What happened last night.....

A little bit of background - I am 51yo and my wife of 11 years marriage is 45 - with a lovely body and a highly sexed individual.
I know I have not been giving her what she needs in the bedroom department and because she has a stressful job combined with a high sex drive I can only imagine how frustrating this is for her. Over the past few months she has been looking at internet sites to communicate with people - as she also needs to talk to people at an intellectual level as that is another stimulus for her.
Anyway, I sent her an email with a whole bunch of questions and asked her to rate her responses from ten to zero - as I was just wanting to better understand what is in her head, and I guess ultimately with a view to discussing whether we should try some of the things.
Some questions were the normal - like getting her to score how she rated sucking my cock, or being blindfolded etc and with others more like her being a Mistress to another guy or having another guy fuck her etc.
I won't bore you with her ratings - but the upshot was we had to go down to Sydney last night and she sent me an email saying is it all right for "Peter" (name changed) to come round tonight for friendly group massage and chat about what we would like to explore.
Now this was all of a shock to me because I knew she had been on some websites chatting to people, but this was more of a platonic nature etc. Now she wants to bring all this forward a million miles an hour simply because I had asked her all the questions and thought that is what I wanted.
Upshot was he did come around - and she was as nervous as anything and he was nervous - and I am sitting on the couch wondering why I wasn't nervous about her having a chat and a massage.
I am quite proud to be her husband as she has a great body and wonderful permisterality - but where she would be happy to fuck three or more times a day I am not in that category!
So I have a brief chat to "Peter" and find he is married and bi - but I think his wife only knows about the bi side and not that he is out wanting to meet people. Anyway - I tell him that this is all news to me and he is asking me do I want him to leave etc - but he stays and we have a take etc.
We make an area on the floor for him to give my wife a massage and this takes place with her being topless and with panties and stockings on and he starts giving her a massage.
After doing her back, then the pushing down the panties and stockings happens to reveal half her bottom which he massages etc and then a bit more so her bum is naked. All of this is happening and I am sitting on the couch watching with a take in hand - and I know he is looking at her pussy from behind as I have done massage myself and it is all very erotic.
Then the panties and stockings and boots are removed and my wife is now lying on the floor completely naked getting a massage from this "Peter". She keeps wanting me to lay on the floor beside her but I just stay on the couch saying she wanted the massage and so I would keep out of the equation.
Put the clock forward an hour or so since he arrived and with her first side massaged she wants a break and so comes up to me and says 'I need to suck a cock and so it may as well be yours' - and she starts pulling off my trousers and pants and starts giving me a blowjob while "Peter" takes a sit on the couch and is stroking her back and I am sure was touching her pussy but I could not be sure.
About ten minutes or so of this and she was encouraged to lay down on her back this time and have the massage continued.
I topped up my take and went to the loo, and came back to my couch position but also kept my trousers off - not really sure why as I didn't think anything further would happen.
So I carried on watching the massage and obviously he was massaging her tits, and was stroking down to her pussy (shaved) and clearly massaging in that area quite nicely.
Anyway with all this going on she then gets me to lie down beside her which this time I do and then she starts giving me a blowjob again and I am wondering where the hell is this all going. I think at this point I am thinking well the guy has done a good job and so I turn her face to his cock indicating that she should suck it. And she was turning to me and saying are you sure and I power her head down to tell her the answer. So that happens for a bit and then she says to fuck her, and I thought what the hell and she is on her knees doggy style and I simply go straight up her and she is soaking.
I also take the opportunity to power her head down onto "Peters" cock again so I guess this is a first for her being penetrated at both ends.
Anyway i pull out after a little while for a rest, and she sucks me again and says to "Peter" this is why I don't think I would be good with a girl - indicating that she doesn't like to taste herself. Not sure why as I know for a fact she tastes fantastic.
Anyway Peter asks well do you want a second opinion - and before I know it I have his mouth around my cock with my wife watching. And then they are both sucking my cock - man this was a weird sight to watch and feel.
I don't wish to bore readers too much but I am just trying to list the events as they happened, and I think the only other "first" was when my wife asked me to fuck her again, in doggy position, this time Peter put himself in a 69 postion with her, and started eating her out or licking her as I was fucking her, and then when I slipped out he put my cock into his mouth and started to give me a blowjob, before returning it to my wifes pussy.
I ended up pulling my cock out and spraying over her back as she is not on the pill and I was not wearing a condom. We ended up with me wanking "Peter" with the help of my wife sucking on his cock until he came all over his stomach while lying down.
And he was a decent enough guy as we were laying on the floor to get up and get dressed and we said our pleasantries and he left - I guess to avoid any embarrasing moments.
Where to from here? Hell I dont know. My wife and I have not really had the opportunity to discuss in any detail but she loved the experience and so I would anticipate in time some other things will happen.
I think to some extent I have been too controlling and whilst I have thought and maybe fantasised about my wife fucking a guy I could not in reality allow myself to allow this to happen. But this approach is all pretty selfish as I found last night that my wife was saying she found me even more attractive and desirable during the experience.
Before the meeting my wife had said to me that Peter had asked her did I want to be fucked by him or would I want to fuck him - and she could not answer that and I did not raise it during the evening. She had also said that he would not fuck her because he was married so she knew that was not going to happen - and as I mentioned I have not asked her since last night if she wanted to be fucked by him. I think the way she was on heat then she may have run with it.
Whether with "Peter" or someone else I think things will develop. Although I did not suck him I think I could have very easily - but inside of me I am thinking what would my wife then think about me. I think it is just a period of time as I think her approach is that what is done by three or more adults for enjoyment of each other is just that.
What she does not know of me is that I have allowed myself over the years to be fucked by guys and sucked many a cock - but neither with her knowledge or in her presence.
With a guy I am very much or prefer to be the submissive one, but definitely not into kissing or cuddling with a guy.
I think we have opened up another chapter in our lives, and I think in early course my wife will see my getting fucked by a guy and sucking his cock, and she will also be fucked by another guy or guys.
Time will tell.
So there ends my story of what happened last night, and if anyone wishes to comment that is great. I guess the opportunity is also there for others in Sydney (we live further north but we would not entertain up there) who would like to touch base then please do so. I think we would also like to meet a M/F couple to see what possibilities are available there. Thanks for reading.

