Quoting: SheDatesHeWaits
You can't "order" guys that meet your specifications. Everyone is different. Some of the guys your wife finds may be okay with you present and watching. Others won't want you near. You have to learn to work with the various permisteralities, recognizing that there is only so much control you'll have when you include another permister.
So true, as a bull that likes the hubby to be involved I can say one of the hardest things to deal with is a hubby trying to control the situation. The hubby needs to realize he cant tailor fit a bull to his fantasies. He should just be grateful his wife is getting used properly...Dont get me wrong he can have limits but the bull and his wife should be making the decisions..