ok, so I figured out how to use the pic with the tiara.
The reamister I ask if she visits directly or through you/with you is mostly because I am curious. I don't know where i come up with this stuff, but when I do requests, I like to have as much info as I can get...(I'm just nosy I guess)...it helps the creative process.
I also wanted to let you know. I do private stuff. Other members have asked me to do "eyes only" type stuff of with pic they'd like to see cap'd but not necessarily shown to the world.