Just me again - just thought, without disclosing too much, an image of my wifes pussy (not from last night) when she was restrained - and I took some images of the evening.

Great story, I hope things continue for you. your wife is lovely, I love a shaved pussy. Please continue as things progress or update us on your progress.

Great scenario. The bi stuff turns me on like you would not believe. Please keep us updated. I know you were worried about what the wife would think but I don't know how you kept his cock out of your mouth after already having experienced that wonderful feeling.
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Thanks for your comments.
I guess one reamister I did not suck his cock is that things had moved reamisterably quickly on the evening - I had thought it was just going to be a chat and a massage for my wife. The main reamister for me not doing anything of a submissive nature like sucking his cock was what my wife would have thought of me.
Interestingly though when she answered the questions of how she rated her sucking another mans cock - with a score of ten being the highest, she rated this a 2. For the question having me suck a mans cock she rated it a 3. On the night though, although there was an initial reluctance or uncertainty to suck his cock she did appear to get into it particularly when she was being spitroasted.

It is our wedding anniversary today and tonight she just wants some time with me and I am sure we will touch on where to from here. Another question I had asked her was does she want to fuck me with a strap on and the rating response was a 10. So I think one of my next purchases will be a strapon dildo to get her to fuck me.

Thinking further forward she may then want this "Peter" to fuck me - who knows. I guess if that happens then I think I will be heading down the road of becoming a cuckold to her, clearly not 24/7 but most likely at times that arise like the other night.

About a week ago I was standing in the smaller bedroom in our apartment and just visualising what it would be like with her being in the main bedroom next door with a potential new lover. It was a weird feeling but probably now a quite realistic scenario as this journey begins.

Will keep readers posted although I know this will not happen quickly - this is real life and other things do happen in our lives.

Nothing further physically has happened since a few weeks ago, but my wife has received a couple of text messages from 'Peter' and yesterday they did speak by phone.
He certainly enjoyed himself and it seems he wants to be more dominated - and my wife I think would be more than happy to do this albeit she has submissive tendancies herself.
It seems 'Peter' really enjoyed sucking my cock after it had been fucking her - and I must admit it did seem very exciting having him doing that to me.
So it seems a further meeting is on the cards - and I will think about a scenario and email it to my wife to get her thoughts.
I am still not sure what 'Peter' really wants to do with me - and/or what my wife wants to see happening between both of us. She is certainly excited about the prospect of another meeting - but I will update as it happens.

Thanks for the updates! Love hearing progress reports!

Well a couple of surprises over the last week.
My wife had sent a text to ‘Peter’ the permister who came around about three weeks ago to massage the wife. She told me arrangements had been made for him to come around on Monday (19 Sept). She had mentioned to him that she might be running a bit late but that I would be at the apartment. His last message of the texting to her which she told me about was ‘so when you come through the front door would you want to see my cock in your husband’s mouth?’
I understand she did not text him with a reply but phoned him to say something along the lines that providing everyone is comfortable with what is going on then she does not mind.
Peter has told us he is bisexual and that was clearly shown on our first meeting night. My wife has told me that she thinks he fancies me more than her – but to now know he would want me to have him suck his cock, and for me to potentially do this in front of her I think would be a big step for me. I would then imagine it would not be too many more meetings before he could be fucking me (because he [and my wife] have stated that they will not fuck each other because he is married).
Somehow I suspect him sucking me, and getting me to suck him, and then having him fuck me are all events that he believes he can agree to as maybe it is his way of thinking he is not cheating on his wife (because his wife cannot provide him with that).
Anyway – a long story short, the meeting scheduled on Monday did not eventuate as things changed but it is more a case of when we can arrange the next meeting rather than not happening at all.
I will be posting another ‘surprise disclosure’ that was revealed to me over the weekend – that officially makes me a cuckold.

