D/s-Gor groups for Mistress to participate in; Helping Mistress prepare for evenings out
2. The slave will understand that as a sissy, he ranks wells below any Real Men Mistress interacts with and will be have accordingly.

Rights/Privileges
1. The sissy has few rights
2. Privileges
a. Being allowed to walk
b. Being allowed to make eye contact
c. Being allowed on furniture
d. Being allowed to eat from table with plates/silverwear
3. Sissy is *not* allowed to backtalk or question Mistress
4. If sissy is ill or very busy, it can cut back on chores but can never revert to a freed state

Life
1. Required to have time of month including carrying tampons and wearing very bulky pads in panties
2. Where possible, sissy is kept in chastity
3. Chastity device is removed at Mistress discretion
4. Sissy should be punished for even minor ***s
a. Need to come up with list of punishments
b. Sissy should thank Mistress for punishing it
5. Sissy’s primary sex organs are its mouth and ass
6. Sissy is required to spend time each day with ass plugged or having ass fucked
7. Sissy must beg Mistress to fuck its ass regularly
8. Sissy should be kept in some state of bondage as much as possible

so, if i understand correctly, you are in a DS relationship with yourself?
And your wife is just doing what you want her to do?

LOL
stupid questions dont exist...
stupid answers however....

It is not that strange, nor uncommon.

Women are rarely in touch with their desires, the most that can be normally expected is that they accept to try something they don't fully understand.

Sometimes it blossoms into a lifestyle choice, but only after some half hearted experiments.

Or they just know that they don't desire this but are going along with it because their significant other wants it. There's nothing really wrong with that, but isn't the basis of this supposed to be cuckolding - which involves putting the pleasure of the woman first?
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Strange, being a woman all my life, ive never met women that are like you describe. Most of them have doubts, some may feel guilty about enjoying sex, but ive never heard of women not being in touch with their desires?
So according to you that is a male thingy?

And Johnny....please, that way of thinking throws us back to the fifties, women do evolve ya know?
Is voting for females something you know where you live? Or do you reside in an arab society?
stupid questions dont exist...
stupid answers however....

I think you misunderstood what I was saying. I think that this guy, nickcu, has just convinced himself that his wife isn't in touch with her desires, but really she is just doing what he wants because this is his desire. I'm saying that she should be doing what she wants, not what her husband wants.
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my advice is to put aside the list of rules and find some local bdsm lifestyle people. Real life D/s (which i am involved in) is a far cry from the Internet fantasy. Meeting real people, doing real things and learning (lots of learning) is your best bet for a successful D/s relationship. You can not mold the rules for your wife. You can suggest things, but ultimately she will have to find her style of dominance. My bet is that if she does, you will not care for it at first because it will not live up to your fantasy domme.

Good luck!

Just PERFECT! Congratulations, good job!