Finally, a situation that worked!

My wife has deflected my past attempts to get her into bed with another man (though she is wonderfully understanding about my urges!), UNTIL she stumred into a situation where she had her own reamisters for wanting to make it happen.

Several months ago she joined a gym where she met a number of new people, including a nice, educated, somewhat younger guy (we're 40's, he's 30's) who was relatively new to town. A veteran and physician, he has a lot going for him, but has been too busy to meet real friends since coming to our area.

He asked my wife to coffee several weeks ago. She turned him down, but did not completely drive him away, and she told me what had happened immediately. I urged her to accept the next time he asked, arguing that he obviously needs some friends, and it can't do any harm. I didn't push her to have sex with him, but I knew she liked the cut of his jib and would think of it herself.

It took all of two weeks and maybe 3 meetings for coffee after the gym before she found an excuse to stop by his apartment on the way home, and ended up giving him a blowjob on his couch. She hadn't asked permission before hand, but confessed all that evening. And, it was pretty obvious I would react well, given things we've discussed in the past.

I'm not sure where we go now. She feels she took a step too far. But, it really turned her on and she confesses to thinking about it every night when she masturbates in bed. I think it is just a matter of time until she is back on her knees.
darslangly

very nice...

don't push. If you reacted in the right ways, she now knows she has permission, and that you are turned on

This will end up with a lot of fucking. Believe me

And, as she now have done it once (i.e. with one guy), and enjoyed it, surely it will be easier with other men

Congrat's
A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women

Sounds great! That was not a step to far, that is (hopefully) a big step forward...in the right direction. This could be the start of something fun and enjoyable for all those involved.

Good luck, keep encouraging her...as you have been, and enjoy the ride.

Thanks for the 'thumbs up's; it is pretty cool. I brought it up with her last night when I went to bed after posting, and she is a little conflicted and a lot turned on by what she did. At the moment, she thinks that what she wants is to keep her own pants on and focus on providing him with semi-regular oral sex; I think her idea is that if she treats him as a sort of sexual charity case it is less morally compromising. Whatever; it is all cool to me! Her response is interesting because she has always been a willing but not especially ravenous giver of blow jobs, and now it is all she can think of doing when she rubs one out. I think that the taboo nature of what she did has eroticized the act so now she finds it very exciting. Anyway, she'll see him at the gym again later this week and is sure to strike up a conversation...
darslangly

Thats ok, my wife use to give me blow jobs a lot when we dated early on. As time went on blow jobs were less and less. Now, not at all. Over the last couple years the only permister to get the blow jobs was her bf...and that lasted only a year.

DarsLangly, that's a pretty hot story! I've suggested and even encouraged my wife to have sex with another man. She's never done it, at lest to my knowledge, but I'm hoping that eventually "the right situation" will also happen to her. She's got another upcoming convention the first weekend in March, and this morning I suggested that she go out a day early just to enjoy the city, but if she did that it would be $150 to change her ticket. I'm thinking that I'll volunteer to pay that if she really wanted to go early. The last time she was out of town like that she called me from the cuckold water store with someone from her convention asking me which type of Gin it was that she liked. I about came in my pants when she told me that a man was with her, but I'm pretty sure that nothing happened. Just another cuck wannabe here. I read Allan's story about his wife's baby steps, and I'm hoping for the same with my own wife. That was very HOT Alan!