Where do I start regarding the ‘surprise’ that was revealed to me on Saturday (17 Sept).
I will tell you the background shortly – but the summarised version is that my wife told me she has slept with another guy – not once but on three separate occasions.
This all happened before the meeting with ‘Peter’ above .
My wife and I have been together 15 years (married 11) and I must confess I do not have the same libido as her, and she has felt that because the intimacy (and other factors) were not there, she had got to the stage that she had mentally ‘left me’ and so at the time of the actual fucking she had already moved on.
Over the course of the last year or so she had been communicating with guys over the internet. I did not really see too much into it although I was pissed off from time to time – but I saw it as just a release for her.
Anyway I believe about 3 months ago she got chatting online to this one guy who obviously related to her on an intellectual level and got into her headspace and connected with her. He is some 15 years older than her (at 60yo) and was/is going through a separation himself, has financial issues etc but also could talk to her on a wide range of topics.
It would have been about mid June when I think my wife and I had an argument – she wanted me to go and see a particular opera performance or something and I did not want to go. Anyway she ended up asking this guy to go, which to her credit she told me about, but not about when they returned to our city apartment that he cooked her dinner and they spent hours talking and he ended up fucking her on the floor of the lounge after some intimate touching etc had gone on.
The second and third times he ended up fucking her was when I was overseas for a week between 27 July and 3 August.
I had thought something may have been going on as my wife had lost her watch about three weeks ago and I was searching for it when she was at work. I looked under the bed and noticed a six pack of condoms (but only 4 in the packet). Now I knew for certain they were not mine as I would buy a 12 pack (being better value!). So I phoned her at work and she said she did not know nothing about it and as she does not lie to me I accepted her answer and just thought well maybe I had put them there at sometime in the past.
But on the Saturday just gone she had arranged for us to meet with a counsellor as she really wanted us to get our marriage back on track as she still loves me and I love her.
So we were having a heart to heart with each other and sometimes getting a little tied down with the detail which the counsellor correctly put us back on track to focus on the process. Anyway what I did not know is that she had previously discussed all her goings on with the counsellor and so he was directing the conversation to a way where she had to reveal that yes she had slept with this guy but that her mind was already made up that she had ‘left’ me.
When I questioned her why she had lied to me about the condom packet she said that she was at work when I phoned and she had people around her and could not talk and so simply denied it. And for the next couple of weeks or so could not bring herself to tell me without the assistance of the counsellor.
After she had fucked him, she then started having second thoughts as to whether she could carry on her life without me etc and so she was really happy that I had agreed to meet and discuss things over the weekend.
So that is basically what has happened. For me I still love her to bits but on the other side I actually hate the guy she fucked. Because he was in a bit of a financial pickle she was trying to arrange to get him to do certain work for us so that we would pay him and achieve a win win. And so I had been going around our grounds and hearing from him what he could do to improve the property etc but I did not obviously know that he had already fucked my wife three times.
My wife says it is not his fault because she sent the message to him that we were in the process of separating and so it was not as if he was fucking a ‘married’ woman. Hard to believe but I have to accept what she is saying.
So we need to start communicating with each other a lot more and a lot more honestly now to get our marriage back on track and I permisterally believe we will, and it will be a lot stronger relationship.
She says to me that the only permister she really wants to fuck is me, but I don’t believe I can keep up with her libido and sex requirements. Now that she has officially cucked me, and also with the ‘Peter’ arrangement, I think the next step might be to involve another couple so that there is more of an equal arrangement, and hopefully where the other husband or male is able to satisfy her more than me. I don’t know – but my head is a little mucked up at the moment but it seems our lives are changing a little more to as she works out what she really needs from me and what she is entitled to.
Hopefully the above is of interest to some readers out there – and if there are genuine m/f couples or selective males that may have an interest of contacting us then please do so.

Next Tuesday 12 Oct we are going to be meeting with 'Peter' again - I will keep you advised of what happens.

She knows Peter wants me to suck his cock, and I know she has said to him 'as long as everyone is comfortable' etc - but inside I need to know what my wife really would think of me afterwards if it happens - I guess sucking a mans cock in front of ones wife is not a normal everyday thing - so I guess it is just a case of getting some reassurance from her that what happens in the room stays in the room.

She has also told me that 'Peter' hates pubic hair and so that is why I think one of the reamisters he seems to have taken a fancy to perhaps dominating me as I have shaved the hair from around my cock area and my arse to smooth as a babys bum!

