Lover moves in......

Bill (my lover) lost his job earlier this year and then lost his car and later his apartment. I asked Jim (hubby) if Bill could move in with us until he got back on his feet financially. Jim being the man he is agreed to the new arrangement. When hubby went to rent a truck to get Bill's things out of storage, I moved all his things out of our bedroom and into the quest room. When they returned I directed Jim to put all Bill's clothes in the master bedroom with me. After a short hesitation Jim did as he was told. Sleeping arrangements have been perfect for the past few weeks. We never lock any doors and Jim is allowed to come into our bedroom any time and watch. Bill took Jim's car so he could look for work and Jim rides the bus now, plus he travels a lot so he doesn't need a car. Bill has become very dominating lately, which I like more than the submissive Jim. During dinner he liked to tell Jim what he was going to do to me that night. One night Bill brought a couple of his beer takeing buddies home for a gangbang party with me and made Jim watch and clean me up after each had finished. It was a great night that lasted til early morning. Bill, his buddies and I slept until that afternoon but Jim had to get up early and go to work. Bill knew I loved it and has promised me many more good times like that. Bill has made a house rule that clothes are never to be worn in the house. Poor Jim is really embarrassed in walk around nude in front of Bill, but he obeys the rules. Bill and I are like a married couple now. We go shopping, to movies, out to eat, to workout and clubbing together now. So here's the question. We had Jim be the master of ceremonies and marry Bill and I last night. We swapped rings and everything, then had our honeymoon. After the wedding Bill told me he wanted to impregnant me. Which I think if I were to get pregnant, I would rather it be with Bill's genes than Jim's. Am I pushing this thing to far? Jim is a doll about everything and has not complained one time. I love Jim very much but, I do love to fuck and Jim is not able to do enough for me in that department. Please HELP with your advice.

Hi Juicy
Ok, Im going to answer like this is a real situation and not a story. Because Im familiar with that situation myself. Re: Advice.. You can do anything that You, Jim, and Bill decide to do. or what you decide and they do... The key is to be honest. Put it all on the table and you 3 deal with it. You know outcome. You have to get past fear.. thats why you're asking for advice. Deal with this issue. Any family, friends, kids, friends, neighbors, work associaated, bosses, strangers, who ever...how will you deal with them? Here's the point.. If you do something alternative and you commit then have the security in your situation to not worry or be concerned or hide your situation because that is weakness in your reality...If it's cool with you, Bill and Jim then dont have quilt.... fck what people say or think.. Put it on the Table and tell Jim.. and let the cards fall where they fall... and deal with it... that's at least HONEST... and that's the way to deal with life secure.. strong .. without guilt... without stress.. etc. ... with clear conscious...

Observation.

We seem to speak of cuckolding as if there is one relationship. My observations are that there are many such relationships, and differing degrees.

In some cases, submitting is a fantasy of the cuck couple. They play the game, or "dance". As long as the cuck reverts to his "partnership" role at the end of the "dance", he is still the woman's partner.

However, when it is a lifestyle, and the 'dance' never ends, it is no longer a game, it becomes real.

The Cuck loses his postion as partner, and is effectively excluded from the gene pool as being inferior and not worthy of passing on his genes. The bull becomes the partner, the permanent "Alpha".

Do not mistake me for making a value or moral judgement. This is neither good nor bad, it just is.

In canines, the subordinate males are always waiting for the opportunity to unseat the alpha and become leader, with the privelige of mating.

So, here's what happened. Wife takes a lover, in the cuck tradition. With the passage of time, she begins to see her lover as the real alpha male and begins to lose her sexual attraction to the husband. But the husband is still the provider, so she needs him, and cares for him.

Cares for him like a brother, like a man, like a friend.... Like a gay friend?

So, it is no longer a game, it is real. The new guy is the husband. Now the old husband might not have any reamister to hang on. What is he getting? If he has the alpha traits, he will move on.

Here is the only concern that I have. Is the new alpha a good provider? Presumably, you were with the old husband because he is a good provider.

What about the young? Will the young come into a stable home? Are you clear on what is happening? Is the bull now willing to assume responsiblity for the suppport of the home? Can you be sure that the cuck will stay and provide for the young?

I know of one 'cuck' who has successfully disposed of two wives by hooking them up with "Bulls". The wives were enamoured of their new lovers, seeing the cuck as being inferior. After the cuckoldresses decided that the 'Bull" was superior, the husband was free to leave.

After the cuck was gone, each of the wives discovered the reality that their "bulls" were not good providers, and they had "cucked" themselves out of perfectly good husbands in return for unempoyable, dishonest jerks.

Just a big cock does not a good partner make.
I will make you crazy.

Upon review, I want to add one more thing.

It is normal to "feel" that the Bull should impregnate you. He is, physically, the Alpha.

But we are intellectual beings. He who wields the physical power does not always wield ultimate power.

It is important to choose our mates on an intellectual and emotional basis. If we love and trust a partner, ANY partner can provide for our physical needs. As evidenced by the 'cuck' game.

Making a choice of partners based primarily upon 'feelings' is how women end up in committed relationships with irresponsible and dishonest, but attractive men.
I will make you crazy.