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I'm retired (mostly) from the lifestyle, but I'll do my best.
Even though I insisted on open discussions with couples before and after our encounters, there was always some element of the unexpected.
Jealousy, insecurity, anger, confusion.... mostly from the husbands, happened. Assuring them that I wasn't trying to break up their marriage didn't always work. It helped that the wife joined me in efforts to clear things up.
From the first couple I was involved with, I made it clear that they both had to agree to our arrangement. Getting spouses to accept it revealed a lot.
No one said 'no'.
I also wanted those wives to consider 'laying down the law' to their husbands. No sex while I was visiting. Him going from the man of the house to a 'girlfriend' for us both.
You have to think on your feet. The same method that works for one cuckold usually doesn't fit most others.
Some need assurances. Some left their doubts aside in the heat of the moment. Some can't handle it past a certain point.
You'll know when the instinct to become assertive clicks in. Being unpredictable helps.
Not sure if this helps. But if you have any questions, I'll be here to answer them.
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