The other thing that may happen is regarding her fucking the older man referred to earlier. I am going to be away again the day after next Tuesdays meeting for a period of two weeks - and I suspect she is arranging some meetings on the side with him again while I am away. I dont know whether the meetings would again involve sex - if it was with another guy it may be different - but this one particular individual I do not like.

Anyway - sorry about the delays in updating - but this is all real life and not made up.

Sorry for the delay in the update - but yes we did meet with 'Peter' - I actually arrived quite late in the evening and they were waiting for me to arrive. My wife was scantilly dressed and Peter was dressed - albeit shirt open. I thought that they might go ahead and have a massage etc but apparently they were just chilling out having a take.

I had also heard earlier from my wife that Peter would be staying the night - we have two bedrooms in the apartment so did not think much of it.

Well my wife got me a G&T and I sat down on the floor and wanted to give them time together but my wife wanted me to sit on the couch and it wasn't long before she started pulling down my trousers and pants and started sucking me - I suspect this was somewhat planned between them.

I cannot recall all the detail as I am writing this two weeks after the event but then I recall Peter moving over to sit next to me on the couch and then my wife pulling out Peters cock and she starting sucking him, and then also took both our cocks into her mouth.

I then started fingering her and then later started fucking her briefly - but she still had the tail end of her monthly, but as this meeting was postponed previously, she still wanted to meet up with him.

Anyway, so I go and have a shower and come back to the lounge room and she is laying with her head on his chest and from memory also playing with his cock.

What happens next is a bit of a blur but I know we all laid down on the floor and I was laying one way and Peter the other - and my wife started sucking Peters cock some more, but at the same time Peter was moving his cock closer to my face and in the presence of my wifes smiling face he said suck his cock and I did.

It was actually a weird feeling sucking on a guys cock with the wife watching but I seemed to suck on it for about ten minutes. So there we were in a 69 type position but on our sides and Peter was sucking me while I was sucking him.

I had then just rolled onto my stomach for a little break and I think after a little while my wife had gotten up and gone to take a shower, but Peter had then taken the opportunity to come and lay on top of me. His cock was hard and I he was nudging the area around my bottom hole, just slightly probing away.
He then whispered into my ear "do you want me to fuck you" and I just said I am not ready. A minute or so later he then whispered again "you know that I am going to fuck you soon then don't you" and I just whimpered back "yes".

But it did not end there - my wife had come out of the shower and I said it was time for me to go to bed and I was happy for them to carry on talking. And about ten minutes later I was on my side of our king bed and then I heard a whump - as Peter got into the middle of the bed. Shortly after my wife came into the bedroom and said where am I going to relax - and did not make too much effort to get into the middle which I thought well if Peter is staying in our bed then her being in the middle would be the logical option.

But he stayed in the middle and I know I am not the type of guy who is into kissing and cuddling with guys so I was very uncomfortable at this point and also felt like cuddling my wife as I felt a bit insecure after sucking Peters cock in her presence.

Again I am not too sure how it started but I soon felt fingers or a hand on my cock and I started getting hard and soon I had Peter underneath the covers sucking my cock as I lay in bed next to my wife. I think somehow she also got in on the act and was wanking me with her hand and it was not long before I came. Now I am not sure how others feel after cumming, but I tend to switch off pretty quickly - which is one reamister I need to cum last so that my wife gets off first. I think then that Peter came up from the bed covers and started wanking himself off - not sure if my wife assisted as I could not see.

I guess that is pretty much what happened a couple of weeks ago. In the morning Peter had to go quite early for a plane and I also had to catch my plane - and now I am here writing this having only just returned from overseas.

I am not sure if my wife was impressed that Peter shared our wedding bed - but I have not really had a chance to talk to her in any depth. But she has now seen me suck another mans cock - but I am not sure if she wants to see another man fuck me. I think if we meet again, then it seems that Peter can be quite assertive and may be pushing that side of things a bit harder next time.

I also alluded to the possibility that my wife may have used my time being away for two weeks to have another fling with this other guy that I do not like. I suspect something has happened - I have not approached her about it yet. I am not too sure how I would be feeling or reacting if this do happen.

Anyway - this is just another update for readers - it is real and happening. I think I would also like to see her fuck another guy but it would be someone I would approve of - so if any guys or m/f couples are into this sort of thing feel free to make contact.

Yesterday I was a bit moody with my feelings all over the place.
What was at the back of my mind is that I did not know what my wife had been up to while i was away for two weeks.
We talked a little last night and I asked some questions if she had any sexual relations with the same guy that she fucked (and that I do not like) while I was away.
She said that although she had gone out with him to a couple of concerts, and they had stayed with (his) friends near where one of the concerts was being played, she said that she did not relax with him - and I was somewhat relieved to hear that.
Still disappointed that she is still having this relationship with him at all but at the same time i do not want to be viewed as a control freak.

I also asked how she felt the last meeting with "Peter' had gone - in her view she was annoyed that he had stayed in our bed and felt in hindsight he perhaps should not have stayed at all.

