Condom only

I just signed up here and I'm not even sure if my situation belongs here. But it might and perhaps recognizes my situation.

For a while ago I think two or three years my wife (45) told me she didn't want to take the pill anymore. She told me we could still have sex without condom but as soon as I got close I needed to put a condom on. Of course this wasn't what I wanted but went along wih her wish to not take the pill anylonger.

After a while, me putting on a condom just before I came, she asked me to put on the condom a bit earlier and not wait too long because an accident could happen. Although I didn't like the idea I agreed since it made sense. And of course you can guess what happened next... after a couple of months she asked me to put on a condom straight away. Not knowing that was the last time my cock touched my wifes pussy.

Unfortunately thats not the end of my 'situation'. My wife started telling me that she wasn't in the mood, had her period, or her pussy was hurting or what ever she could find as an excuse. And she started giving me a handjob. But because she didn't want to have a mess she told me even use a condom during a handjob...

To make a long story short at this moment I'm giving myself a handjob with my cock in a condom and the only thing she does is touching my balls. She also wants me to cum very quick because she likes the idea because 'it shows me being such a horny husband...'

Does anyone recognize this kind of behavior? My wife is not seeing other men and never spoken about something like that. But I think its strange that I don't have intervourse anymore, need to wear a condom whilst giving myself a handjob and slowly not being able to not to cum for a longer time.

Looking forward to any response.