honest question

This is not intended to mock anyone. Its a honest question that may have many answers.

What is the appeal of being humiliated? Or being put in some cock cage?
Or blacks being the superior race?
Or being bullied?

I understand the sexual part of most of this but not the rest. Just curious.

Anyone?

try one of the other cuckolding forums

good idea..I guess im just used to posting here.

jjhobbs, blacks arnt a superior race, neither are caucasians,asian or Latins,everyone ia more or less the same..AAcock age is a way of showing presentation..I permisterally like hung dominant men but thats my problem.Most womam want a secure understanding man..

I have two thoughts. They may not be mutually exclusive.

1. The idea of being "less" than someone else provides the humiliated with a reamister not to try to compete. You don't have to work so hard to be "more". Is it being lazy? don't think so. I think it's a way to explore things that are not usually as accepted by those who are competing. I want my wife to WANT me to wear panties so that I can wear panties without feeling disconnected from her. If she wants it, it's ok to do. Now, would I want her friends to know and think it's wierd? Hell yes!

2. There's a have-like chemical reaction to emotional pain and that can be just as addictive as other forms of naturally induced chemicals. Think of the "runner's high" people who run long distances get. Or, the "high" you feel when you're adrenaline is coursing.

Again, not necessarily mutually exclusive. In fact, working together, they may be even more powerful on the psyche.

When Lisa tells me my penis is small, I honestly believe she's "mostly" kidding. If it were mostly serious...I think I'd cum just walking down the street by thinking about it.

i grew up i n a deeply rooted southern family that hated blacks gays and sissies. they rodeo'd and ranched and i grew up different and secluded. when i put on my panties and a woman or a man humiliates or degrades me and I am agreeing to it submitting to it and freely giving myself too it then i feel as though i am not hurt by it. it theraputic for me. and since my family was racist submitting to a black man is a
the biggest FU i can give especially since i am the embodyment of things they hated. i no longer have young hood or social issues because i own them through my actions here and in my real world.

I totally concure with draclif in the excite of the pain have. as most bdsm bottoms i can get lost in it.
sissy lindsey

I think you are rigth JjHobbs....so many answers...I think we would need a whole university filled up with doctors to give the answer(s)...

There are so many facets and the human mind is so complicated...

For me, being a successful man in all parts of life, I think it may have to do the all the strength I have to put forward every day at work, at home, toawrds the family, toward friends, etc,etc....just makes the whole cuckolding thing a 'place' where I can be "weak"...

...and to be very honest...nothing would be better for me than my darling beloved wife could (I am now a wannabe....use to be a cuck to my ex-wife...) could explore her sexuality in every positive way and have all the most fantastic and exhiting sex in the world....

My current wife (opposite to my ex) had a (in my oppinion) a very dull sex life before me met...and I have yet not been able to bring her "inner slut" out for real (oh yes....she is miles in a better place now then when I met her...)...I think it will be a revelation for her the day she freely can thrive on sex with whoever she wants (and she will get whoever....a stunning woman...)

So for me...1) the 'place' to be "weak"....2) for her to thrive as a human and a sexual subject...


I agree with you (if I understand you right)...I do not see the turn on here....but we are all so unlike....

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A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women

Linda38DD
You said your husband was castrated. Was there a medical reamister or a it a preference? Did you have it done in the US?

It is a unique experience to have someone you love being touched and used by another permister. The answer is not to take it permisterally however paradoxical that sounds. At the time, when your wife/ g f is attracted to someone else you recede into the background but does not mean they don't love or care for you. Most men have had the experience of doing something they know is dangerous or potentially harmful to their relationship but have done it nevertheless being driven by the want for sex.
Its the same for a hotwife, all that exists at the moment is the attraction...its a combination of sexual and emotional. If anything women's feelings are more intense and driven at this moment than most men who, lets face it, assess the possibility of being caught. Women are the ones who take the step over the rational line and give in to their feelings regardless of the possibility of being discovered. Emotion is all at this instant. One of the differences between women and men. That's my opinion anyway.