She is also a little miffed because in her eyes he is more into me, than into her. She said that she was not particularly interested in sucking his cock, but did so because I encouraged her.

That statement seemed a bit odd to me and I said did you just want a massage from the guy - and if so how many meetings did you think would happen if he was not going to get anything in return. She understood that there seemed to be a limited number of meetings with him on that basis.

To remind readers - this 'Peter' apparently does not want to fuck my wife because he is married and felt that by not fucking her that he was preserving his morals - go figure.

Anyway, I also asked her did she want another guy to fuck her - and she said no because I would not like it.

So the door is definitely open - and so I asked why she thought that and she sort of mumred something that I did not catch hold of. When I was away I spoke to one of our long term friends (a female) and she made the comment that my wife had spoke of having threesomes before I met her.

Looking forward, I will have to start arranging a meeting with some other guy who is prepared to fuck her - and probably a m/f couple is also a good option.

But in my own head I am thinking of what "Peter' whispered into my ear a couple of weeks ago - the statement that 'you know that I am going to fuck you soon then don't you' - as that gave me goose bumps.

What is going on through my head is that somehow I probably need to make contact with Peter discretely - and arrange a separate meeting with him. I visualise him coming to the apartment and me being dressed in gurly gear with wig, and lipstick, dress and stockings etc - and basically being available for him to use me.

I can already imagine me kneeling and taking out his cock and getting my lipstick lips around it and sucking it to hardness. As for imagining him then coming up behind me, and pulling my panties to one side before sliding his big cock up me - and saying well if I cannot fuck your wife then you will have to do......

But that is all in the head at the moment so we will see what happens.

Meanwhile I will have to do some research to find a real bull for my wife - because even though my wife I think would prefer a threesome - what is going on in my head is to really become a true cuckold of my wife.
Thinking about getting her lover hard by sucking him and putting his cock into my wife gets my little cock hard. And the thought of cleaning up the mess he deposits into her - sounds awesome.

My wife is also going to have some womans operation early November - to basically stop her periods, and to also put in some device to stop her getting pregnant. So while I can do all the planning - she will probably be out of action for about six weeks after the operation but I will still give updates as and when they occur.

All above is real - so sorry if updates are not real regular. Happy to discuss with any local readers - we are in the central coast of NSW.

Oh - just one thing for potential bulls - even though we are based in central coast, NSW - any action would be taking place in Sydney. So m/f couples, assertive bulls - from Sydney - happy to communicate with you.

Have not written an update for a while so thought i would do so just before xmas.

No further physical meetings have been held with other people - yet! I have posted our profile as a couple on an adult contact website and have had many replies from guys.

My wife was shown the site a few nights back and I now know she is viewing the site independently of me - but at the same time saying the only guy she really wants is me.

The 'Peter' referred to above is still contacting her, but she is putting off any further meetings with him at the moment, I suspect because he has chosen not to 'cheat' on his wife and fuck other women.

She will now be having a bit of time off over the holiday seamister and will know doubt be wanting more sex - and so I suspect the introduction of a third party into the relationship is not too far away.

I am taking things slowly with her, as she is starting to read a bit more about what other couples are doing. For example this morning she read a profile of a couple where the man wanted to eat his wife's pussy after another guy had fucked and spunked in her. That part did not appeal to her as she mentioned about what if the guy had a disease that he did not know about. Clearly that is an issue, but I guess if she found some guy that she wanted to fuck on a more regular basis then if he wanted to cum inside her then he would need to provide some medical clearance for that to happen.

So at the moment it is just easy as it goes, but I am more confident now as time goes on and with continuing gentle persuation that she will end up being fucked by another guy and more likely have a stable of guys.

Me - I am sort of looking forward to being involved, initially I guess taking some images, but also being told to suck a guys cock to get it hard, and then insert it into my wifes pussy. And of course, cleaning both of them up.

Will keep updating as we move forward, and in the meantime happy holidays everyone.

Just a brief update - as I was only told about this today, after my wife mentioned yesterday she had something 'important' to talk to me about.
It seems she has been having internet liaimisters going on with guys for some three years. I must have really had my head deep in the sand. However she talked about one guy, lets call him Tony, who she had been communicating with since about the middle of 2009 - but in the role-play of master and slave.

This banter carried on for about a year, and when she came back from being overseas for about a month, that about July 2010 she took it a step further and went to meet him.

She blurted out that she had slept with this guy. I questioned her how many times had she met and she said quite a few. So I asked was it less than six times or more and she said more.

I have not gone into too much detail with her yet as it was early this morning that she told me and so I was quite dozy, but it seems the guy is about 38yo - so about 7 years younger than her and 14 younger than me. She doesn't recall how many times she has slept with him but it seems from what I can gather at least ten times.

I think one of the reamisters she wanted to get this off her chest is that she feels she has been living a lie. And the guy 'Tony' has recently contacted her to see if he can resume the affair they had in 2010 (my wife tells me she has not met him since Xmas 2010 when he went back to see his family).

