Just Married Still no Sex

I have not posted much but I am an avid veiwer of the site if you know my meaning. I have been engaged to my now wife for over 2 years. We are a very young couple, both of us are 23. We meet back in high school and have dated ever since. We are very comfortable together and she knows about my cuckold thoughts but is not interested yet. However she has for some time now delighted in cutting me off. Since we have been together, 7 years now, she has controled the relationship sexualy. I am not a virgin but we are not exactly making love on a nightly basis. We were married on Sat and since have not had sex. I have asked and made a move over and over again, but to no release. I was additionally cut off the entire month before the wedding which to some here is not long at all but has felt like an eternity to me.
I know that as a lover I am not able to meet all of her needs but she has also never been with another man. I am a big guy 6'2" 270 lbs built large up top from years in the gym. However I am quite small where it counts only making 4.5" on my best days. I have never once satisfied her in bed. I have been of a cuckold mind for 4 years now with increasing desire to make it happen. She has said in the past that once we were married she would like to go to a swing club. She has also said she would try cuckolding me. Her favorite canidate for the job is my best friend and best man who I have been friends with since Freshman year of high school. I have even asked him in a takesed stupper. They both like the idea but she will not make a move and he contiues to talk about my request while saying that he would never do it and I was too takes to have been serious. However the best part is the fact that he brings it up every weekend. He even made fun of my sexual abilities in his best man speach, which everyone thought was hilarious. We played football together so we are well aware of one anothers equipment. He is extremly large in comparimister to me. I have even been arelax in the same room while he was with someone and can now say that he is also able to last much longer than I can. Hard fucking I can last maybe 10 min while he was banging the headboard for about 45 min. It was so loud that the banging and the screaming woke everyone in the house.
I have no idea how to make it happen for me. At this point I dont care if he gets to fuck her or I do but I just cant take the complete lack of sex in my house.

A few thoughts:

1. It is not unusual for a new bride to not be in the mood. Weddings are often very stressful on many levels and many woman find it hard to relax enough to get really horny in the period buffering it.

2. That your wife has displayed for sometime a low sex drive (and the fact that she has never had any other sex partner than you) could mean many things. Your horn-dog little cuckold mind is saying "I don't satisfy her," but it is more likely that she is simply a low sex drive individual. If this is the case, I suspect it might be much harder for you to get her to indulge in cuckolding - especially in the quantity you'ld like.

3. The fact that your friend keeps bringing your request up and then exonerating it from you due to your inebriation can only mean he is way, way into it. He is fishing for you to break down and tell him it wasn't the take talking and you really really want it.

4. If your wife has never been with anybody else and is in the first week of her marriage the odds of her "making the first move: are about zero.

5. Even if your best friend and your wife obliged you, that would still be no sex for you, a condition that seems to be a problem for you. (In fact, given your wife tendency to take long breaks when you leave the ball entirely in her court, a sudden bout with a other guy will likely just prolong your agony.)

Do you really want this to become reality? Maybe you would be better off having a heart-to-heart with the new wife about your feelings and fantasies and how horny you are. Make sure and ask her her feelings and turn-ons and preferences as well. It may be that having her talk to you about the other guy while the two of you have sex (fucking, sucking, hand-job, whatever) is better at this stage.

If your really, really sure you want to make this a reality then you need to reassure them both. Neither your wife nor your best friend are going to be willing to take unfair advantage of you. He isn't going to act on offers made in takesen stupors, she isn't going to take license from breathy promises made by a desperately denied guy letting the little head think for the big one.

First, tell your wife about what you said to your friend and all about how he keeps bringing it up and how clear it is to you he is really turned on by her. This may intrigue her (what gets people hotter than being lusted after?) and give you the opening to renew your statements that it would be OK with you. As a new bride she is going to be very risk averse. You may say you want it, but she will be skeptical that you know yourself so well. The best thing would be to have sex with her and then tell her in the calm afterglow when your penis is soft.

As for him, you need to tell him what you want while sober and calm. Let him know that you think she finds the idea hot but is unsure about the reality.

Bottom line: Your situation requires a lot of talk before it goes anywhere. The good (?) news is that the reactions of both of them (especially him) thus far suggest that it could work.

Think carefully. Move slowly. Don't push. Good luck.
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