pilgrim54
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Cuckolding is not for everyone.
But for those couples lucky enough to have a strong relationship, a desire for white-hot sexual play, and a husband who has that special gene that turns him on when his loved one is taken by another, this can be the ultimate adventure.
I am seeking such a couple to develop a cuckold relationship.
This usually happens one excruciatingly erotic step at a time, (Although sometimes, especially if it's been discussed extensively for some time, it can be very compressed.) as the powerful sexual energy of cuckolding draws on the well of the mind to explode into the physical play.
I've observed three broad streams of thought and desire in the 'cuckold' (this is an often misused concept, but enough to designate that which we're discussing.) situation.
1:
The Wife initiating an outside sexual involvement, and either informing the Husband of this, or with him becoming aware of the event, and willingly accepting it.
This can evolve after an affair or random encounter, sometimes after an inadvertent discovery by the Husband.
2:
The Husband initiating various sexual environments for the Wife to participate in, with her willing consent.
This when a desire for new and arousing situations evolves from both sides, after clear and unambiguous sharing of each other's wishes, needs and desires.
This often takes the form of purely sexual encounters with strangers, usually arranged by the Husband, in whatever procedures and situations arouse and interest both.
3:
Either the Husband, the Wife or both seeking and participating in the admission of another permister into the marriage on an ongoing basis.
A dominant to a greater or lesser degree individual becomes regularly involved, assuming leadership of various aspects of the marriage including sexual matters, with the husband willingly acceding and serving in a subordinate manner.
Often elements of more than one of these become apparent in particular instances.
I believe it's important to give some thought to our individual acceptance of where we believe we find ourselves, so as not to venture down too many blind alleys.
What all this means to the cuckold is as powerful as what is actually done by his wife.
It may involve me dating the wife, who has her pleasure at her discretion, and controls how much she tells her husband, allows him to participate, and requires him to support her.
Rules can be developed, usually ones that make the cuck very aroused, and the lovers happily accept.
I am not just seeking an invitation to have me come over and have sex with the wife in front of the husband. (Although this may indeed occur at an early stage.) Often this is something arranged by the husband, who is in charge, arranging a suitable stranger for the wife.
Cuckolding is an intense relationship adjustment between husband and wife in which she is in control and she has her pleasure with another at her whim, while controlling the husband's pleasure with her.
As the lover, I enjoy the wife in a special way, and enjoy participating to some degree. I'm very creative and enjoy helping the wife sexually arouse, almost *** her husband with our relationship . . . *** in a good sense of course, so that he is hard, hyperventilating, and in agony waiting for the chance to have some relief with her.
Experience is not necessary. Sincerity and willingness to explore safely and sanely is. As always, this must be 100 percent discreet.
Couples who are emotionally mature and realistic will get most from the journey, I've found.
It is a given that if the husband is not aroused by the cuckold explorative process, he will not be convinced to do so and it will almost never happen.
The wife can often be convinced to participate in time, given a progressive, loving and patient development of interest.
There are many men who secretly are deeply aroused at the thought of their wives truly enjoying another man to the exclusion of the husband's intimate needs.
If this is interesting to you, drop me a line and we'll chat. You don't have to be married and you don't have to live nearby.
I'm 59, tall, well built, intelligent and sensitive.
I have experienced this wonderful world from both sides of the triangle.
Nothing comes close...
M.
Pilgrim
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