It seems the sex was good, and he treated her as his slave - so I will try and ask her questions to get a little more detail as to what he did get her to do. I know he took her to a place he knew, and that it was dark, and he fucked her on the grass under a tree. Other details I do not know at this time.

She does not have any feelings towards him which is good - and did ask me would there be any harm if this carried on to take the pressure off me. I don't know if she was looking for an answer from me when she asked that as I am still trying to digest it all.

Anyway - thats all for the moment but just needed to burst into print.

Great read so far. Keep it up!

We have been busy with our normal lives but recently had a week long break together which was great.

I am now aware that the affair my wife had with this 'Tony' guy was always in a role play situation with my wife being the slave and Tony the master. She met him both at his place and our Sydney place when I obviously was not there.

She was his slave girl, and he instructed her to do certain things, wear certain clothes, get into certain positions etc and she complied. From what I have been able to gather they met about a dozen times over about 4-5 months in 2010.

She said he could fuck her for literally hours without cumming - but she came like a train many times over. On instruction she sucked his cock but they never kissed, and he never ate her pussy.

One of the times when he called at our apartment, she opened the door, and he apparently just turned her around, got his cock out and pulled her panties to one side, and fucked her while she had her hands against the wall.

I know that a couple of months ago he took her out to dinner. Nothing happened then as my wife was trying to get over her guilt of what happened without my knowledge back in 2010.

But the texting between them has continued although not to the same extent as what has happened previously.

While on holiday we also discussed a lot about what happened between the two guys she had an affair with. I also mentioned to her that it was a fantasy of many guys to see another guy fucking their wives. She did not believe me, but I said I was open to the possibility of seeing her with 'Tony'.

So I have planted the seed - now as time progresses we shall see if things develop.

She has also been in communication with 'Peter' - the guy who wants to fuck me. It seems she may be of the view that if that happens then I would be 'gay' - although I know I am definitely not gay in so far as wanting to kiss or cuddle with the guy - but accepting his cock inside me is as far as it goes. Not really sure of what defines you as a gay permister but I dont think it defines me. I love my wife too much for that.

So where do I see this heading....well in a perfect world I can imagine a number of scenarios.

One could simply have me in a simple cuckold situation and watch 'Tony' have his way with my wife. Perhaps if he then wants to have me prepare and/or clean his cock after servicing my wife - that would be pretty hot. Ideally I would prefer that he is checked out to ensure he has got the all clear from a medical viewpoint so he could fuck her bareback. And then instruct me to eat her out.

Or an even bigger fantasy would be to have both 'Tony' and 'Peter' around at the same time, with say everyone starting off in the lounge room getting comfortable with each other and maybe the two guys massaging and touching my wife. And then we would go into separate bedrooms - with my wife being slave girl to 'Tony' and me being a slave boy to 'Peter'.

As usual will update as and when things progress.

Mmmm, yes, please keep us up to date.

Thanks for keeping this going sissybrisbaneboy really enjoy your comments and sharing your feelings. Please keep this going.

yes, I agree. Please keep us informed. Its so sweet, so sexy.

yes, I agree. Please keep us informed. Its so sweet, so sexy.

Sorry for the lack of update as nothing magical has happened since last report.
However we have been on holiday and my wife and I have been chatting as one does when work stress is not involved.
She mentioned again that 'Peter' is contacting her periodically. I admitted to her that when she saw us together the last time we all met, that he had said to me 'you know I am going to fuck you next time, don't you' and she asked what I said to him and I said 'I know'. She then asked me if I wanted to be fucked by him and I said defensively that I would prefer that he would fuck you. She reminded me that he would not do that as that is seen by him as cheating on his wife. But she now knows that I would be receptive to having him fuck me - and I think it is something I sense she wants to see. I think she will be more encouraged to arrange a mutual date for a third meeting with Peter to see where the next night leads.

Permisterally I am keener than ever to have her enjoyed by at least one if not two guys - with me servicing them prior to and during their time with her. We only have a few more days on holiday and I will continue our stres free talks with her along the above lines.

Have to go and have our sunset GnT now. Will promise to keep updated even though this is over many months.

There is a bit of a twist to this update that I am going to write about below - but I will write about the twist on another day as I am still getting my head around it.

A couple of nights ago my wife arranged to have 'Peter' visit for the third time. He was at our place for about an hour before I got there. I guess in the back of my mind I was hoping something may happen before I got there. My wife did say to me later that he said to her 'I think you should suck my cock' - but she did not do so.

When I arrived he was sitting on one part of the L shaped couch and she was on the other - but she was dressed in just a towel dressing gown and a shortie red top (no panties as I later found out).

I got myself a take and sat down with her legs on top of mine and started stroking her legs. I guess the small talk carried on for about 30 minutes or and during this time my hands were searching higher wanting to determine if she had knickers on or not.

Peter also took his shirt off and was stroking her hair or top part of her back which she was enjoying. I got up and prepared another take and dimmed the lights a little more and brought the shades down to set the mood and give a little privacy.

Soon she started kicking her legs a bit and so I removed her towelling belt and tied her legs together so she could not kick me. This was seen as a good idea by Peter and then he brought up the bottom of her robe so that we could see her bottom.

As Peter had not seen her for about 18 months (feel free to read above background) he spread her cheeks and had a good look at her bumhole and pussy from behind, and then stuck his tongue in her bumhole which I know she likes. We then took turns to spank her bum which is another thing I now know that she likes - and also enjoys it being roughly handled.

Her bathrobe was then completely removed by Peter and I turned her over so her shaved pussy was completely exposed to him. I then started eating her out and after a few moments I looked up and noticed he had already got his cock into her mouth.

I wont go on about what happened next but Peter did take my hand and put it onto his cock and got me to wank him as I was eating my wife out, and during the evening he did suck me as well. He also at various times sucked her tits and ate her out. But as he is still married we know that he would not fuck my wife.

I got behind my wife on the couch and gave her a fucking dogging style as she was sucking Peter's cock - he started more assertively powering her head down onto his cock as I pumped her. She was coming quite a few times.

After a couple of hours it was now quite late and my wife said she was going to bed and left me and Peter on the couch. I think I feigned tiredness myself as at this point I had not sucked his cock and nor did I want to at that time.

Had he been more assertive and said suck me or powerd my head down onto his cock I know I would have - but I guess there is that little something that holds me back. Anyway he did a bit of sucking of me and wanking me - and I did wank him some more.

He then when he was sucking me was starting to move his fingers around my bum hole. I was actually half prepared for this (I had douched during the day, and shaved and put a dildo up there to prepare myself) but I was also wanting to be a little passive about it all and let him use me.

He then put his cock up near my bum hole (without a condom or lube) and he did something but I know he didnt fuck me. He might have just got his head in a little bit - but I just wonder how relaxed and passive I really was because my wife told me later that Peter had said to her that he had fucked me and that my arse was now his.
Why he said this to her I am not sure but I really do know he didnt fuck me as I am pretty sure I would know about it - and he has a bigger cock than me and my dildo.

Anyway he ended up again jumping in our marital bed with him on one side and my wife on the other. I did not like this last time he visited either so I simply slept in the spare bedroom.

In the early morning as he had to leave, my wife told me he had a quick shower and then lay on top of her and gave her a cuddle and a kiss - then he left.

Now my wife is saying well who is lying - him or me. She wants to know whether he fucked me or not. I dont think I am lying and I dont know why he told her what he did - just sticking it in a little doesnt mean my arse is his. Does it?

I continue to be filled with a desire to have someone fuck her and I really do sense now she is getting stronger feelings in that area as well.

As I mentioned at the beginning there is another little twist to this story that I deduced the following day - but I need to do some work now and will come back to this later.

Hmmm, I'm eager to hear about the little twist.

I think you should just prepare yourself, dress sexy and invite Peter over to fuck you. It sounds to me like you want him to.

Maybe when he next jumps into the bed with you and wife, suggest playfully that its her turn to relax in the spare bedroom. Or suggest that she should go to Tony's place for the night.

Love to hear about any updates.....

When I wrote on 12 May I said there was a little twist and I apologise for not updating at the time.

I started writing this thread in August 2011. It did surprise me how quickly things all happened - that 'Peter' was contacted by my wife so soon after my asking her questions etc. Feel free to read the beginning.

When Peter visited last time (May 2013) I felt a little uncomfortable or surprised with some actions he did. After all this was only the third time he had visited and if it was me visiting another m/f couple then I would have at the very least brought a bottle of wine or a small gift for the lady or something. Well he did not bring anything. During the evening (after the gin and tonic I offered him) he helped himself to a new bottle of wine which I had in the cupboard asking me at the same time if I wanted a glass.

I only started thinking about that the next day.

The fact that he jumped into our marital bed on the second (and third) visit also seemed very strange to me at the time.

There was something else which escapes me at the moment that also got me thinking that his actions were somewhat odd - on the basis we had only known him for now three visits.

And generally I thought my wife seemed extra comfortable in his presence - even from the first visit.

I started talking to my wife about it and I questioned her more - and she finally admitted Peter was actually Michael (again - not real names).

Now everything of strangeness started to fall into place.

You see Michael is the permister she knew even before she met me - some 17 years ago. I was aware of this Michael as she told me things about what they did before she met me. What really annoyed me during the early part of our relationship is that she continued to correspond with him - phone call, texts and /or email. I suspect this has continued throughout our courtship and marriage but the quantum of correspondence would have varied - some peaks and troughs etc.

Michael was married at the time he met my wife and is remarried now - which we knew about. I seem to recall a bit of detail I knew about Michael and what happened between them. I knew my wife beat him (and vice versa) - they both like pleasurable pain, and they talked a lot about their kinks etc.

I knew that my wife did attend a sex place - and this was at Michaels insistence - and something I again found out after the event. I think she went a 2-3 times with him. On one of those occasions she was tied up and being handled by a woman, playing with each others boobs etc. Michael was in the same room with her being fucked by another guy.

So it all starts to fall into place - Peter/Michael being one and the same and known to my wife longer than she has known me.

And for readers who have read each posting know that my wife had a fling with a guy called Tony. We went to a outdoor musical event a few days ago and she takes some bubbly and got a little tipsy. I was just enquiring further about how long she had been meeting with Tony and it seems over what was a six month period she would meet him on a Friday and/or Sunday - so potentially twice a week.

Sometimes she would meet him at her place - other times at his place. And she told me once he blindfolded her and took her to a park at night, laid her down on the grass and fucked her.

A few days ago she also told me during their meetings he slowly and methodically encouraged her to have anal sex with him. Fuck me - that disclosure caused my little cock to get hard - why is that? She said he got her to put a finger up her arse while he watched, and then two and eventually three fingers. He wanted her to put her whole hand up there - not sure how that was going to happen.

Anyway after a bout of hard fucking by him he encouraged her to be fucked in the arse. I questioned her whether she enjoyed it - she said she did.

I think this disclosure came about because during the day I had seen her lying on the hotel bed after she had showered and was resting and I just had to lick and stick my tongue in her beautiful little butt hole. So maybe she was also thinking about that - but she also mentioned she didnt mention it previously as she was a little embarrassed about it.

I am at a stage where I need to make a decision - and maybe say to her look, feel free to meet Tony when you need to - you have my blessing. She is a hell of a lot more requiring of sex than me and I just feel (no, I know) she needs more than my cock.

If we maybe talk about it and say well you can have sex with other men on the basis it is just sex - then maybe the stress that she carries around with her will start to disappear and our overall relationship will improve.

Then there would be questions of do I get involved with being present, disclose to her my desire to prepare both of them for having sex and then on clean up duty.

My desire to see her happy is very strong. Equally I have desires as well - to be treated as a submissive permister in the bedroom, to be the one wearing at least ladies panties, and as alluded to in my posting of 13 Nov 12 to have one man fucking my wife while I am in the next room being fucked like a girl.

This thread is far from dead!! Comments most welcome.

Yeah, not sure what you should do. Keep talking to her I'd say, ask her what she wants and let her know that you just want to be in the loop and get a bit of satisfaction from time to time.
I love the idea of my wife and I sharing the same guy separately or both of us getting laid like sluts with different guys at the same time, so I know where you're coming from there.
Good luck with it. Its a great ride huh?

Happy New Year readers.....I thought I would give an update for the start of the year.

Nothing physical has happened since last report. However 'Michael' has been texting my wife (or should I say sexting) with one of his fantasies. My wife is quite open about the sexting going on and even shows me what he is writing to her. I wonder if this is to plant the seed further in my head and the reality is that she really wants it to happen - even though she says things like in his dreams or other comments - but then also might mention later that 'Michael wants you' being me.

So the scenario that Michael has told her about (in an erotic style of writing - but I will just state the meat and potatoes of the scenario) - is that he says the three of us are naked, with me on my back and they are both teasing me.

Then my wife swings he legs over my face and lowers her knees so that I am in a position to lick her. Michael then gets up and walks around to my wifes face and places his hand behind her head and then rams her mouth over his cock (not too sure if my wife liked the ram word). She wriggles to stop the gagging and he eventually releases her head before ramming his cock back in her mouth and gets into a rhythm.

Then Michael goes and sucks on my cock before taking a condom and rolling it over my cock with his lips. My wife has turned around facing Michael while I am still sucking on her clit and then Michael straddles me and eventually I enter him (and apparently I then thrust up to meet his downward thrusts) until my wife cums and I cum inside him.

Then as he gets off me I am to lift my knees to show him my arse. I left my knees higher and my wife grabs them. My arse is there and he takes me, opening up my tight hole as he pounds into me. He writes that I am in a bit of pain but I want more. He says I am an arse slut, and my wife then cums as Michael explodes.

And that is where the sext messaging has so far stopped.

I guess the only part I don't permisterally like is him powering his own arse onto my cock - not sure why but I guess I am preferably submissive with guys. I will update as things develop but comments are welcome.

I know his other fantasy that he wants to have is to fuck my wifes arse but for me to also fuck her pussy at the same time - DP her. Michael sounds like a real Bill Clinton - I did not have sexual relations with that woman - I did everything else but did not have vaginal intercourse so that means I did not have sexual relations.

Oh well - how people determine whether they are having an affair or not is up to them.

Hmmm, thats progress then, when are you planning on serving him your ass?